December 17th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier
As
I read in Proverbs today, I was struck by this verse: "When pride
comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." (Proverbs
11:2 NIV) I don't know about you, but I long for wisdom. I never
realized that pride can prevent the receipt of God's wisdom. I often
find myself trying to control my personal world with problem-solving,
scheduling, and planning. Instead of relying on God and seeking his
wisdom throughout the day, I rely on my own wisdom. Maybe the same is
true for you, too.
Proverbs 11:2 points out that being prideful leads to disgrace. I would much rather center myself and my decision-making on the foundation of God's wisdom than relying on myself and living in disgrace. As women across the community, let's pray that God will bestow upon us his wisdom. As wise women, led by the Lord, we can have a greater impact on our families, neighborhoods, workplaces, and church.
Proverbs 11:2 points out that being prideful leads to disgrace. I would much rather center myself and my decision-making on the foundation of God's wisdom than relying on myself and living in disgrace. As women across the community, let's pray that God will bestow upon us his wisdom. As wise women, led by the Lord, we can have a greater impact on our families, neighborhoods, workplaces, and church.
December 10th, 2014 ~ Proverbs 31 Ministries: Shame on Me, Again.
November 26th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~Pennies From Heaven
Phil 4: 19 And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
Sometimes believers fail to give what God has called them to do because they are afraid they will not have enough for themselves. We can never outgive God! We need to be confident that He will supply all our needs and more, especially when we are following His will.
After my husband died, I didn’t know how I would make ends meet. How will I raise and support my children? I put my faith and trust in Him. I continued to give to God with both my time and my finances. There were times when I wasn’t sure how I would pay some of my bills, but He always provided. There was a time where I was praying for $150. I prayed for 5 days, not sure if I was crazy or not, but trusted for Him to provide. I went down to the mailbox and there was a letter from a group of unknown men with a cashier’s check for $150. They signed the letter “Pennies from Heaven”. No one can tell me my God doesn’t provide. Over the next 6 years, every time that I was in need (sometimes it was 6 months, sometimes a year) I would find one of those letters in the mail. Always for the exact amount that I needed and always signed “Pennies from Heaven”.
I realized that my blessings aren’t for me, but for Him. God isn’t limited by a lack of faith, He provides in spite of it, allowing us to continue to grow and share His countless blessings with others. There are numerous stories in both the Bible and throughout our lives that show how much God provides, even when we least expect it. I want to encourage you to trust God to provide, and when He does, share your story! Others need to hear of God’s provision in your life. It will encourage them in their faith and increase their trust in Him!
Sometimes believers fail to give what God has called them to do because they are afraid they will not have enough for themselves. We can never outgive God! We need to be confident that He will supply all our needs and more, especially when we are following His will.
After my husband died, I didn’t know how I would make ends meet. How will I raise and support my children? I put my faith and trust in Him. I continued to give to God with both my time and my finances. There were times when I wasn’t sure how I would pay some of my bills, but He always provided. There was a time where I was praying for $150. I prayed for 5 days, not sure if I was crazy or not, but trusted for Him to provide. I went down to the mailbox and there was a letter from a group of unknown men with a cashier’s check for $150. They signed the letter “Pennies from Heaven”. No one can tell me my God doesn’t provide. Over the next 6 years, every time that I was in need (sometimes it was 6 months, sometimes a year) I would find one of those letters in the mail. Always for the exact amount that I needed and always signed “Pennies from Heaven”.
I realized that my blessings aren’t for me, but for Him. God isn’t limited by a lack of faith, He provides in spite of it, allowing us to continue to grow and share His countless blessings with others. There are numerous stories in both the Bible and throughout our lives that show how much God provides, even when we least expect it. I want to encourage you to trust God to provide, and when He does, share your story! Others need to hear of God’s provision in your life. It will encourage them in their faith and increase their trust in Him!
November 19th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Christy Yonta ~ FEAR
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear. . . “ 2 Timothy 1:7
Fear is a very real emotion that many of us experience throughout life. Whether it is fear of death, fear of failing, fear of being let down or fear of the unknown, our lives can be crippled by fear. Recently I had a frightening experience and I found myself consumed by fear. After much prayer, I came to the conclusion that I could either live in fear OR believe that my God is bigger than my situation and move forward in the freedom Christ offers me.
In choosing to overcome this fear, I was reminded of 2 Corinthians 9:8 “. . .God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in ALL things at ALL times, having ALL that you need, you will abound in every good work.” Paul does not write “a few things” or “at sometimes,” rather he writes in ALL things and at ALL times God is for us. We as Christians will face fearful situations, but even during these times we are challenged to find hope and joy believing that God will be glorified through them. His promise is that it will turnout for the good of His children and His promises never fail.
Fear is a very real emotion that many of us experience throughout life. Whether it is fear of death, fear of failing, fear of being let down or fear of the unknown, our lives can be crippled by fear. Recently I had a frightening experience and I found myself consumed by fear. After much prayer, I came to the conclusion that I could either live in fear OR believe that my God is bigger than my situation and move forward in the freedom Christ offers me.
In choosing to overcome this fear, I was reminded of 2 Corinthians 9:8 “. . .God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in ALL things at ALL times, having ALL that you need, you will abound in every good work.” Paul does not write “a few things” or “at sometimes,” rather he writes in ALL things and at ALL times God is for us. We as Christians will face fearful situations, but even during these times we are challenged to find hope and joy believing that God will be glorified through them. His promise is that it will turnout for the good of His children and His promises never fail.
November 12th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ Sharpening My Sword
Now that I have retired, I find myself very busy. One of my goals for using my time wisely is to re-read the Bible from Genius to Revelation. Not only read it , but relate it to my current lifestyle. I realize that I need to sharpen my sword daily by reading His word and conversing with my Christian friends. Otherwise, I am vulnerable to earthly weaknesses and unaware of the consequences of making bad choices. Having knowledge of the Bible prepares me for each day and guides me down a path where I will make good decisions.
Psalm 119: 105 ~ "Your word is a lamp to my feet and light for my path." It is my guide and the foundation of my faith."
I have really enjoyed reading Genesis and Exodus because it gives me hope and strength in knowing God has a plan for me just as He had plans for His people. The events and characters convey that no matter how many bad decisions they made, God was there to guide and love them. He is still doing that today in our lives but we must sharpen our sword in His word to help us discern between right and wrong.
Another technique to sharpen my sword is participating in a weekly small group called "Life Lessons" facilitated by Pam Newton. Discussing His word and relating it to other Christian friends' experiences has helped me reflect on His word.
Proverbs 27:17 ~ "As iron sharpens iron, so does one man sharpen another."
God sees us in what we will become not just for what we are right now. I will continue to sharpen my sword in His word.
Philippians 1:9-11 "And this is my prayer that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ to the glory and praise of God."
I challenge you today to sharpen your sword by scheduling a special daily time to read His word and develop a relationship with him and join a small group. It is such a blessing!
Psalm 119: 105 ~ "Your word is a lamp to my feet and light for my path." It is my guide and the foundation of my faith."
I have really enjoyed reading Genesis and Exodus because it gives me hope and strength in knowing God has a plan for me just as He had plans for His people. The events and characters convey that no matter how many bad decisions they made, God was there to guide and love them. He is still doing that today in our lives but we must sharpen our sword in His word to help us discern between right and wrong.
Another technique to sharpen my sword is participating in a weekly small group called "Life Lessons" facilitated by Pam Newton. Discussing His word and relating it to other Christian friends' experiences has helped me reflect on His word.
Proverbs 27:17 ~ "As iron sharpens iron, so does one man sharpen another."
God sees us in what we will become not just for what we are right now. I will continue to sharpen my sword in His word.
Philippians 1:9-11 "And this is my prayer that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ to the glory and praise of God."
I challenge you today to sharpen your sword by scheduling a special daily time to read His word and develop a relationship with him and join a small group. It is such a blessing!
November 5th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ Security
I don't know about you, but sometimes I get nestled into my little comfort-zone. There is a joke among my family and friends that I live within a 3-mile bubble since my home, workplace, son's school, and TC3 are all within very close proximity. Recently I began thinking about how little I am required to lean on God for guidance and protection when I am so comfortable in this microcosm I've established. I took a hard look at my life and have determined that I need to take more risks. My routine life is not opening me up to rely on God; I am relying on self, instead. This is never a good position in which to be.
Habakkuk 2:4 states, "but the righteous will live by his faith." As you reflect on your life, I wonder if you are living by faith. Are you putting yourself out there for God, relying on Him to guide your every step? If not, join me in shaking up our lives for God. Let us begin our day by asking God to show us what He wants us to do today and be willing to throw aside whatever we have planned. His way is always better and will yield much greater results than if we continue to live safe lives that we work so hard to control.
Habakkuk 2:4 states, "but the righteous will live by his faith." As you reflect on your life, I wonder if you are living by faith. Are you putting yourself out there for God, relying on Him to guide your every step? If not, join me in shaking up our lives for God. Let us begin our day by asking God to show us what He wants us to do today and be willing to throw aside whatever we have planned. His way is always better and will yield much greater results than if we continue to live safe lives that we work so hard to control.
October 22nd, 2014 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Convenient Christianity
“Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your father in heaven.”
Matthew 5:16
A friend shared this joke with me the other day: A man is being tailgated by a woman who’s in a hurry. He comes to an intersection and when the light turns yellow he hits the brakes. The woman behind him goes ballistic. She honks her horn, yells profanities and gestures with her finger. As she’s ranting and raving someone taps on her window. To her horror she looks up and sees a policeman. He invites her out of her car where she’s searched, fingerprinted and put in a cell. After a couple of hours she’s released and the arresting office gives her her personal effects and says, “I’m very sorry for the mistake, ma’am. I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn and using ugly gestures and foul language. I noticed the ‘What would Jesus do?’ bumper sticker, the ‘Choose Life’ license plate holder, the ‘Follow me to Sunday school’ window sign and the peace emblem on your trunk, so I naturally assumed you had stolen the car.”
Obviously that Christian wasn’t doing a very good job at following Christ. I laughed but it got me to thinking. The world gets turned off by people who have Christian bumper stickers on their cars, Christian peace signs on their trunks, Christian books on their shelves, Christian stations on their radios and TVs, Christian jewelry around their necks, Christian videos for their kids, Christian magazines on their coffee tables, but who don’t have the life of Jesus in their bones or the love of Jesus in their hearts. Am I one of those who profess Christianity but when the rubber hits the road I fall way short? As Gordon said in church a couple of Sundays ago, “Do I behave outside these walls the same way I do inside these walls?” Do I live out my faith? Do I put my faith into action? Do my actions lead people to Christ or turn them off to Christ? Do I love only those who are easy to love and steer clear of those who are not? In other words, do I have “Convenient Christianity?” I hope not!
Please, Heavenly Father, when it comes to my faith let me say what I mean and mean what I say. Let the light of Christ shine through me no matter what situation I find myself in. Help me to live my life in such a way that it brings people to the cross, not steer them away from you.
Matthew 5:16
A friend shared this joke with me the other day: A man is being tailgated by a woman who’s in a hurry. He comes to an intersection and when the light turns yellow he hits the brakes. The woman behind him goes ballistic. She honks her horn, yells profanities and gestures with her finger. As she’s ranting and raving someone taps on her window. To her horror she looks up and sees a policeman. He invites her out of her car where she’s searched, fingerprinted and put in a cell. After a couple of hours she’s released and the arresting office gives her her personal effects and says, “I’m very sorry for the mistake, ma’am. I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn and using ugly gestures and foul language. I noticed the ‘What would Jesus do?’ bumper sticker, the ‘Choose Life’ license plate holder, the ‘Follow me to Sunday school’ window sign and the peace emblem on your trunk, so I naturally assumed you had stolen the car.”
Obviously that Christian wasn’t doing a very good job at following Christ. I laughed but it got me to thinking. The world gets turned off by people who have Christian bumper stickers on their cars, Christian peace signs on their trunks, Christian books on their shelves, Christian stations on their radios and TVs, Christian jewelry around their necks, Christian videos for their kids, Christian magazines on their coffee tables, but who don’t have the life of Jesus in their bones or the love of Jesus in their hearts. Am I one of those who profess Christianity but when the rubber hits the road I fall way short? As Gordon said in church a couple of Sundays ago, “Do I behave outside these walls the same way I do inside these walls?” Do I live out my faith? Do I put my faith into action? Do my actions lead people to Christ or turn them off to Christ? Do I love only those who are easy to love and steer clear of those who are not? In other words, do I have “Convenient Christianity?” I hope not!
Please, Heavenly Father, when it comes to my faith let me say what I mean and mean what I say. Let the light of Christ shine through me no matter what situation I find myself in. Help me to live my life in such a way that it brings people to the cross, not steer them away from you.
October 15th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Authenticity in All Things
This weekend my husband took me to ‘HogWild’ which is an annual motorcycle event held in Fort Pierce. The ‘biker’ culture is full of things that fall out of the social norms for most people. It has become important to me to be the same person at church as I am at home, with friends, or at an event such as this. I choose clothing that I normally wear and fixed my hair and nails as I do every day. I do this knowing that the women who attend the event would be wearing leather, chains, sculls, lots of black, and some very revealing items of clothing. One look at me and you’d realize that I did not look like the other women at the event and did not fit in. I am not supposed to fit in, I am in this world, but not of this world. I choose to dress, speak, and act differently because that’s who I am and I do not want to allow my environment to define me. This is not to be better than those around me, it is to be true to who I really am.
As a young woman I had a very different point of view and I took on the behaviors and speech of the people around me. Then of course I left that behind on Sunday when I marched into church and pretended that it must have been some other woman, because surely I wouldn’t do that. Duplicity is a great sin that keeps us from growing in the faith. We hide our sin because we care about what others think, and yet we do not turn from it. We do what we can to protect our sin, and holding it as an idol in our lives we cause the voice of the Holy Spirit to extinguish. Soon we become the hypocrites that Jesus rebuked in the bible.
We must get to a point where we decide to honor God with our lives, where ever we may be or with whomever. We must desire a life of authenticity and transparency, to be the same woman in Christ all the time. This is where we must decide who we serve, ourselves or our God. Joshua 24:15 said it best, “But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, …But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD."
As a young woman I had a very different point of view and I took on the behaviors and speech of the people around me. Then of course I left that behind on Sunday when I marched into church and pretended that it must have been some other woman, because surely I wouldn’t do that. Duplicity is a great sin that keeps us from growing in the faith. We hide our sin because we care about what others think, and yet we do not turn from it. We do what we can to protect our sin, and holding it as an idol in our lives we cause the voice of the Holy Spirit to extinguish. Soon we become the hypocrites that Jesus rebuked in the bible.
We must get to a point where we decide to honor God with our lives, where ever we may be or with whomever. We must desire a life of authenticity and transparency, to be the same woman in Christ all the time. This is where we must decide who we serve, ourselves or our God. Joshua 24:15 said it best, “But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, …But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD."
October 8th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Christy Yonta ~ Christ is Enough for Me
“Christ is enough for me everything I need is in Him.” Hillsong
We often sing those words during worship or say them as encouragement, but do we truly believe the words we are saying? And if we believe them are we allowing those words to influence the way we live our lives?
I am reminded of the story of Job and how everything he had was stripped away, yet he continued to put his hope in God and to praise Him for His sovereignty. I have wondered if my reaction would be the same. If I lost my health, my family, my vocation, my home, would I still put my hope in God and believe that He is sovereign and in His sovereignty He is good.
All of these blessings are good, but when we put more importance on them than our relationship with God, they become distractions and sometimes we come to believe we cannot live without them. I was asked if I was stranded on a desert island alone and could only have one thing what would I choose. I remember I contemplated it and could not come up with an answer because there were so many things I thought I could not live without. But as I have grown and have weathered storms and trials and have lost loved ones, I have realized that everything here on earth is temporary and I really do not need any of it.
If I was asked that today, I would choose my Bible because that is God’s love letter to me and would be a constant reminder of how loved and cherished I am, even alone on an island, because I am daily learning that Christ is not just enough for me, He is more than enough for me.
2 Peter 1:3 “His divine power has given us everything we need for a Godly life through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.”
We often sing those words during worship or say them as encouragement, but do we truly believe the words we are saying? And if we believe them are we allowing those words to influence the way we live our lives?
I am reminded of the story of Job and how everything he had was stripped away, yet he continued to put his hope in God and to praise Him for His sovereignty. I have wondered if my reaction would be the same. If I lost my health, my family, my vocation, my home, would I still put my hope in God and believe that He is sovereign and in His sovereignty He is good.
All of these blessings are good, but when we put more importance on them than our relationship with God, they become distractions and sometimes we come to believe we cannot live without them. I was asked if I was stranded on a desert island alone and could only have one thing what would I choose. I remember I contemplated it and could not come up with an answer because there were so many things I thought I could not live without. But as I have grown and have weathered storms and trials and have lost loved ones, I have realized that everything here on earth is temporary and I really do not need any of it.
If I was asked that today, I would choose my Bible because that is God’s love letter to me and would be a constant reminder of how loved and cherished I am, even alone on an island, because I am daily learning that Christ is not just enough for me, He is more than enough for me.
2 Peter 1:3 “His divine power has given us everything we need for a Godly life through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.”
October 1st, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Truth Tellers
In Jeremiah 43 during the Babylonian invasion, a remnant of Judah asked Jeremiah to pray for God’s direction about where they should go. 10 days later, Jeremiah received the answer from God and called the people together to tell them what God said. God’s response differed from what the people felt should be done, so they accused Jeremiah of lying. They didn’t want the truth unless it agreed with the direction they felt they should go. They were not looking for the truth, what they were looking for was validation. The people went their own way and perished just as God said. Jeremiah 43 is a prime example of a people asking for God’s direction and then not following it.
How many times do we ask for direction from God only to go our own way? In the Galations we find an account of Paul vs Peter, Paul was in a position of publicly correcting an elder of the church, one of 3 apostles in Christ’s inner circle. This must have been a difficult thing for Paul to do since he didn’t know Jesus as long as Peter did, and a difficult thing for Peter to hear. Paul had the spiritual discernment to rise above the emotional trauma of the crisis: he saw the terrible consequences of Peter's actions. Praise God that Peter was not so entrenched in his own way that he was not willing to hear the council of the other spirit inspired disciple of Christ.
So why when we seek direction from God is it necessary at times to hear from other Godly people? One reason is that your personal direction may not be the direction of your household, employees, or ministry, and the prayer and council of Godly people will help us understand the difference. For example, God may be telling a pastor that he’s doing too much and needs a break, but what if he took that to mean his ministry should slow down and he decides to suspend Sunday services? Sometimes we have tunnel vision and do not see the big picture from a Godly perspective, and other times our strong feelings and emotions can get away from us. God uses the truth of scripture and he uses the Godly people he put around us to help direct our path. These people are truth tellers, they are not afraid to tell us the truth whether we are ready to receive it or not.
Father I pray that we open our hearts to your council by whatever method you use to deliver it, that you forgive us of the pride that keeps us going our own way and not yours. Please surround us with Godly people who you will use to deliver the truth, encourage, support, and love us.
How many times do we ask for direction from God only to go our own way? In the Galations we find an account of Paul vs Peter, Paul was in a position of publicly correcting an elder of the church, one of 3 apostles in Christ’s inner circle. This must have been a difficult thing for Paul to do since he didn’t know Jesus as long as Peter did, and a difficult thing for Peter to hear. Paul had the spiritual discernment to rise above the emotional trauma of the crisis: he saw the terrible consequences of Peter's actions. Praise God that Peter was not so entrenched in his own way that he was not willing to hear the council of the other spirit inspired disciple of Christ.
So why when we seek direction from God is it necessary at times to hear from other Godly people? One reason is that your personal direction may not be the direction of your household, employees, or ministry, and the prayer and council of Godly people will help us understand the difference. For example, God may be telling a pastor that he’s doing too much and needs a break, but what if he took that to mean his ministry should slow down and he decides to suspend Sunday services? Sometimes we have tunnel vision and do not see the big picture from a Godly perspective, and other times our strong feelings and emotions can get away from us. God uses the truth of scripture and he uses the Godly people he put around us to help direct our path. These people are truth tellers, they are not afraid to tell us the truth whether we are ready to receive it or not.
Father I pray that we open our hearts to your council by whatever method you use to deliver it, that you forgive us of the pride that keeps us going our own way and not yours. Please surround us with Godly people who you will use to deliver the truth, encourage, support, and love us.
September 17th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ The Return
"Even now," declares The Lord, "return to Me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning." Joel 2:12
Believers go through seasons during which they are close to the Lord, and other times when they feel distant from Him. Of course it is us, not God, who fluctuates in proximity. At times we are entrenched in His Word, continuously in prayer, and we actively pursue God. We feel Him guiding us, directing our steps and working in our lives.
When we have distanced ourselves, by not pursuing Him, not spending time in the Word, and even allowing sin creep into our lives, we must find our way back to God. Sometimes it's hard to find the way back to Him, but take comfort in knowing that he desires your return to Him! You have never gone far enough away that return is impossible.
To draw near to Him again, we are told in this verse to return to God with all our heart. That is an abstract idea, but it is qualified by what follows: fast, weep and mourn. Fasting requires personal sacrifice and communicates to God that we are serious in our pursuit of Him. It is challenging to fast, but yields incredible results. As you grow more and more hungry, you will be reminded to pray and commune with God.
Weeping, as I see it here, can mean tears of gratitude and hope in the Lord. Though we are not deserving of God's willingness to accept our return, He is still there, with arms wide open. Weeping over the opportunity to return to our Father and His love, can be extremely cathartic. Weeping can also be in the form of remorse. As we realize that it is us who has stepped away from God, we can feel ashamed that we have let down our creator and savior. This is a type of mourning. We can mourn the loss of a sinful behavior or ungodly relationship from which we are returning. We can mourn the death of self as we return to living for God.
No matter what has taken place to separate you from the Lord, you can choose to turn back to Him right now. Repent and fast, weep and mourn, and take steps toward restoring your relationship with God. He loves you and has already forgiven you. He eagerly awaits your return.
Believers go through seasons during which they are close to the Lord, and other times when they feel distant from Him. Of course it is us, not God, who fluctuates in proximity. At times we are entrenched in His Word, continuously in prayer, and we actively pursue God. We feel Him guiding us, directing our steps and working in our lives.
When we have distanced ourselves, by not pursuing Him, not spending time in the Word, and even allowing sin creep into our lives, we must find our way back to God. Sometimes it's hard to find the way back to Him, but take comfort in knowing that he desires your return to Him! You have never gone far enough away that return is impossible.
To draw near to Him again, we are told in this verse to return to God with all our heart. That is an abstract idea, but it is qualified by what follows: fast, weep and mourn. Fasting requires personal sacrifice and communicates to God that we are serious in our pursuit of Him. It is challenging to fast, but yields incredible results. As you grow more and more hungry, you will be reminded to pray and commune with God.
Weeping, as I see it here, can mean tears of gratitude and hope in the Lord. Though we are not deserving of God's willingness to accept our return, He is still there, with arms wide open. Weeping over the opportunity to return to our Father and His love, can be extremely cathartic. Weeping can also be in the form of remorse. As we realize that it is us who has stepped away from God, we can feel ashamed that we have let down our creator and savior. This is a type of mourning. We can mourn the loss of a sinful behavior or ungodly relationship from which we are returning. We can mourn the death of self as we return to living for God.
No matter what has taken place to separate you from the Lord, you can choose to turn back to Him right now. Repent and fast, weep and mourn, and take steps toward restoring your relationship with God. He loves you and has already forgiven you. He eagerly awaits your return.
September 3rd, 2014 ~ Rightly Handling the Word of Truth (Bible Study Tool)
Are you unable to fit a Small Group into your fall schedule, yet you want to dig into the word.... but, you don't know where to begin. There are a lot of great tools out there for reading the bible & studying the word. In this Audio session from The Gospel Coalition Women's Conference, Carrie Sandom shares how she leads a Women's Study direct from the pages of the Bible.
This is a great way to study on your own, with a friend(s), or your accountability partner/mentor.
The Bible Tool Kit #2 - Rightly Handling the Word of Truth
This is a great way to study on your own, with a friend(s), or your accountability partner/mentor.
The Bible Tool Kit #2 - Rightly Handling the Word of Truth
August 27th, 2014 ~ Gearing Up for Small Groups
Small Groups are just around the corner. Have you been held back from joining a small group because you worry you are not versed enough in the Bible to follow along? Maybe, you need a little refresher after a long summer break. Either way, there a great resources out there from Bible reading plans and online synopsis to help. This summer, two of the Women's Ministry Team attended a conference in Orlando. This week, in preparation for Small Groups, we'd like to share one of the workshops with you. When you click on the link, you will be redirected to a page where you can download the audio recording (not video) of the workshop; as well as, a worksheet you can print to take notes as you follow along.
The Bible Tool Kit #1 - The Story of the Bible: Creation to New Creation:
The Bible Tool Kit #1 - The Story of the Bible: Creation to New Creation:
August 20th, 2014 ~ Back to School Prayer
Father God, we pray this week for our teachers, students and other staff members that are heading back to school. We pray for the buses and cars that transport our students, and those who walk along the roads. Let them get to and from the destinations, each day, safely. May our schools be a safe environment for our children, teachers and faculty. May they provide shelter, food and safety to those in need. Give our students wisdom to make good choices, may they stand firm in their convictions and be a light to their peers. May the teachers see the best in their students, encouraging them to do their best and rise above expectations. May they find the support they need from their administrators. May those in charge make decisions that are best for the students and not their own agendas. Bless this school year, the students, parents and faculty. Be present in the hallways, classrooms and in the hearts of those who can share you. Amen.
August 13th, 2014 ~ From "Streams in the Dessert" by John Ruskin
He withdrew... to a solitary place (Matthew 14:13)
There is no music during a musical rest, but the rest is part of the making of the music. In the melody of our life, the music is separated here and there by rests. During those rests, we foolishly believe we have come to the end of the song. God sends us time of forced leisure by allowing sickness, disappointed plans, and frustrated efforts. He brings a sudden pause in the choral hymns of our lives, and we lament that our voices must be silent. We grieve that our part is missing in the music that continually rises to the ear of our Creator. Yet how does a musician read the rest? He counts the break with unwavering precision and plays his next note with confidence, as if no pause were ever there.
God does not write the music of our lives without a plan. Our part is to learn the tune and not be discouraged during the rests. They are not to be slurred over or omitted, nor used to destroy the melody or to change the key. If we will only look up, God Himself will count the time for us. With our eyes on Him, our next note will be full and clear. If we sorrowfully say to ourselves, "There is no music in a rest," let us not forget that the rest is part of the making of the music. The process is often slow and painful in this life, yet how patiently God works to teach us! And how long He waits for us to learn the lesson!
John Ruskin
From Streams in the Desert 1/22/2013
There is no music during a musical rest, but the rest is part of the making of the music. In the melody of our life, the music is separated here and there by rests. During those rests, we foolishly believe we have come to the end of the song. God sends us time of forced leisure by allowing sickness, disappointed plans, and frustrated efforts. He brings a sudden pause in the choral hymns of our lives, and we lament that our voices must be silent. We grieve that our part is missing in the music that continually rises to the ear of our Creator. Yet how does a musician read the rest? He counts the break with unwavering precision and plays his next note with confidence, as if no pause were ever there.
God does not write the music of our lives without a plan. Our part is to learn the tune and not be discouraged during the rests. They are not to be slurred over or omitted, nor used to destroy the melody or to change the key. If we will only look up, God Himself will count the time for us. With our eyes on Him, our next note will be full and clear. If we sorrowfully say to ourselves, "There is no music in a rest," let us not forget that the rest is part of the making of the music. The process is often slow and painful in this life, yet how patiently God works to teach us! And how long He waits for us to learn the lesson!
John Ruskin
From Streams in the Desert 1/22/2013
August 6th, 2014 ~ Encouraging Words - It is going to be O.K.
You are not alone. You will be ok. God is greater than your struggles, obstacles and difficulties.
John 16:33 - I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”
My mom answered the phone. “Hey! What are you up to?” I asked casually even though I knew that she was sitting at her desk at work – just like she was every Tuesday at 2:15. I think she answered me, but I wasn’t really listening. Honestly, she could have told me that she was meeting the President for afternoon tea and I likely would have still continued as I did. “Yeah? Oh. That sounds important. I’m sure that will go well…. Hey, wanna hear a funny story?”
I ended the pleasantries abruptly and began to share the reason for my call. I didn’t want to sound panicked – even though I was. So, I continued as though I had just seen the funniest thing..... CONTINUE READING, CLICK HERE.
John 16:33 - I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”
My mom answered the phone. “Hey! What are you up to?” I asked casually even though I knew that she was sitting at her desk at work – just like she was every Tuesday at 2:15. I think she answered me, but I wasn’t really listening. Honestly, she could have told me that she was meeting the President for afternoon tea and I likely would have still continued as I did. “Yeah? Oh. That sounds important. I’m sure that will go well…. Hey, wanna hear a funny story?”
I ended the pleasantries abruptly and began to share the reason for my call. I didn’t want to sound panicked – even though I was. So, I continued as though I had just seen the funniest thing..... CONTINUE READING, CLICK HERE.
July 30th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ Who Are You?
For in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. - Galatians 3:26-28
In the last few weeks I have had an opportunity to read a few different books, all from authors I had never heard of before. Each of the books were published within the last year. The topics covered everything from diversity within the church to international missions. Yet, there was an underlying theme in each one, that I couldn't escape noticing. Maybe, it was because I was reading the books in succession, and if there were more time between them, I wouldn't have caught it. Or, perhaps, God is laying something on the hearts of his people. Each delivering this message in a different way, to a different group of people.
This underlying theme was all about identity. How do you identify yourself? Who are you?
If someone were to ask you those questions, how would you answer? I am a teacher. I am a woman. I am a mother. I am a doctor. I am a wife. I am a dreamer. I am an artist. I am a writer. I am a leader. I am Hispanic. I am a volunteer. I am a student. I am an advocate. I am a speaker.
And while all, some, or just one, of these statements may be true about you; that is not all that you are. In fact, there is something even more important. You are a Christian. You are an image bearer of God.
Too often we can allow ourselves to get so rooted in our position, platform, or passions, that we allow that to become our identity. We become known for our words, skills, dedication, or gifts and not the God who gave those things to us. We unknowingly begin taking the credit for it, and our identity in Christ takes second or third rung.
In the book Unified, in regard to diversity, the author states that we should be identifying as brothers and sisters in Christ first, before our ethnicity. That is what unifies the body, despite our differences.
In the book Made for More (about women), the author states that we should identify with our brothers and sister in Christ first, before our gender. I am a Christian woman... not a woman, who is also a Christian.
We are Christians, who are parents. We are Christians, who are missionaries. We are Christians, who are teachers. We are Christians, who are African American. We are Christians, who are advocates for victims of domestic violence.
When we begin to acknowledge that first in ourselves, and others, it can change everything about how you think, act and serve.
Father God, I praise you for the wonderful Creator that you are. You have made us all so different, yet unified us as members of your family. I thank you for our gifts and the passions you have laid on our hearts. May they be used to serve you, and for your glory. In Jesus name, Amen.
In the last few weeks I have had an opportunity to read a few different books, all from authors I had never heard of before. Each of the books were published within the last year. The topics covered everything from diversity within the church to international missions. Yet, there was an underlying theme in each one, that I couldn't escape noticing. Maybe, it was because I was reading the books in succession, and if there were more time between them, I wouldn't have caught it. Or, perhaps, God is laying something on the hearts of his people. Each delivering this message in a different way, to a different group of people.
This underlying theme was all about identity. How do you identify yourself? Who are you?
If someone were to ask you those questions, how would you answer? I am a teacher. I am a woman. I am a mother. I am a doctor. I am a wife. I am a dreamer. I am an artist. I am a writer. I am a leader. I am Hispanic. I am a volunteer. I am a student. I am an advocate. I am a speaker.
And while all, some, or just one, of these statements may be true about you; that is not all that you are. In fact, there is something even more important. You are a Christian. You are an image bearer of God.
Too often we can allow ourselves to get so rooted in our position, platform, or passions, that we allow that to become our identity. We become known for our words, skills, dedication, or gifts and not the God who gave those things to us. We unknowingly begin taking the credit for it, and our identity in Christ takes second or third rung.
In the book Unified, in regard to diversity, the author states that we should be identifying as brothers and sisters in Christ first, before our ethnicity. That is what unifies the body, despite our differences.
In the book Made for More (about women), the author states that we should identify with our brothers and sister in Christ first, before our gender. I am a Christian woman... not a woman, who is also a Christian.
We are Christians, who are parents. We are Christians, who are missionaries. We are Christians, who are teachers. We are Christians, who are African American. We are Christians, who are advocates for victims of domestic violence.
When we begin to acknowledge that first in ourselves, and others, it can change everything about how you think, act and serve.
Father God, I praise you for the wonderful Creator that you are. You have made us all so different, yet unified us as members of your family. I thank you for our gifts and the passions you have laid on our hearts. May they be used to serve you, and for your glory. In Jesus name, Amen.
July 23rd, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Birthing Pains
Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places. All these are the beginning of birth pains. Matt 24:7-8
I’ve been following the news lately and looking closely at the events in Ukraine and Russia’s behavior toward the countries who oppose them. Meanwhile, a war wages in Israel with the terrorist group Hamas. CNN reported the following: On Monday, Hamas top terrorist Ismail Haniyeh again reiterated that the terror group would fight “until the last drop of blood” in its attempts to destroy Israel. “We will continue the struggle until we liberate the land, Jerusalem, and the Al-Aqsa Mosque, and return the 'refugees' to their homes,” he said.
Arutz Sheva news reported the following just today, For the first time in the history of Iraq, Mosul is now empty of Christians,” Patriarch Louis Sako lamented to the British Telegraph, as hundreds of families fled ahead of a noon deadline. Christians fled for their lives when the ISIS threatend to put to death those who refuse to convert to Islam or pay them a tax for “protection”. Mosul, a spiritually dark place has just had their last candle blown out.
What does this all mean? Is this the birth pains Jesus mentioned? Many Christians believe it is. What matters is that we keep watch and we are always ready. Whether we are caught up or we pass away, we do not know the day or the hour that we leave this planet. We need to be ever vigilant, keeping our eyes on our prize and proclaiming Him to all who will listen. Please continue to pray for Israel and for the families who have suffered personal losses in that conflict. I encourage everyone to read all of Matthew 24 this week and let’s encourage each other to remain faithful and keep watch.
I’ve been following the news lately and looking closely at the events in Ukraine and Russia’s behavior toward the countries who oppose them. Meanwhile, a war wages in Israel with the terrorist group Hamas. CNN reported the following: On Monday, Hamas top terrorist Ismail Haniyeh again reiterated that the terror group would fight “until the last drop of blood” in its attempts to destroy Israel. “We will continue the struggle until we liberate the land, Jerusalem, and the Al-Aqsa Mosque, and return the 'refugees' to their homes,” he said.
Arutz Sheva news reported the following just today, For the first time in the history of Iraq, Mosul is now empty of Christians,” Patriarch Louis Sako lamented to the British Telegraph, as hundreds of families fled ahead of a noon deadline. Christians fled for their lives when the ISIS threatend to put to death those who refuse to convert to Islam or pay them a tax for “protection”. Mosul, a spiritually dark place has just had their last candle blown out.
What does this all mean? Is this the birth pains Jesus mentioned? Many Christians believe it is. What matters is that we keep watch and we are always ready. Whether we are caught up or we pass away, we do not know the day or the hour that we leave this planet. We need to be ever vigilant, keeping our eyes on our prize and proclaiming Him to all who will listen. Please continue to pray for Israel and for the families who have suffered personal losses in that conflict. I encourage everyone to read all of Matthew 24 this week and let’s encourage each other to remain faithful and keep watch.
July 16th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Carol Mularski ~ What Did Jesus Do?
Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did. 1 John 2:6
What would Jesus do? The WWJD movement started in 1989 when a youth group in Holland, Michigan, studied Charles Sheldon's novel, In His Steps. Sheldon challenged parishioners to ask themselves "What would Jesus do?" before every move they make. This youth group took Sheldon's challenge to heart, by making colorful bracelets as a tangible reminder of that powerful question. By the late 90's, WWJD bracelets flooded the Christian market as it became the personal motto for Christians as a reminder of their belief in a moral imperative to act in a manner that would demonstrate the love of Jesus to a lost world. Multi-millions of bracelets have been sold, but the message of WWJD should not be taken for granted due to overexposure.
Let's look at what Jesus did: Jesus “had to” go through Samaria (John 4:4) because He had an appointment with a certain woman at the well. Jesus also told Zacchaeus, "I must stay at your house today" (Luke 19:5). And He told His disciples that He “must go” to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, chief priests and teachers of the law, and that He must be killed and on the third day be raised to life (Matt 16:21). For Jesus, it was not even a question. He had to do it. When was the last time any of us have been “compelled” to walk across the street for God? I hope today we will listen to the voice that compels us and step into the same status Paul and Silas held in Acts 17:6, "These men who have caused trouble all over the world have now come here." I’m feeling like doing a little damage for the Kingdom. How about you? Obedience should not even be a question. We must do it!
To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 1 Peter 2:1
What would Jesus do? The WWJD movement started in 1989 when a youth group in Holland, Michigan, studied Charles Sheldon's novel, In His Steps. Sheldon challenged parishioners to ask themselves "What would Jesus do?" before every move they make. This youth group took Sheldon's challenge to heart, by making colorful bracelets as a tangible reminder of that powerful question. By the late 90's, WWJD bracelets flooded the Christian market as it became the personal motto for Christians as a reminder of their belief in a moral imperative to act in a manner that would demonstrate the love of Jesus to a lost world. Multi-millions of bracelets have been sold, but the message of WWJD should not be taken for granted due to overexposure.
Let's look at what Jesus did: Jesus “had to” go through Samaria (John 4:4) because He had an appointment with a certain woman at the well. Jesus also told Zacchaeus, "I must stay at your house today" (Luke 19:5). And He told His disciples that He “must go” to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, chief priests and teachers of the law, and that He must be killed and on the third day be raised to life (Matt 16:21). For Jesus, it was not even a question. He had to do it. When was the last time any of us have been “compelled” to walk across the street for God? I hope today we will listen to the voice that compels us and step into the same status Paul and Silas held in Acts 17:6, "These men who have caused trouble all over the world have now come here." I’m feeling like doing a little damage for the Kingdom. How about you? Obedience should not even be a question. We must do it!
To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 1 Peter 2:1
July 9th, 2014 ~ Micca Campbell - Prov. 31 Ministries: Stuck Between a Rock & Hard Place
I sat in disbelief as my doctor explained the results of my ultrasound. “There’s a large cyst with tentacles that has consumed your left ovary,” she explained. “We need to schedule surgery as soon as possible. In my expert opinion, there’s a 70% chance you may have ovarian cancer.”
While my body felt numb, my mind raced with unanswered questions: What does this mean for me and my family? How will I get through this?
READ THE REST OF THIS DEVOTION HERE!
While my body felt numb, my mind raced with unanswered questions: What does this mean for me and my family? How will I get through this?
READ THE REST OF THIS DEVOTION HERE!
July 2nd, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ Conversations with God
I lifted up my head and He said "I'm not done with you yet".
Yes! I'm retiring from the educational system after 35 years. I have been reflecting on my past and exciting new adventures of my future journey. I have been asked "What are you going to do when you retire and why you are not concerned?" My answer is that God planned it out for me long before I was born.
I have had many conversations with God over the different seasons of my life. I would like to share some of the ways that I relate with Him.
John 14: 26 "But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you". He has spoken to me through my conscience letting me know right from wrong as I walk through the temptations and difficulties of life. He provides me with the tools of the Fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).
He speaks to me through His word and my friends. Relying on the Bible and listening to my close friends has guided me to a better understanding of my day. I pray that I can be a better listener and offer prayers for them (Hebrews: 4:12).
I can't forget about worship because I love to praise Him with song and dance! I really feel His presence (Palms 150).
He speaks to me in circumstances. Many times I have no control of situations and He always takes my hand to lead me through the storms of life. Most important, my prayers are a continuous way to keep my communication with God. Prayer clears my mind and helps me to follow what He is telling me to do next.
Please take some time to look up these scriptures and reflect on your ways of communicating with God.
So, retirement is looking amazing because I know God is a creative and loving God who communicates with me on a daily basis. Isaiah 55:3 "Listen now, my people and come to me."
Looking Upward,
Susan
Yes! I'm retiring from the educational system after 35 years. I have been reflecting on my past and exciting new adventures of my future journey. I have been asked "What are you going to do when you retire and why you are not concerned?" My answer is that God planned it out for me long before I was born.
I have had many conversations with God over the different seasons of my life. I would like to share some of the ways that I relate with Him.
John 14: 26 "But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you". He has spoken to me through my conscience letting me know right from wrong as I walk through the temptations and difficulties of life. He provides me with the tools of the Fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).
He speaks to me through His word and my friends. Relying on the Bible and listening to my close friends has guided me to a better understanding of my day. I pray that I can be a better listener and offer prayers for them (Hebrews: 4:12).
I can't forget about worship because I love to praise Him with song and dance! I really feel His presence (Palms 150).
He speaks to me in circumstances. Many times I have no control of situations and He always takes my hand to lead me through the storms of life. Most important, my prayers are a continuous way to keep my communication with God. Prayer clears my mind and helps me to follow what He is telling me to do next.
Please take some time to look up these scriptures and reflect on your ways of communicating with God.
So, retirement is looking amazing because I know God is a creative and loving God who communicates with me on a daily basis. Isaiah 55:3 "Listen now, my people and come to me."
Looking Upward,
Susan
June 25, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ Do Not Panic!
It was one of those moments that can send a parent into a panic. My van wouldn't' start. I was stranded at home. My children were not. I was leaving the house to pick them up from VBS and the van wouldn't start. My children were stranded at the church.
I left a message for one of the volunteers. But, the longer it took for me to hear back, the more panicked I was. Thus began a mass of phone calls and text messages to every volunteer I knew would be there after the initial exodus of parents and children. Every parent that I knew would be there picking up their children. Particularly the ones I knew would most likely linger to talk or help afterwards.
All of this despite my knowledge that my children were safe, couldn't possibly be in a better location for this to have had happened, full of people who would know something must have happened for me to not be there. I knew that someone would notice my children, and even if everyone I reached out to didn't see my number or text on their phones, I'd be getting a phone call from the church. I knew my children wouldn't be left behind.
Yet I was a wreck. I was in a panic. I just needed to know that someone got my message. I needed that reassurance to settle my panic.
The enemy knows what buttons to push. He knows the things that upset us, worry us, concern us and frighten us. He will use this knowledge to find ways to disrupt our peace, corrupt our thinking, obscure our clarity and tear at our hearts.
Isaiah 41:10 reads "Do not panic. I'm with you. There is no need to fear because I am your god. I'll give you strength. I'll help you. I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you.
Father God, you are faithful to your promises and your word tells us that no word from you will ever fail. In my weakness you are my strength. In my pain you are my comforter. Help me Lord, to ignore the influence of the enemy and rely on your word. Help me to abandon my fears and worries and keep my trust in your promises. I have nothing to fear, for you are my protector, my refuge, my rock and I lay my burdens at your feet. Amen.
I left a message for one of the volunteers. But, the longer it took for me to hear back, the more panicked I was. Thus began a mass of phone calls and text messages to every volunteer I knew would be there after the initial exodus of parents and children. Every parent that I knew would be there picking up their children. Particularly the ones I knew would most likely linger to talk or help afterwards.
All of this despite my knowledge that my children were safe, couldn't possibly be in a better location for this to have had happened, full of people who would know something must have happened for me to not be there. I knew that someone would notice my children, and even if everyone I reached out to didn't see my number or text on their phones, I'd be getting a phone call from the church. I knew my children wouldn't be left behind.
Yet I was a wreck. I was in a panic. I just needed to know that someone got my message. I needed that reassurance to settle my panic.
The enemy knows what buttons to push. He knows the things that upset us, worry us, concern us and frighten us. He will use this knowledge to find ways to disrupt our peace, corrupt our thinking, obscure our clarity and tear at our hearts.
Isaiah 41:10 reads "Do not panic. I'm with you. There is no need to fear because I am your god. I'll give you strength. I'll help you. I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you.
Father God, you are faithful to your promises and your word tells us that no word from you will ever fail. In my weakness you are my strength. In my pain you are my comforter. Help me Lord, to ignore the influence of the enemy and rely on your word. Help me to abandon my fears and worries and keep my trust in your promises. I have nothing to fear, for you are my protector, my refuge, my rock and I lay my burdens at your feet. Amen.
June 18, 2014 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Flash Me
“Declare His glory among the nations, His wonders among all the people.”
Psalm 96:3
I love those YouTube videos of train stations or shopping malls where the busyness of traveling or shopping is interrupted by someone standing and just erupting in song and dance. To the surprise of all, another person gets up and joins in, and then another, and another. These are called “Flash Mob” videos. I especially like the one presented at Christmastime where the food court at a mall resounds with the celebrative harmonies of the “Hallelujah Chorus.”
It makes me think of Gordon’s sermon last Sunday about being Christ’s ambassadors: bringing the glory of God into the ordinary situations of our world through the beautiful harmonies of God’s Word is exactly what we are called to do today. While I might not have the talent or the courage to stand up in the middle of the Food Court at the Treasure Coast Mall and starting singing and dancing, there are times where I can interject God’s grace and forgiveness where someone needs a second chance; of sharing Christ’s love with someone who is needy; lifting up a friend who is weary of life’s troubles; or trying to bring peace to a chaotic or angry situation. In his latest song With Every Act of Love, Jason Gray writes, “God put a million, million doors in the world for His love to walk through, one of those doors is you.”
Let’s surprise our own worlds with “Flash Me’s” showcasing the love and wonder of Christ shining through us!
Thank you, Lord, for filling us with the grace to take Your glory “public” through the way we act and react toward others.
Psalm 96:3
I love those YouTube videos of train stations or shopping malls where the busyness of traveling or shopping is interrupted by someone standing and just erupting in song and dance. To the surprise of all, another person gets up and joins in, and then another, and another. These are called “Flash Mob” videos. I especially like the one presented at Christmastime where the food court at a mall resounds with the celebrative harmonies of the “Hallelujah Chorus.”
It makes me think of Gordon’s sermon last Sunday about being Christ’s ambassadors: bringing the glory of God into the ordinary situations of our world through the beautiful harmonies of God’s Word is exactly what we are called to do today. While I might not have the talent or the courage to stand up in the middle of the Food Court at the Treasure Coast Mall and starting singing and dancing, there are times where I can interject God’s grace and forgiveness where someone needs a second chance; of sharing Christ’s love with someone who is needy; lifting up a friend who is weary of life’s troubles; or trying to bring peace to a chaotic or angry situation. In his latest song With Every Act of Love, Jason Gray writes, “God put a million, million doors in the world for His love to walk through, one of those doors is you.”
Let’s surprise our own worlds with “Flash Me’s” showcasing the love and wonder of Christ shining through us!
Thank you, Lord, for filling us with the grace to take Your glory “public” through the way we act and react toward others.
June 11th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jennifer Chevalier ~ Speaking God's Truth
Let’s face it, there are always going to be people who don’t like us, no matter how hard we try. We want to be liked by others and can become consumed with analyzing what we may have done wrong or how we can get people to change their minds about us. Does God call us to be liked by everyone, though? Jesus, who never sinned, was certainly not liked by everyone. There are lessons we can learn from his interactions with people. The most important lesson is that Jesus was always truthful. He didn’t tell people what they wanted to hear, so that He would be liked. He told the truth so that people would accept salvation and live according to the Word of God.
In a conversation I had recently with an acquaintance, it was revealed that she was thinking of ending her marriage. Her justification was that God would want her to be happy and she couldn’t be happy while married to her husband. I found myself nodding along to her comment, because I wanted her to feel I was supportive. God convicted me instantly because I had not spoken the truth to her. What I should have said was, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Mark 10:9. I needed to encourage her to stay the course, to fight for her marriage, to do whatever it takes to make it work, but I didn’t in the moment. God allowed my inaction to weigh on me until I went back to the person and spoke the Truth.
Much of the time, speaking God’s Truth to others will strengthen a relationship. It will either lead a person to Christ or solidify their walk with Christ. Sometimes, however, speaking the truth to someone can cost us the relationship. Wouldn’t that be the better outcome, however, than if we had given poor counsel and led a person down a path away from Christ? That would have eternal consequences! “A truthful witness saves lives, but a false witness is deceitful.” Proverbs 14:25. Let us always be mindful of speaking Truth into others life, in a loving, non-judgmental way.
In a conversation I had recently with an acquaintance, it was revealed that she was thinking of ending her marriage. Her justification was that God would want her to be happy and she couldn’t be happy while married to her husband. I found myself nodding along to her comment, because I wanted her to feel I was supportive. God convicted me instantly because I had not spoken the truth to her. What I should have said was, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Mark 10:9. I needed to encourage her to stay the course, to fight for her marriage, to do whatever it takes to make it work, but I didn’t in the moment. God allowed my inaction to weigh on me until I went back to the person and spoke the Truth.
Much of the time, speaking God’s Truth to others will strengthen a relationship. It will either lead a person to Christ or solidify their walk with Christ. Sometimes, however, speaking the truth to someone can cost us the relationship. Wouldn’t that be the better outcome, however, than if we had given poor counsel and led a person down a path away from Christ? That would have eternal consequences! “A truthful witness saves lives, but a false witness is deceitful.” Proverbs 14:25. Let us always be mindful of speaking Truth into others life, in a loving, non-judgmental way.
June 4th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ It's Not My Gift
I had a conversation with a woman about speaking the truth to a believer who was headed in a bad direction. When I suggested that she speak the truth to this person, her response was, “Isn’t my gift”. I was stunned. When did speaking the truth become a gift? This is not the first time I’ve heard that response from her, and I began to think about hearing it from others as well as using it myself.
How often do we play the ‘It’s not my gift’ card when we are uncomfortable with a choice God puts in front of us and we chose the easy way instead of the God way? Are we using it as an excuse for direct disobedience, and if so, what does that say about our faith? James 1:22 says “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says”. Christ didn’t say it would be easy or comfortable, He said to be his disciple, we had to deny ourselves and take up our cross and follow Him. He never called us to put on blinders and look the other way in uncomfortable situations. Let’s commit to doing the right thing regardless of the cost and following Him.
God, give me the courage to follow you in obedience in all situations. Reveal to me the times where I fall short. Do not let me make excuses for my failures, but acknowledge them before you and ask your forgiveness. Strengthen my faith. Amen
How often do we play the ‘It’s not my gift’ card when we are uncomfortable with a choice God puts in front of us and we chose the easy way instead of the God way? Are we using it as an excuse for direct disobedience, and if so, what does that say about our faith? James 1:22 says “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says”. Christ didn’t say it would be easy or comfortable, He said to be his disciple, we had to deny ourselves and take up our cross and follow Him. He never called us to put on blinders and look the other way in uncomfortable situations. Let’s commit to doing the right thing regardless of the cost and following Him.
God, give me the courage to follow you in obedience in all situations. Reveal to me the times where I fall short. Do not let me make excuses for my failures, but acknowledge them before you and ask your forgiveness. Strengthen my faith. Amen
May 28th, 2014 ~ Tracie Miles - Proverbs 31 Ministries: Enjoying the Seasons of Parenting
Excerpt from Tracie Mile's Devotion, Proverbs 31 Ministries
"I began to ponder all I would miss with two daughters living away at college this fall, instead of just one. Although my son still has a few years left at home, I had to face the reality that this season of my parenting was coming to a close. And my heart felt heavy."
To read the rest of Tracie Miles devotion, click the link below.
"I began to ponder all I would miss with two daughters living away at college this fall, instead of just one. Although my son still has a few years left at home, I had to face the reality that this season of my parenting was coming to a close. And my heart felt heavy."
To read the rest of Tracie Miles devotion, click the link below.
May 21st, 2014 ~ Contributor: Christy Yonta ~ Trusting God
“Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he shall direct your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NKJV)
I was recently listening to Hillsong’s Oceans and was taken aback by the phrase “Spirit lead me where my trust is without borders.” I started to wonder what my life would look like if I trusted God without borders. I imagine being blindfolded and hearing God direct my footsteps and obeying him without question because I completely and wholly trust that he is in control and always has my best interest at heart. To take the next step with total abandon as to what could come my way because He is my eyes. Another example that comes to mind is an infant. A baby has to completely and wholly trust their parents because they are incapable of doing anything for themselves. They trust that mom or dad will feed them so they do not starve, change their clothes, provide shelter for them and soothe their crying. It is so easy in our daily lives to worry about our situations. But in Proverbs we are told to Trust the Lord with every fiber of our being and he will direct our path. How awesome is that promise!
Do you trust Him with your family, your heart, your career, your successes and your failures? My prayer is that I will come to the point where I am totally surrendered to God’s will because I have come to trust Him without borders.
I was recently listening to Hillsong’s Oceans and was taken aback by the phrase “Spirit lead me where my trust is without borders.” I started to wonder what my life would look like if I trusted God without borders. I imagine being blindfolded and hearing God direct my footsteps and obeying him without question because I completely and wholly trust that he is in control and always has my best interest at heart. To take the next step with total abandon as to what could come my way because He is my eyes. Another example that comes to mind is an infant. A baby has to completely and wholly trust their parents because they are incapable of doing anything for themselves. They trust that mom or dad will feed them so they do not starve, change their clothes, provide shelter for them and soothe their crying. It is so easy in our daily lives to worry about our situations. But in Proverbs we are told to Trust the Lord with every fiber of our being and he will direct our path. How awesome is that promise!
Do you trust Him with your family, your heart, your career, your successes and your failures? My prayer is that I will come to the point where I am totally surrendered to God’s will because I have come to trust Him without borders.
May 14th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Carol Mularski ~ A Mother's Love
And this is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him. 1 John 5:14-15
A few weeks ago, I read an article in the newspaper about a mom of a two year old who was watching her friends dog. The dog wanted to get acquainted with the little girl and began smelling her. The smell did not sit well with him, so he began to attack this little girl. In an attempt to save her child’s life, this young mom punched the dog in the face, shoved her fist down his throat and literally chewed his ear off!
It’s amazing what a mom will do to protect her children. I often think about the extremes that we will go to for our kids, but I wonder if we are missing the most important task of them all! The forefront of our minds should be continuously focused on their salvation and spiritual well being. I often wonder if I spend too much time thinking about their food and clean clothes, and not enough timepraying for sensitive hearts toward Him!
This is just a friendly reminder. Our kids spiritual lives are hanging in the balance and prayer is the way God has allowed us to participate in what He is doing!
Don’t underestimate the power of prayer!
It’s the greatest thing you could ever do for your kids!
A few weeks ago, I read an article in the newspaper about a mom of a two year old who was watching her friends dog. The dog wanted to get acquainted with the little girl and began smelling her. The smell did not sit well with him, so he began to attack this little girl. In an attempt to save her child’s life, this young mom punched the dog in the face, shoved her fist down his throat and literally chewed his ear off!
It’s amazing what a mom will do to protect her children. I often think about the extremes that we will go to for our kids, but I wonder if we are missing the most important task of them all! The forefront of our minds should be continuously focused on their salvation and spiritual well being. I often wonder if I spend too much time thinking about their food and clean clothes, and not enough timepraying for sensitive hearts toward Him!
This is just a friendly reminder. Our kids spiritual lives are hanging in the balance and prayer is the way God has allowed us to participate in what He is doing!
Don’t underestimate the power of prayer!
It’s the greatest thing you could ever do for your kids!
May 7th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Dana Clark ~ Rejoicing in the Good and the Bad Times
"I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord." - 1 Samuel 1:27-28
As we approach Mother's Day, I often think about the women in my life that desire to be a Mom but are barren. Recently studying through the story of Hannah in 1st Samuel 1, I came across a woman who was faced with the same desire, yet God had closed her womb. In the midst of her circumstances, she lived in a house where she was constantly in competition for her husband. She had a rival who reminded her of her barrenness, but Hannah was committed to God. At this point in the story, her family is on their way to celebrate the Festival of Booths, a time when they reflect on the blessings God has given them. Hannah could have easily stayed home, but she didn't. She used this opportunity to pour her heart out to the Lord. She made a commitment to God that if He were to give her a son, she would give him back to the Lord. As she prayed, the priest heard and assured her that God heard her prayers and she would have a son. By the following year she gave birth to a son, and she didn't forget the promise she made to the Lord. When he was weaned, she brought him to the temple to serve with the Priest. After leaving her son, that she had prayed for and longed for, she rejoiced!
Hannah was able to rejoice in the good times and the bad times.
What impact do trying times have on your worship, and how can that change for you today?
God, I thank you for always being faithful even when I stray. I thank you for always knowing what is best for me and looking out for my best interest. Help me Lord, no matter what circumstance I am in, to rejoice in You. Amen.
As we approach Mother's Day, I often think about the women in my life that desire to be a Mom but are barren. Recently studying through the story of Hannah in 1st Samuel 1, I came across a woman who was faced with the same desire, yet God had closed her womb. In the midst of her circumstances, she lived in a house where she was constantly in competition for her husband. She had a rival who reminded her of her barrenness, but Hannah was committed to God. At this point in the story, her family is on their way to celebrate the Festival of Booths, a time when they reflect on the blessings God has given them. Hannah could have easily stayed home, but she didn't. She used this opportunity to pour her heart out to the Lord. She made a commitment to God that if He were to give her a son, she would give him back to the Lord. As she prayed, the priest heard and assured her that God heard her prayers and she would have a son. By the following year she gave birth to a son, and she didn't forget the promise she made to the Lord. When he was weaned, she brought him to the temple to serve with the Priest. After leaving her son, that she had prayed for and longed for, she rejoiced!
Hannah was able to rejoice in the good times and the bad times.
What impact do trying times have on your worship, and how can that change for you today?
God, I thank you for always being faithful even when I stray. I thank you for always knowing what is best for me and looking out for my best interest. Help me Lord, no matter what circumstance I am in, to rejoice in You. Amen.
April 30th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ The Woman I Want to Be
"I didn't always know what I wanted to do, but I knew the kind of woman I wanted to be." - Diane Von Furstenburg
It is very easy, in life, to be focused on what we want to do. We want to be successful. We want to be a doctor, lawyer, actress, writer, a wife, a mother, a friend, a mentor, etc. We want to be a lot of things, but when do we spend time thinking and dreaming about the kind of woman we want to be?
Scripture has some great women, women of worthy character that we can study. We can learn from Esther, we can submit to God like Mary, we can have wisdom like Deborah and we can even try to attain the Proverbs 31 Woman status. One thing I have learned, though, is that their stories are as unique to their life, as their fingerprints are to their body.
God had an individual plan for each of those women, and He shaped their lives and formed the pathways to get them to His purpose. No two stories, or journeys, were the same.
Instead of looking at the successes of other people, we need to seek God's purpose in our life. We need to reach out to Him and ask for Him to move us, and guide us. While we wait for His response, we don't need to sit around. Waiting for God is active, we have things to do "in the mean time". We can work on our character as women of God. Honest. Dependable. Modest. Humble. Wise. Compassionate. Gracious. Merciful. Submissive. Prayerful. Students of the Word. Generous. Ethical. Loving. Positive. More directly, Matthew 5:1-12 reads:
Now when he saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to Him, and He began to teach them, saying: Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
If we want to begin working on our character, and defining what kind of woman we want to be.... we can start in His Word, pray for His guidance, and never give up trying to be better than we were the day before.
Lord, I pray that you help me to become the woman you created me to be. Walk with me along the way, holding my hand, catching me when I stumble and setting me back on the straight path. Help me to refine myself to be the best example of having Christ in my life, as possible. Amen.
It is very easy, in life, to be focused on what we want to do. We want to be successful. We want to be a doctor, lawyer, actress, writer, a wife, a mother, a friend, a mentor, etc. We want to be a lot of things, but when do we spend time thinking and dreaming about the kind of woman we want to be?
Scripture has some great women, women of worthy character that we can study. We can learn from Esther, we can submit to God like Mary, we can have wisdom like Deborah and we can even try to attain the Proverbs 31 Woman status. One thing I have learned, though, is that their stories are as unique to their life, as their fingerprints are to their body.
God had an individual plan for each of those women, and He shaped their lives and formed the pathways to get them to His purpose. No two stories, or journeys, were the same.
Instead of looking at the successes of other people, we need to seek God's purpose in our life. We need to reach out to Him and ask for Him to move us, and guide us. While we wait for His response, we don't need to sit around. Waiting for God is active, we have things to do "in the mean time". We can work on our character as women of God. Honest. Dependable. Modest. Humble. Wise. Compassionate. Gracious. Merciful. Submissive. Prayerful. Students of the Word. Generous. Ethical. Loving. Positive. More directly, Matthew 5:1-12 reads:
Now when he saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to Him, and He began to teach them, saying: Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
If we want to begin working on our character, and defining what kind of woman we want to be.... we can start in His Word, pray for His guidance, and never give up trying to be better than we were the day before.
Lord, I pray that you help me to become the woman you created me to be. Walk with me along the way, holding my hand, catching me when I stumble and setting me back on the straight path. Help me to refine myself to be the best example of having Christ in my life, as possible. Amen.
April 22nd, 2014 ~ 4 Keys to Finding the Perfect Mentor (Margaret Feinberg)
Mentorship is something that comes up in conversation occasionally in Women's Ministry Leadership meetings. What does it look like TODAY? Who needs it? Who fill that need? Is it something that can be a program rolled out by the church, or an individual quest for each person? Author Margaret Feinberg has a great article about finding the perfect mentor. We hope you enjoy reading it, and prayerfully consider mentorship in your life. Psalm 119:130 The unfolding of your words gives light; it imparts understanding to the simple. ~ TC3 Women's Ministry
Over the years, I’ve found some incredible mentors in my life—people who have spoken words of wisdom and guidance into our marriage, finances, personal life, and ministry. These people have left me wonderstruck by the richness they've added into my life. But to be honest, finding such people hasn’t been easy. At times, I’ve reached out to people I hoped would become mentors who didn’t respond, didn’t have time, or didn’t particularly connect with the idea. Other times, I’ve waited for people to reach out to me, even dropping hints along the way, but the relationship never developed. CONTINUE READING...
Here are four keys I’ve discovered to finding the perfect mentor: TO CONTINUE READING MARGARET'S PIECE ON MENTORS, CLICK HERE!
Over the years, I’ve found some incredible mentors in my life—people who have spoken words of wisdom and guidance into our marriage, finances, personal life, and ministry. These people have left me wonderstruck by the richness they've added into my life. But to be honest, finding such people hasn’t been easy. At times, I’ve reached out to people I hoped would become mentors who didn’t respond, didn’t have time, or didn’t particularly connect with the idea. Other times, I’ve waited for people to reach out to me, even dropping hints along the way, but the relationship never developed. CONTINUE READING...
Here are four keys I’ve discovered to finding the perfect mentor: TO CONTINUE READING MARGARET'S PIECE ON MENTORS, CLICK HERE!
April 16th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ The God of Peace
John 14:27 " Peace I leave you, my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."
How often do you wish for a little peace and joy? It seems that I am in a war with myself in trying to find peace. Satan wants to constantly steal my peace! Last week, I was in the mode of FEAR!!! However, I was reminded by the Holy Spirit to continue to ask for peace and joy. I did this throughout the day under my breath. The good news is it miraculously worked!! I am finding that the more I speak out loud, I feel the Holy Spirit taking control. He gives me His everlasting peace. My faith has saved the day once again! We must be willing to accept the peace and joy from Him through difficult situations and to continue with peace in precious moments.
Dear God, May I continue to seek all your wondrous gifts that you provide for us. I know that if I ask, you will convey your true inner peace. I put my total trust in you and thank you for your Son who shed his blood on the cross so that we are allowed to have peace and your promises are always kept.
Amen
Colossians 3:15
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts"
How often do you wish for a little peace and joy? It seems that I am in a war with myself in trying to find peace. Satan wants to constantly steal my peace! Last week, I was in the mode of FEAR!!! However, I was reminded by the Holy Spirit to continue to ask for peace and joy. I did this throughout the day under my breath. The good news is it miraculously worked!! I am finding that the more I speak out loud, I feel the Holy Spirit taking control. He gives me His everlasting peace. My faith has saved the day once again! We must be willing to accept the peace and joy from Him through difficult situations and to continue with peace in precious moments.
Dear God, May I continue to seek all your wondrous gifts that you provide for us. I know that if I ask, you will convey your true inner peace. I put my total trust in you and thank you for your Son who shed his blood on the cross so that we are allowed to have peace and your promises are always kept.
Amen
Colossians 3:15
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts"
April 9th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ A Father's Love
1 John 4:9&10 By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God had sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we have loved God, but that He loved us and sent His son to be the propitiation for our sins.
We as Christians often question the extent of God's love for us. When things are going well, we think "He loves me". When things go wrong, we think "He loves me not". I got the promotion, He loves me. My husband left me, He loves me not. His love is not just an emotion, decision, or action but simply who He is. 1 John 4:8 "For God is love".
He had promised to love us, unconditionally. If he only loved us sometimes, that would me that His character or attitude changes. But, God never changes. He is the one thing in our lives that always remains consistent. His love is not contingent on us. Whether or not we go to church, tithe, witness, pray enough, and never sin. God's affection is always the same. You can't do anything to deserve it, and you can't do anything to keep Him from loving you.
Just as in the story of the prodigal son, He is showing us the extent of His love. When do you think the father loved his son the most? Some people would say when he gave him the inheritance before he died. Others would say, when the son returned. The truth is the father loved him the same no matter what. He loved him when he gave him the inheritance, and he loved him every day that he was gone. For him to have been able to run up the road to greet him when he returned, means that he was looking down that road awaiting his return, probably every day. His love was not conditional on obedience, but merely because he was his son.
We are God's children and He loves us regardless of our actions. He loves us so much that He sent His son to die for us, so that we can with him forever in eternity. The only thing He wants from us in a relationship with Him.
Do you want a relationship filled with love?
Unconditional love?
God can give you that if you simply ask Him. He is your father and He loves you.
We as Christians often question the extent of God's love for us. When things are going well, we think "He loves me". When things go wrong, we think "He loves me not". I got the promotion, He loves me. My husband left me, He loves me not. His love is not just an emotion, decision, or action but simply who He is. 1 John 4:8 "For God is love".
He had promised to love us, unconditionally. If he only loved us sometimes, that would me that His character or attitude changes. But, God never changes. He is the one thing in our lives that always remains consistent. His love is not contingent on us. Whether or not we go to church, tithe, witness, pray enough, and never sin. God's affection is always the same. You can't do anything to deserve it, and you can't do anything to keep Him from loving you.
Just as in the story of the prodigal son, He is showing us the extent of His love. When do you think the father loved his son the most? Some people would say when he gave him the inheritance before he died. Others would say, when the son returned. The truth is the father loved him the same no matter what. He loved him when he gave him the inheritance, and he loved him every day that he was gone. For him to have been able to run up the road to greet him when he returned, means that he was looking down that road awaiting his return, probably every day. His love was not conditional on obedience, but merely because he was his son.
We are God's children and He loves us regardless of our actions. He loves us so much that He sent His son to die for us, so that we can with him forever in eternity. The only thing He wants from us in a relationship with Him.
Do you want a relationship filled with love?
Unconditional love?
God can give you that if you simply ask Him. He is your father and He loves you.
April 2nd, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ Daughters of the King!
Proverbs 31:10 A virtuous woman, who can find? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies.
If you look to the dictionary to define "virtuous", Webster will tell you it means confirming to a moral and ethical principals, morally excellent; upright. Certainly those are great things to find in a woman. But that isn't the Bible's definition of "virtuous".
The original Hebrew word, used in scripture is Chayil (khah' -yil) and it means: A FORCE... AN ARMY... STRENGTH... ABLE... SUBSTANCE... WORTHY.
If we re-read the scripture using this definition, it reads "A strong, able, worthy, woman of substance, who can find? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies."
Read that aloud. Do you find yourself sitting up a little taller, feel a little stronger, and your confidence increase? When the trials and tribulations of life come at you, remember who you are! You who were adopted by our Abba Father... daughter of the King. (1 Peter 2:9)
Father, I pray that I can see myself through your eyes: as a valuable, worthy and strong woman who is capable of doing what you ask of me. Let me hear your voice, direct my life and fill me with the courage to take the first step. Amen.
If you look to the dictionary to define "virtuous", Webster will tell you it means confirming to a moral and ethical principals, morally excellent; upright. Certainly those are great things to find in a woman. But that isn't the Bible's definition of "virtuous".
The original Hebrew word, used in scripture is Chayil (khah' -yil) and it means: A FORCE... AN ARMY... STRENGTH... ABLE... SUBSTANCE... WORTHY.
If we re-read the scripture using this definition, it reads "A strong, able, worthy, woman of substance, who can find? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies."
Read that aloud. Do you find yourself sitting up a little taller, feel a little stronger, and your confidence increase? When the trials and tribulations of life come at you, remember who you are! You who were adopted by our Abba Father... daughter of the King. (1 Peter 2:9)
Father, I pray that I can see myself through your eyes: as a valuable, worthy and strong woman who is capable of doing what you ask of me. Let me hear your voice, direct my life and fill me with the courage to take the first step. Amen.
March 26th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Jesus, Our Example
“We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has been promised.” Hebrews 6:12
As Christians, we can become stuck in the informational phase of our faith – knowing but not doing. Learning is crucial, but if we don’t use what we learn, we will not bear fruit for God’s kingdom.
We have no better example of persevering, active faith than our Savior, Jesus Christ. He was sent by our Heavenly Father to rescue the world from the powers of sin. He was misunderstood, mocked, tortured and killed. But betrayal, rejection, or threats, even from those closest to him, did not stop or discourage him. Jesus knew the truth. He knew who sent him. He knew who he was. He knew what his mission was. And the power of the Holy Spirit grounded him completely.
I want that perseverance. I want that certainty. I want that determination. And the good news is that I can have it. All of us can have it. But to acquire it, we must do what Jesus did. We must profess our identity in God and find our purpose in Him. We must stay in communion with Jesus, the way to the Father. And we must try to
live by the Spirit who gives us the power to live for Jesus.
Lord Jesus, help me to not to shrink back when life gets tough but to continue to trust and believe in you, my Savior and Lord. Amen.
As Christians, we can become stuck in the informational phase of our faith – knowing but not doing. Learning is crucial, but if we don’t use what we learn, we will not bear fruit for God’s kingdom.
We have no better example of persevering, active faith than our Savior, Jesus Christ. He was sent by our Heavenly Father to rescue the world from the powers of sin. He was misunderstood, mocked, tortured and killed. But betrayal, rejection, or threats, even from those closest to him, did not stop or discourage him. Jesus knew the truth. He knew who sent him. He knew who he was. He knew what his mission was. And the power of the Holy Spirit grounded him completely.
I want that perseverance. I want that certainty. I want that determination. And the good news is that I can have it. All of us can have it. But to acquire it, we must do what Jesus did. We must profess our identity in God and find our purpose in Him. We must stay in communion with Jesus, the way to the Father. And we must try to
live by the Spirit who gives us the power to live for Jesus.
Lord Jesus, help me to not to shrink back when life gets tough but to continue to trust and believe in you, my Savior and Lord. Amen.
March 19th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ A Generous God
Take a minute and look around you. You most likely have a home, some type of technology at which you are currently looking, furniture, a vehicle, family, friends, perhaps a job, cellular phone, and on and on. Most importantly, I pray you have salvation and good health. Psalm 16:2 says, “I said to the Lord, ‘You are my Lord: apart from you I have no good thing.’” Everything we have is from God. We are immeasurably blessed; more blessed than most of the people across the world. Do you thank God consistently for the ways in which He has blessed you? If the answer is no, consider working this into your prayer time. It will change your life when you focus your thoughts on how you have been blessed.
Do you appreciate all that you have? Really? It is so easy to get caught up in the pursuit of a bigger house, or a new kitchen like the one that your neighbor just had remodeled. How about the car that your co-worker drives or the jewelry your friend wears? It’s so easy to focus on what we don’t have instead of rejoicing in what we do have. When you wish for something you don’t have, change your thoughts to a feeling of gratitude for something in particular that you do have. Even worse, is that we can feel resentful of others who have more than we do. If that’s the case, you just need a mind-shift. If you feel resentful or jealous of someone for what they have, lift up a prayer thanking Him for being a generous God who blesses people in different ways.
Do you appreciate all that you have? Really? It is so easy to get caught up in the pursuit of a bigger house, or a new kitchen like the one that your neighbor just had remodeled. How about the car that your co-worker drives or the jewelry your friend wears? It’s so easy to focus on what we don’t have instead of rejoicing in what we do have. When you wish for something you don’t have, change your thoughts to a feeling of gratitude for something in particular that you do have. Even worse, is that we can feel resentful of others who have more than we do. If that’s the case, you just need a mind-shift. If you feel resentful or jealous of someone for what they have, lift up a prayer thanking Him for being a generous God who blesses people in different ways.
March 12th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Pam Newton ~ Light & Reassurance of the Holy Spirit
John 14:21-29
“My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.” (v.23 NIV)
I have managed clinical depression for many years. I battle depression on a fairly regular basis. Because of this, it is very important for me to stay in God’s Word, being reminded of His truth concerning me.
On particularly bad days I need to read and re-read and make positive confession out loud. It is at these times I find God often reminds me that He Himself has made His home inside of me through the Holy Spirit. Because of Christ’s work on the cross I have the living God inside of me. This is a sure and true promise I can find comfort and truth in.
Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12) I am so thankful to have this light and reassurance of the Holy Spirit.
“My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.” (v.23 NIV)
I have managed clinical depression for many years. I battle depression on a fairly regular basis. Because of this, it is very important for me to stay in God’s Word, being reminded of His truth concerning me.
On particularly bad days I need to read and re-read and make positive confession out loud. It is at these times I find God often reminds me that He Himself has made His home inside of me through the Holy Spirit. Because of Christ’s work on the cross I have the living God inside of me. This is a sure and true promise I can find comfort and truth in.
Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12) I am so thankful to have this light and reassurance of the Holy Spirit.
March 5th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ A Call to Action
Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” Matt 19:21
In Carol’s devotion last week, she gave us a great example of what it means to hear the voice of God and trust the voice of God. How many times do we hear the voice of God, we are in agreement with Him, and then… nothing? Faith is more than knowing about God and coming into agreement with Him. His perfect love settles for nothing less than a loving and intimate relationship with His children.
Faith does more than pay lip service, faith is a call to action. It calls us not to do what is easy, but to do what is right. It isn’t about keeping the 10 commandments and obeying laws or rules. It is about giving everything we have to the creator and following His Son wherever He leads. So many times we hold back what God would have us do because it means that we have to give time we think we don’t have, be around people we don’t like, do things we’re not comfortable doing, and part with wealth and possessions that we think makes our life easier.
Not only do we have testimonies about God’s faithfulness, He has testimonies about us. Over and over again God testifies about the faithfulness of His servants such as Moses, Abraham, David, Enoch, and Noah. I don’t know about you, but it would break my heart to know that God’s testimony about me would be that I squandered the gifts and the time He gave me on this earth on myself. I want to hear Him say, “That’s my girl! Well done, my good and faithful servant!”? If we learn to hold nothing back from Him, we are in for the ride of our lives!
In Carol’s devotion last week, she gave us a great example of what it means to hear the voice of God and trust the voice of God. How many times do we hear the voice of God, we are in agreement with Him, and then… nothing? Faith is more than knowing about God and coming into agreement with Him. His perfect love settles for nothing less than a loving and intimate relationship with His children.
Faith does more than pay lip service, faith is a call to action. It calls us not to do what is easy, but to do what is right. It isn’t about keeping the 10 commandments and obeying laws or rules. It is about giving everything we have to the creator and following His Son wherever He leads. So many times we hold back what God would have us do because it means that we have to give time we think we don’t have, be around people we don’t like, do things we’re not comfortable doing, and part with wealth and possessions that we think makes our life easier.
Not only do we have testimonies about God’s faithfulness, He has testimonies about us. Over and over again God testifies about the faithfulness of His servants such as Moses, Abraham, David, Enoch, and Noah. I don’t know about you, but it would break my heart to know that God’s testimony about me would be that I squandered the gifts and the time He gave me on this earth on myself. I want to hear Him say, “That’s my girl! Well done, my good and faithful servant!”? If we learn to hold nothing back from Him, we are in for the ride of our lives!
February 25th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Carol Mularski ~ Hearing the Voice of God
Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” Isaiah 30:21
We all hear voices in our heads. Have you ever heard that voice inside that calls you to action? It says to you, “It’s time to speak up.” You looked around the room. Then fear does its work and you say nothing. You walked away frustrated because you knew you missed a step up opportunity. How do you know if the voice is yours or God’s? I recently reacquainted myself with a great passage of scripture in Mark 1:16-18. Jesus is calling his disciples out of their worlds and professions and He just says, "Come, follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." That all just, “Come follow me.” These guys had lives. They had jobs and possessions. Then one day this guy comes by and invites them to leave it all behind. Scripture says, “At once they left their nets and followed Him.” How could they do it? How could they leave everything they had built? They could do it because they knew in their heart that they were being called by the voice of God.
Honestly, we do not struggle with hearing the voice of God. We struggle with trusting the voice of God. It is very rare to come in contact with anyone who truly does not know what to do. On the other hand it is very common to find people who do not want to do what the voice tells them to do because they know the end result.
A.W. Tozer said, “There is coming a time when God’s heroes will arise and the world will wonder where they came from.” I believe that we could be the ones he was talking about if we would listen to the voice in our head. Maybe it’s time to throw down the net and become a change agent in our worlds.
We all hear voices in our heads. Have you ever heard that voice inside that calls you to action? It says to you, “It’s time to speak up.” You looked around the room. Then fear does its work and you say nothing. You walked away frustrated because you knew you missed a step up opportunity. How do you know if the voice is yours or God’s? I recently reacquainted myself with a great passage of scripture in Mark 1:16-18. Jesus is calling his disciples out of their worlds and professions and He just says, "Come, follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." That all just, “Come follow me.” These guys had lives. They had jobs and possessions. Then one day this guy comes by and invites them to leave it all behind. Scripture says, “At once they left their nets and followed Him.” How could they do it? How could they leave everything they had built? They could do it because they knew in their heart that they were being called by the voice of God.
Honestly, we do not struggle with hearing the voice of God. We struggle with trusting the voice of God. It is very rare to come in contact with anyone who truly does not know what to do. On the other hand it is very common to find people who do not want to do what the voice tells them to do because they know the end result.
A.W. Tozer said, “There is coming a time when God’s heroes will arise and the world will wonder where they came from.” I believe that we could be the ones he was talking about if we would listen to the voice in our head. Maybe it’s time to throw down the net and become a change agent in our worlds.
February 19th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ Our Different Seasons
I have realized we have different seasons in our life. God gives us different seasons to grow.
Ecclesiastes: 3:1-8 There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
I had a new season on December 19, 2013. Christmas was coming and so much to do! I called my mom and realized something was wrong. She had a massive stroke and many complications. Our family stayed by her side throughout the holidays. On Christmas, my daughter gave her a devotional book which we still read to her daily. The book is called "Moments of Peace in the Presence of God". Not only did I read to mom, but I had the opportunity to share the Lord with others at the rehab. God knows our seasons and where to place us at the perfect time. I would like to share the devotion that my daughter read to mom on Christmas. The devotional had to have been written for her....and us.
Your Hope is in God
Psalms 146:5 Joyful are those who have the God of Israel as their helper, whose hope is in the Lord their God.
Hope is a quality you are so accustomed to living with that only when absent do you truly understand it's importance. Hope is what enables us to go through our day. Hope is the strength in our backbones that allows us to withstand storms of trouble and pain. Our grounds for hope is in God's Word and His promises, in the history of His steadfast love he has shown towards us and in constant care and comfort he gives to all who trust in Him . Hope is your reliance on God's blessing and provision for you. Hope puts a smile on your face as you go forward!!!
So when things look bleak, we can always have hope and faith in Him. Sometimes we are put into the darkness so we can see His light better. I will continue to look forward to God's seasons and growing with Him.
Reflection: What is your current season? Spend some time with the Lord today and thank Him for the season that you are in.
Ecclesiastes: 3:1-8 There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
I had a new season on December 19, 2013. Christmas was coming and so much to do! I called my mom and realized something was wrong. She had a massive stroke and many complications. Our family stayed by her side throughout the holidays. On Christmas, my daughter gave her a devotional book which we still read to her daily. The book is called "Moments of Peace in the Presence of God". Not only did I read to mom, but I had the opportunity to share the Lord with others at the rehab. God knows our seasons and where to place us at the perfect time. I would like to share the devotion that my daughter read to mom on Christmas. The devotional had to have been written for her....and us.
Your Hope is in God
Psalms 146:5 Joyful are those who have the God of Israel as their helper, whose hope is in the Lord their God.
Hope is a quality you are so accustomed to living with that only when absent do you truly understand it's importance. Hope is what enables us to go through our day. Hope is the strength in our backbones that allows us to withstand storms of trouble and pain. Our grounds for hope is in God's Word and His promises, in the history of His steadfast love he has shown towards us and in constant care and comfort he gives to all who trust in Him . Hope is your reliance on God's blessing and provision for you. Hope puts a smile on your face as you go forward!!!
So when things look bleak, we can always have hope and faith in Him. Sometimes we are put into the darkness so we can see His light better. I will continue to look forward to God's seasons and growing with Him.
Reflection: What is your current season? Spend some time with the Lord today and thank Him for the season that you are in.
February 12th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ Do You Believe?
Hebrews 11: 6 "Without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek him."
We all suffer with unbelief at times. We may always believe IN Him, but do we believe Him? Do we believe that He will always take care of the things we have asked of Him when we earnestly seek Him in prayer? I find myself praying for Him to remove some stronghold in my life, but still continue to try to fix it myself. When I lie in bed at night fretting over it, He asks me “Didn’t you ask ME to take care of that?” I am left questioning why I don’t believe Him when He has promised to take care of all my needs. Phil 4:19. "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus."
The greatest example that we can leave for non-believers is our complete faith and trust in our Father. When we exhibit unwavering faith and belief, He shines through us. It leaves others wanting that kind of relationship with Him.
Lord, please help me with my unbelief. Let me believe not just in my head Lord, but in my heart as well, that you Lord and only you, can supply all my needs and relieve me of any stronghold that is in my life. Thank you Jesus Amen.
We all suffer with unbelief at times. We may always believe IN Him, but do we believe Him? Do we believe that He will always take care of the things we have asked of Him when we earnestly seek Him in prayer? I find myself praying for Him to remove some stronghold in my life, but still continue to try to fix it myself. When I lie in bed at night fretting over it, He asks me “Didn’t you ask ME to take care of that?” I am left questioning why I don’t believe Him when He has promised to take care of all my needs. Phil 4:19. "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus."
The greatest example that we can leave for non-believers is our complete faith and trust in our Father. When we exhibit unwavering faith and belief, He shines through us. It leaves others wanting that kind of relationship with Him.
Lord, please help me with my unbelief. Let me believe not just in my head Lord, but in my heart as well, that you Lord and only you, can supply all my needs and relieve me of any stronghold that is in my life. Thank you Jesus Amen.
February 5th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ I had to be told THREE times.
"Do not have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments
because you know they produce quarrels." 2 Timothy 2:23
Honestly. I could just stop there. That moment when scripture itself speaks directly to the problem at hand. The scripture that needs no interpretation or explanation. It's plain and clear. You do not need a Strong's Concordance for this one.
Yet, this was not even the first time this warning was spoken. It had already been mentioned in 2 Tim 2:14. But, it needed repeating within the SAME chapter! When you keep reading, you'll find it again in the next book, Titus (2:9) 3 times in just a few short chapters. Lord, I think I might be finally getting your message. I sit here convicted. I should have known better. In fact, I did know better.
We have all been there at some point or another, where we find ourselves in an argument or stand off with another person (friend, coworker, parent, spouse, child). In the end we hug, making up for arguing over "something so stupid". (I know a few of you reading this are shaking your head in agreement). But, in short order, we find ourselves doing it again. Engaged in another pointless argument over something that in the grand scheme of life means nothing.
Let it happen too often, and stupid arguments become big quarrels. They will begin putting stress on relationships, and ultimately breaking them. Some times beyond repair. Convicted. That's me. I have allowed myself to engage in stupid arguments too many times. I have felt the pain. I have sensed the stress. I have failed to repair.
Proverbs 21:23 "Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble."
Lord, I am grateful that your word continues to be a guide in my life. I pray for discernment on how and when to use my words, and when they are best left unsaid.
because you know they produce quarrels." 2 Timothy 2:23
Honestly. I could just stop there. That moment when scripture itself speaks directly to the problem at hand. The scripture that needs no interpretation or explanation. It's plain and clear. You do not need a Strong's Concordance for this one.
Yet, this was not even the first time this warning was spoken. It had already been mentioned in 2 Tim 2:14. But, it needed repeating within the SAME chapter! When you keep reading, you'll find it again in the next book, Titus (2:9) 3 times in just a few short chapters. Lord, I think I might be finally getting your message. I sit here convicted. I should have known better. In fact, I did know better.
We have all been there at some point or another, where we find ourselves in an argument or stand off with another person (friend, coworker, parent, spouse, child). In the end we hug, making up for arguing over "something so stupid". (I know a few of you reading this are shaking your head in agreement). But, in short order, we find ourselves doing it again. Engaged in another pointless argument over something that in the grand scheme of life means nothing.
Let it happen too often, and stupid arguments become big quarrels. They will begin putting stress on relationships, and ultimately breaking them. Some times beyond repair. Convicted. That's me. I have allowed myself to engage in stupid arguments too many times. I have felt the pain. I have sensed the stress. I have failed to repair.
Proverbs 21:23 "Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble."
Lord, I am grateful that your word continues to be a guide in my life. I pray for discernment on how and when to use my words, and when they are best left unsaid.
January 29th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Seeing is Believing.
“Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” John 20:29
As a Christian I have often been challenged about my beliefs; not just personally, but also by the ever present media and the continuing evolution of our culture. There is a Christian song “What If” by Nichole Nordeman where she is asked “What if you’re wrong?” about her belief in Jesus Christ and she responds, “What if I’m not!” For many nonbelievers I think it might boil down to how can I believe in something or someone I cannot see?
Many of us are drawn toward materialism. We accumulate all sorts of “stuff” as we travel through life. We often put greater stock in those things we can see, touch, measure and store away. For many of us, tangible things can be more “real” than intangible things.
The God who we have not seen is nonetheless very real. Just as we cannot see love, we know love is real; we feel it, we know it exists when we look at our spouse and our children, our friends and neighbors. We are not able to see the wind, but we can feel it as it whips around us. The air we breathe cannot be seen, but we know it fills our lungs and provides the oxygen we need to live.
When Bluetooth first came out it seemed strange to see people walking around talking with themselves. This must be what it's like for nonbelievers observing a Christian's life. They see us talking to the air in prayer, singing to something unseen, and rejoicing for no known reason.
To be able to show an invisible God to those who do not believe, I must have more than words; I must have action. Faith in a God we cannot see must be expressed with actions of love that can. Love is expressed in patience, kindness, and unselfishness — none of which need to have "preaching" involved.
Jesus gave us many examples of how to help people see without seeing, and therefore believe and rejoice in the invisible God who loved them first.
Lord Jesus, there are so many skeptics and atheists who influence our culture. My prayer is that Your power may break into their lives and lead them to your truth. Help me to see and seize ways to bless others through my words and actions and lead them to You. Amen.
As a Christian I have often been challenged about my beliefs; not just personally, but also by the ever present media and the continuing evolution of our culture. There is a Christian song “What If” by Nichole Nordeman where she is asked “What if you’re wrong?” about her belief in Jesus Christ and she responds, “What if I’m not!” For many nonbelievers I think it might boil down to how can I believe in something or someone I cannot see?
Many of us are drawn toward materialism. We accumulate all sorts of “stuff” as we travel through life. We often put greater stock in those things we can see, touch, measure and store away. For many of us, tangible things can be more “real” than intangible things.
The God who we have not seen is nonetheless very real. Just as we cannot see love, we know love is real; we feel it, we know it exists when we look at our spouse and our children, our friends and neighbors. We are not able to see the wind, but we can feel it as it whips around us. The air we breathe cannot be seen, but we know it fills our lungs and provides the oxygen we need to live.
When Bluetooth first came out it seemed strange to see people walking around talking with themselves. This must be what it's like for nonbelievers observing a Christian's life. They see us talking to the air in prayer, singing to something unseen, and rejoicing for no known reason.
To be able to show an invisible God to those who do not believe, I must have more than words; I must have action. Faith in a God we cannot see must be expressed with actions of love that can. Love is expressed in patience, kindness, and unselfishness — none of which need to have "preaching" involved.
Jesus gave us many examples of how to help people see without seeing, and therefore believe and rejoice in the invisible God who loved them first.
Lord Jesus, there are so many skeptics and atheists who influence our culture. My prayer is that Your power may break into their lives and lead them to your truth. Help me to see and seize ways to bless others through my words and actions and lead them to You. Amen.
January 22nd, 2014 ~ Contributor: Jennifer Chevalier ~ Shout it from the Rooftop!
"Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all people."
1 Chronicles 16:24
It can feel awkward to tell people about the amazing ways that God has blessed us. To non-believers, we sound "crazy" when we tell how God provided the exact amount of money that we needed, at the perfect time, for example. It is difficult for non-believers to accept an isolated story like that as truth. Often, the fear of rejection or damaging our reputation that may result from giving God the credit keeps us from speaking out. However, what would happen if we all consistently told others about how God works in our lives? Instead of non-believers hearing isolated stories, they would be bombarded by the miraculous deeds of The Lord. With frequent evidence from multiple people, it would become easier for them to believe and accept the power, provision, love and salvation of God.
Of course, the enemy will raise our level of insecurity to thwart our efforts. Surely he wants us to feel ashamed and not give God the credit. I don't know about you, but I don't want to let the enemy hold me back from telling people, all people, about God's marvelous deeds! He deserves ALL of the glory for how He responds in our lives, so give it to Him publicly. Shout it from the rooftop!
1 Chronicles 16:24
It can feel awkward to tell people about the amazing ways that God has blessed us. To non-believers, we sound "crazy" when we tell how God provided the exact amount of money that we needed, at the perfect time, for example. It is difficult for non-believers to accept an isolated story like that as truth. Often, the fear of rejection or damaging our reputation that may result from giving God the credit keeps us from speaking out. However, what would happen if we all consistently told others about how God works in our lives? Instead of non-believers hearing isolated stories, they would be bombarded by the miraculous deeds of The Lord. With frequent evidence from multiple people, it would become easier for them to believe and accept the power, provision, love and salvation of God.
Of course, the enemy will raise our level of insecurity to thwart our efforts. Surely he wants us to feel ashamed and not give God the credit. I don't know about you, but I don't want to let the enemy hold me back from telling people, all people, about God's marvelous deeds! He deserves ALL of the glory for how He responds in our lives, so give it to Him publicly. Shout it from the rooftop!
January 15th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ Camping Out
“Whether the cloud stayed over the tabernacle for two days or a month or a year, the Israelites would remain in camp and not set out; but when it lifted, they would set out. At the Lord’s command they encamped, and at the Lord’s command they set out. They obeyed the Lord’s order, in accordance with his command through Moses.” Numbers 9:22-23 (NIV)
I don’t have a job right now. I volunteer a bit and have lots of leisure time. I babysit my nine month old grandson twice a week. Some people would say I live a gloriously blessed, wonderful and easy life. Others would ask, “How do you stay sane not doing anything?” Sometimes I feel I have the best of both worlds. Other times even I wonder if I am not doing what God wants me to do. Have you ever wondered that?
The verse above talks about “camping out” where God has us. Right now, God has me exactly where He needs and wants me to be. Sometimes my own thoughts and desires get in the way of that thinking I should be doing something “more important”. I think we all question ourselves at times.
The lesson I learned from these verses is that God knows what He is doing and has me right where He wants me-for now. It could be for two days, a month or a year. I will trust Him and camp out in my current lifestyle until God tells me to move.
Where does God have you “camped out” these days? Are you itchy for something new and “more exciting”? Perhaps He wants you to know you are right where you should be. Thank God now for knowing He has His best plans and intentions for you even though you may not feel it right now. He will let us know when it’s time to move on.
I don’t have a job right now. I volunteer a bit and have lots of leisure time. I babysit my nine month old grandson twice a week. Some people would say I live a gloriously blessed, wonderful and easy life. Others would ask, “How do you stay sane not doing anything?” Sometimes I feel I have the best of both worlds. Other times even I wonder if I am not doing what God wants me to do. Have you ever wondered that?
The verse above talks about “camping out” where God has us. Right now, God has me exactly where He needs and wants me to be. Sometimes my own thoughts and desires get in the way of that thinking I should be doing something “more important”. I think we all question ourselves at times.
The lesson I learned from these verses is that God knows what He is doing and has me right where He wants me-for now. It could be for two days, a month or a year. I will trust Him and camp out in my current lifestyle until God tells me to move.
Where does God have you “camped out” these days? Are you itchy for something new and “more exciting”? Perhaps He wants you to know you are right where you should be. Thank God now for knowing He has His best plans and intentions for you even though you may not feel it right now. He will let us know when it’s time to move on.
January 8th, 2014 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Becoming a Spiritual Athlete
Acts 20:24 However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.
I used to be a veracious runner. When I first started running, I couldn’t run a mile without stopping several times to gasp for air. A mile seemed like a very long way in the beginning, and the only way I could push myself a little further each time would be to pick out a tree or mailbox and make it my mini-goal. Once I reached that goal, I would look ahead and pick my next goal. Before long, one mile was just a warm up.
We can exercise our spiritual muscles in the same way. My New Year’s resolution for 2013 was committing to connect myself with other people both inside and outside the church. I asked God to point out people with whom He would have me contact. Just like running, the early goals were small and I was feeling a bit uncomfortable. I started by asking a waitress if I could pray for her when she served my meal, then progressed to asking wait-staff if they wanted to join me and my friends in prayer. Through the year, I’ve invited strangers in restaurants to dine with me, anonymously paid tabs, sat with strangers, and have made some wonderful new friends. We don’t have to do anything grand to connect with another person, just ask God who and how. Then, one step at a time, He will show us how He would like to reveal Himself to others through us.
In order to testify to the good news of God’s grace, we have to connect with people, whether they are strangers or people we already know. We are salt and light, let’s not hide our light from those around us, it’s time to shine!
God, I pray that you reveal the people around me that you want to bless through me. Lead me in the way you would have me do this, not by my own thought or decision, but by your will. I desire to be fully reliant on you. Thank you for the adventures you shared with me this year, I eagerly await what you have in store for me in the year to come.
I used to be a veracious runner. When I first started running, I couldn’t run a mile without stopping several times to gasp for air. A mile seemed like a very long way in the beginning, and the only way I could push myself a little further each time would be to pick out a tree or mailbox and make it my mini-goal. Once I reached that goal, I would look ahead and pick my next goal. Before long, one mile was just a warm up.
We can exercise our spiritual muscles in the same way. My New Year’s resolution for 2013 was committing to connect myself with other people both inside and outside the church. I asked God to point out people with whom He would have me contact. Just like running, the early goals were small and I was feeling a bit uncomfortable. I started by asking a waitress if I could pray for her when she served my meal, then progressed to asking wait-staff if they wanted to join me and my friends in prayer. Through the year, I’ve invited strangers in restaurants to dine with me, anonymously paid tabs, sat with strangers, and have made some wonderful new friends. We don’t have to do anything grand to connect with another person, just ask God who and how. Then, one step at a time, He will show us how He would like to reveal Himself to others through us.
In order to testify to the good news of God’s grace, we have to connect with people, whether they are strangers or people we already know. We are salt and light, let’s not hide our light from those around us, it’s time to shine!
God, I pray that you reveal the people around me that you want to bless through me. Lead me in the way you would have me do this, not by my own thought or decision, but by your will. I desire to be fully reliant on you. Thank you for the adventures you shared with me this year, I eagerly await what you have in store for me in the year to come.
January 1st, 2014 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ The Christmas We Forgot
Proverbs 16:9 ”In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.”
When it comes to holidays, Christmas is our favorite. We always put forth some effort into our decorations, adding each year. We have a goal, you see. One that has been in place since we were first married, and I took my husband to "Gabriel Lane" to see the most amazing Christmas lights he had ever seen. The entire neighborhood decorated. Even the Jewish residents would have blue and white lights, Star of David décor. There was a house on the street that had a Candy Cane theme. Since Christmas was his favorite time of year, and since we both loved this house the most. That was our goal.
Over the years there have been some Christmases where the budget was tight, or time didn't seem to be on our side. I even remember saying to my husband one year.... "You keep saying that this is your favorite time of the year. You say that, but I don't think you mean it". Why did I say this? Because he wasn't getting our decorations up fast enough. In fact there was one year we didn't have our lights up at all & I was FURIOUS. Like, steam coming out of my ears furious. It put a damper on the entire holiday for me.
How ridiculous I was being. I vowed to never be that way again. I was being a Martha in a very Mary moment. I was focused on tasks, my to do list, my timeline.... it was affecting my time with my family & my attitude toward others. It took my focus off the reason for the season, Jesus.
This year, the lights and snowflakes were hung. But all of our yard decorations, we forgot. The tree was trimmed, but all the other indoor decorations, we forgot. Cookies for Santa, were baked... but only thanks to an early Christmas Eve gift from my mother of Easy Bake Ovens for the girls. Reindeer food...? Um, I had some carrots in the freezer. Christmas Eve came and went. Christmas morning came and went. It was later that day, I realized we didn't even take any photos of the kids opening their gifts. We forgot.
And the most remarkable thing? No one cared. It was about us, it was about enjoy time together. It wasn't about fuss. We opened our doors that day and neighborhood kids came in and out to visit. It's been a few days since, still no pictures of the kids with their gifts. I forgot. It is so easy to get caught up in the details, our plans for how things should go or look. But God often has a different agenda because his is not based on tasks but on relationship.
God, I pray for those of us .... who get caught up in the details, may you soften our hearts and open our eyes to the things we are missing out on. Let details be forgotten & memories made in 2014.
When it comes to holidays, Christmas is our favorite. We always put forth some effort into our decorations, adding each year. We have a goal, you see. One that has been in place since we were first married, and I took my husband to "Gabriel Lane" to see the most amazing Christmas lights he had ever seen. The entire neighborhood decorated. Even the Jewish residents would have blue and white lights, Star of David décor. There was a house on the street that had a Candy Cane theme. Since Christmas was his favorite time of year, and since we both loved this house the most. That was our goal.
Over the years there have been some Christmases where the budget was tight, or time didn't seem to be on our side. I even remember saying to my husband one year.... "You keep saying that this is your favorite time of the year. You say that, but I don't think you mean it". Why did I say this? Because he wasn't getting our decorations up fast enough. In fact there was one year we didn't have our lights up at all & I was FURIOUS. Like, steam coming out of my ears furious. It put a damper on the entire holiday for me.
How ridiculous I was being. I vowed to never be that way again. I was being a Martha in a very Mary moment. I was focused on tasks, my to do list, my timeline.... it was affecting my time with my family & my attitude toward others. It took my focus off the reason for the season, Jesus.
This year, the lights and snowflakes were hung. But all of our yard decorations, we forgot. The tree was trimmed, but all the other indoor decorations, we forgot. Cookies for Santa, were baked... but only thanks to an early Christmas Eve gift from my mother of Easy Bake Ovens for the girls. Reindeer food...? Um, I had some carrots in the freezer. Christmas Eve came and went. Christmas morning came and went. It was later that day, I realized we didn't even take any photos of the kids opening their gifts. We forgot.
And the most remarkable thing? No one cared. It was about us, it was about enjoy time together. It wasn't about fuss. We opened our doors that day and neighborhood kids came in and out to visit. It's been a few days since, still no pictures of the kids with their gifts. I forgot. It is so easy to get caught up in the details, our plans for how things should go or look. But God often has a different agenda because his is not based on tasks but on relationship.
God, I pray for those of us .... who get caught up in the details, may you soften our hearts and open our eyes to the things we are missing out on. Let details be forgotten & memories made in 2014.
December 25th,2013 ----- Merry Christmas from the TC3 Women's Ministry
December 18, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ "Asking Why?"
For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. (Galatians 1:10)
Recently, I met with my study group and one of the ladies attending asked a question that took me off guard. She asked us all "Why?", specifically why were we doing this particular study, what was our motivation?
Why?
That is a small question with big implications. And, her question stuck with me. Why, indeed. I started applying that question to everything I was doing... my decisions, my schedule, my responses. I began using it like a speed bump in my journey through life. Allowing it to slow me down and really make me think.
Then I noticed, I began to apply it to other people. If they said something that upset me, instead of responding immediately... I asked myself "Why, do you think she said that?".
I was able to see things a bit clearer in my life and in my relationship with others. Why, gave me clarity.
In Galatians 1:10, we are presented with a WHY question. Why are we doing the things we do, saying the things we say? Are we doing it for the approval of man? Or, of God? Are we doing it to be accepted by the world? Or, is it for the Kingdom? Are we trying to please others? Or, God?
And, in a further step in thought.... am I doing it for my glory or His? In the new year, we face a lot of choices. I challenge all of us to add the question of WHY into our decision making process. Pray that God will reveal the motivations of our heart and the heart of others so that we can make the decisions that glorify Him!
Recently, I met with my study group and one of the ladies attending asked a question that took me off guard. She asked us all "Why?", specifically why were we doing this particular study, what was our motivation?
Why?
That is a small question with big implications. And, her question stuck with me. Why, indeed. I started applying that question to everything I was doing... my decisions, my schedule, my responses. I began using it like a speed bump in my journey through life. Allowing it to slow me down and really make me think.
Then I noticed, I began to apply it to other people. If they said something that upset me, instead of responding immediately... I asked myself "Why, do you think she said that?".
I was able to see things a bit clearer in my life and in my relationship with others. Why, gave me clarity.
In Galatians 1:10, we are presented with a WHY question. Why are we doing the things we do, saying the things we say? Are we doing it for the approval of man? Or, of God? Are we doing it to be accepted by the world? Or, is it for the Kingdom? Are we trying to please others? Or, God?
And, in a further step in thought.... am I doing it for my glory or His? In the new year, we face a lot of choices. I challenge all of us to add the question of WHY into our decision making process. Pray that God will reveal the motivations of our heart and the heart of others so that we can make the decisions that glorify Him!
December 11, 2013 ~ Unwrapping His Christmas Presence via Proverbs 31 Ministries
Occasionally, someone else just hits the nail on the head. This time, author Renee Swope (from Proverbs 31 Ministries) beat the Tc3 Women's Ministry to writing the perfect devotion. This time of year can be busy, and we can get caught up in the hustle and bustle. We can get wrapped up in perfection and disappointed by others.
Let's remember the real reason for this season.
Check out Renee Swope's devotion on Proverbs 31 Ministries website, entitled "Unwrapping His Christmas Presence"
Let's remember the real reason for this season.
Check out Renee Swope's devotion on Proverbs 31 Ministries website, entitled "Unwrapping His Christmas Presence"
December 4, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Cleaning Clutter
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.- Galatians 5:22-23
I went through my closet last week to remove any clothes that I’ve not been wearing and better organize what I wear most often. Each time I buy a new article of clothing, I don’t add it to my closet without removing something first and placing it the donation pile. In spite of my efforts, I still find a little clutter and every so often I sort through my closet and remove what I’m not wearing. Does anyone but me find the dress we just don’t wear, we love it anyway and have a hard time giving it up? I’ve had some formal wear in my closet that is classically styled and I love the look, but the reality is that I’ve not attended a formal event in years. Do I really need this?
I started thinking about how God thins out our spiritual closets. For me, he has taken some harmful behaviors and replaced them with healthy ones. Sometimes I go through a painful de-cluttering process where some of the ‘dresses’ I’ve hung on to for way too long are flat out removed. We don’t have room in our spiritual lives for the lovely new garments God has in store for us until the old ones are out of the way. He wants to replace our garments of anger with joy, envy with goodness, selfishness with generosity, deception with truth, vengefulness with mercy, pride with humility, self-pity with gratitude, anxiety with peace, self-centeredness with kindness, worry with faith and hatred with love. The garments in our spiritual closets will be unlike anything the rest of the world wears, people will notice that what we wear is uniquely beautiful because it bears the label of the ultimate Designer.
We are new creatures in Christ, it’s time we look the part. Let’s ask God to reveal the inner wear that no longer fits and allow God to pry our fingers off of the things we should no longer wear and dress us in His Spirit.
I went through my closet last week to remove any clothes that I’ve not been wearing and better organize what I wear most often. Each time I buy a new article of clothing, I don’t add it to my closet without removing something first and placing it the donation pile. In spite of my efforts, I still find a little clutter and every so often I sort through my closet and remove what I’m not wearing. Does anyone but me find the dress we just don’t wear, we love it anyway and have a hard time giving it up? I’ve had some formal wear in my closet that is classically styled and I love the look, but the reality is that I’ve not attended a formal event in years. Do I really need this?
I started thinking about how God thins out our spiritual closets. For me, he has taken some harmful behaviors and replaced them with healthy ones. Sometimes I go through a painful de-cluttering process where some of the ‘dresses’ I’ve hung on to for way too long are flat out removed. We don’t have room in our spiritual lives for the lovely new garments God has in store for us until the old ones are out of the way. He wants to replace our garments of anger with joy, envy with goodness, selfishness with generosity, deception with truth, vengefulness with mercy, pride with humility, self-pity with gratitude, anxiety with peace, self-centeredness with kindness, worry with faith and hatred with love. The garments in our spiritual closets will be unlike anything the rest of the world wears, people will notice that what we wear is uniquely beautiful because it bears the label of the ultimate Designer.
We are new creatures in Christ, it’s time we look the part. Let’s ask God to reveal the inner wear that no longer fits and allow God to pry our fingers off of the things we should no longer wear and dress us in His Spirit.
November 27, 2013 ~ A Special Treat! Happy Thanksgiving.
In lieu of our regular weekly devotion, The TC3 Women's Ministry would like to share this special video with you, as we prepare for the festivities ahead this week.
Colossians 3:15-17 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Colossians 3:15-17 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Happy Thanksgiving!
November 20, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ God Will Not Walk Away
GOD WILL NOT WALK AWAY . . . From me or you
Psalms 4:3
"Know that the Lord has set apart the godly for himself; the Lord will hear when I call to Him."
Each morning when I awake, I have a conversation with the Lord. I just want to thank Him for the day. I ask the Lord to protect me from my response to certain situations and to avoid toxic surroundings.
Sometimes I feel that I am on a deserted island. It is so easy to become engaged in the web of negative talk. I pray short prayers through the day that circumstances will not distract me from what is most important, my relationship with Jesus Christ. Three weeks ago, my prayers were answered when I received a typed notice in my mail box: "Prayer meeting every Wednesday at 7:15 AM." So I went to the meeting and found some of my peers that have similar feelings. On Wednesdays we meet and discuss scripture and have prayer of protection for our surroundings.
Matthew 18:19-20
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about something you should ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."
We have decided to become prayer warriors and take control as Christians because we are powerful with the Holy Spirit living within us. I am not alone on my island anymore and I know that God will not walk away from us. He is always listening to our hearts and He gives us the power to fight back against evil things.
Our group is growing and God did not forget me!
Psalms 4:3
"Know that the Lord has set apart the godly for himself; the Lord will hear when I call to Him."
Each morning when I awake, I have a conversation with the Lord. I just want to thank Him for the day. I ask the Lord to protect me from my response to certain situations and to avoid toxic surroundings.
Sometimes I feel that I am on a deserted island. It is so easy to become engaged in the web of negative talk. I pray short prayers through the day that circumstances will not distract me from what is most important, my relationship with Jesus Christ. Three weeks ago, my prayers were answered when I received a typed notice in my mail box: "Prayer meeting every Wednesday at 7:15 AM." So I went to the meeting and found some of my peers that have similar feelings. On Wednesdays we meet and discuss scripture and have prayer of protection for our surroundings.
Matthew 18:19-20
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about something you should ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."
We have decided to become prayer warriors and take control as Christians because we are powerful with the Holy Spirit living within us. I am not alone on my island anymore and I know that God will not walk away from us. He is always listening to our hearts and He gives us the power to fight back against evil things.
Our group is growing and God did not forget me!
November 13, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ "Is Your Soap Box Too Big"
“It is my judgment, therefore, that we should not make it difficult for the Gentiles who are turning to God.” Acts 15:19
Recently, I was reading a blog series called “The Homemaking Pharisee” and a portion jumped off the screen at me. The author had a subject matter she was overtly passionate about, it was purely her opinion... but she had allowed it to become gospel to her. It had become an idol. Because of this, people were unwilling to talk to her or include her in discussions about the topic. Finally someone brought this to her attention. Her response: “I do not want to be that person who no one can talk to about that subject because my soap box is just too big.”.
Some well meaning Christians can trip into being just like the Pharisees! We can get wrapped up in things we are passionate about or where God has called us & try to make everyone else apply that in their lives. A strong Christian can easily chuck those things right off their shoulders. We know what The Word says. But for a new believer, we can create unrealistic expectations. We can make ourselves seem so “holy” that they will fear even speaking to us! And, when people start fearing talking to us... they can quickly disappear from our lives, our studies and our church.
Lord, I pray that you will reveal to me the areas where I have allowed my pride to get before my witness. Help me to soften my heart and my attitude to those around me. Let me speak your truth, not my own. Amen.
Recently, I was reading a blog series called “The Homemaking Pharisee” and a portion jumped off the screen at me. The author had a subject matter she was overtly passionate about, it was purely her opinion... but she had allowed it to become gospel to her. It had become an idol. Because of this, people were unwilling to talk to her or include her in discussions about the topic. Finally someone brought this to her attention. Her response: “I do not want to be that person who no one can talk to about that subject because my soap box is just too big.”.
Some well meaning Christians can trip into being just like the Pharisees! We can get wrapped up in things we are passionate about or where God has called us & try to make everyone else apply that in their lives. A strong Christian can easily chuck those things right off their shoulders. We know what The Word says. But for a new believer, we can create unrealistic expectations. We can make ourselves seem so “holy” that they will fear even speaking to us! And, when people start fearing talking to us... they can quickly disappear from our lives, our studies and our church.
Lord, I pray that you will reveal to me the areas where I have allowed my pride to get before my witness. Help me to soften my heart and my attitude to those around me. Let me speak your truth, not my own. Amen.
November 6, 2013 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ "Persecuted"
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.” Romans 12:14
Persecution. There will be times in our lives when we are persecuted by people. It is natural to become defensive when this happens. We can feel hurt or angered when we face criticism and harsh actions by others. If we allow these feelings to fester, it can lead to long term bitterness and resentment. When we respond to persecution in this way, we are allowing the persecutors to continue to wound us and hold us back from all that Christ has to offer. We are also living outside of the Will of God when we hold in these negative feelings.
Thankfully, there is another way of handling persecution. As stated in Romans 12:14, we are directed to bless (not curse) those who persecute us. We should pray for them and ask God to bless them, instead of wishing them harm. When we pray for them to be blessed, we are ultimately liberating ourselves from the grip of sin. We are freeing ourselves to receive the abundance of life that God offers us. Don’t wait. Pray that God will bless your persecutors.
Persecution. There will be times in our lives when we are persecuted by people. It is natural to become defensive when this happens. We can feel hurt or angered when we face criticism and harsh actions by others. If we allow these feelings to fester, it can lead to long term bitterness and resentment. When we respond to persecution in this way, we are allowing the persecutors to continue to wound us and hold us back from all that Christ has to offer. We are also living outside of the Will of God when we hold in these negative feelings.
Thankfully, there is another way of handling persecution. As stated in Romans 12:14, we are directed to bless (not curse) those who persecute us. We should pray for them and ask God to bless them, instead of wishing them harm. When we pray for them to be blessed, we are ultimately liberating ourselves from the grip of sin. We are freeing ourselves to receive the abundance of life that God offers us. Don’t wait. Pray that God will bless your persecutors.
October 30, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ "Like Isaiah"
In my walk with Christ today, I feel most like the prophet Isaiah. From Isaiah 6, this is what the prophet experienced: “I saw the Lord seated on a throne, high and exalted. Above him were seraphs, calling to one another: "Holy, holy, holy is the LORD Almighty; the whole earth is full of his glory." "Woe to me!" I cried. "I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the LORD Almighty." Then one of the seraphs flew to me with a live coal in his hand, and said, "See, your guilt is taken away and your sin atoned for." Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"
The longer I serve God, the more I am amazed at how I can feel two polar opposite feelings at the same time. Like Isaiah, I am totally aware of God’s magnificent holiness and my own incredible sinfulness. My heart’s desire is to grow in holiness. Sometimes, I almost come undone, realizing what a huge undertaking life is! I am also like Isaiah in the fact that I am willing to go where God’s wants to send me. This is a bold statement. In one breath I trust, in the other, I fear. And yet, God still chooses to use imperfect people like me. I am so relieved!
How are you growing in holiness today? Where does God want to send you? Will you go?
The longer I serve God, the more I am amazed at how I can feel two polar opposite feelings at the same time. Like Isaiah, I am totally aware of God’s magnificent holiness and my own incredible sinfulness. My heart’s desire is to grow in holiness. Sometimes, I almost come undone, realizing what a huge undertaking life is! I am also like Isaiah in the fact that I am willing to go where God’s wants to send me. This is a bold statement. In one breath I trust, in the other, I fear. And yet, God still chooses to use imperfect people like me. I am so relieved!
How are you growing in holiness today? Where does God want to send you? Will you go?
October 23rd, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Friendship
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10
When I moved to Florida a few years ago, I was determined to meet people and make friends. It seems that the older I get, the more difficult it becomes. I am more careful about friendships now than when I was a young woman. I've been in some pretty toxic relationships, and as I've grown, I've learned to discern between the healthy and unhealthy. Although I've been rejected and hurt at times, the rewards of a great friendship far outweighs the risks.
It occurred to me that I not only need to be concerned about establishing close friendships with “healthy” women, I need to be a “healthy” woman. In 1 Peter 4:8, Peter says it well, “Love covers a multitude of sins.” “Cover” in this verse means to “overlook” or “hide” the faults. As friends we need to recognize that weakness is in everyone and choose to overlook and love anyway. I love that my friends can overlook my shortcomings and love me enough to want to spend time with me. I receive far more than I deserve from the women I call my friends, and I am so grateful to God for them. Now I need to keep myself in check, extend the grace toward them that they give to me.
We are all called by the same creator, but we are not called to live the same life. We are not all supposed to look alike, talk alike, and act alike. It’s Ok, and in fact it is healthy that our friends are shy, outgoing, creative, logical, funny or serious. God puts us in different situations as well. We can be old or young, wealthy, poor,
work outside the home, work inside the home, or both. Our families will also look different. We may be a single parent, married, or never be a parent. We may homeschool, drive the carpool, substitute teach, coach, or volunteer. We may be the organizers of events, the one who cleans up after, coffee makers, bakers of cupcakes, or the women who troll the bakery section of the grocery store. We dress different, wear makeup, no makeup, sing, run, read, climb mountains, and relax on the beach. Our friends can be new to the faith, seasoned believers, or somewhere in between, and the beauty of our faith is that God touches and teaches us through our friends whether they have known Him for a week or a century.
Jesus looked at the heart of the people he met and demonstrated His grace toward those people who were from many different backgrounds and walks of life. He was not so easy on the religious people of the day who looked down on those who were different. To be a good friend in the way Jesus demonstrated friendship, grace, and love, I need to look at Jesus in my friends and not allow insignificant differences to divert my attention. I pray that my friends will continue to overlook my flaws and look upon me with grace, and I commit to do the same.
Let’s examine our friendships, both past and present, and see where we might have come up short. Were or are we keeping friends who may not be appropriate? Have we been guilty of judging our friends based on external things and not seeing them as Christ sees them? Do we need to leave our gifts at the alter and make amends with anyone? If we've done all we God would have us do, and have lost a friendship, let’s take time this week to lift our lost friend in prayer, and lets continue to pray for the friends we have now who God has given us.
When I moved to Florida a few years ago, I was determined to meet people and make friends. It seems that the older I get, the more difficult it becomes. I am more careful about friendships now than when I was a young woman. I've been in some pretty toxic relationships, and as I've grown, I've learned to discern between the healthy and unhealthy. Although I've been rejected and hurt at times, the rewards of a great friendship far outweighs the risks.
It occurred to me that I not only need to be concerned about establishing close friendships with “healthy” women, I need to be a “healthy” woman. In 1 Peter 4:8, Peter says it well, “Love covers a multitude of sins.” “Cover” in this verse means to “overlook” or “hide” the faults. As friends we need to recognize that weakness is in everyone and choose to overlook and love anyway. I love that my friends can overlook my shortcomings and love me enough to want to spend time with me. I receive far more than I deserve from the women I call my friends, and I am so grateful to God for them. Now I need to keep myself in check, extend the grace toward them that they give to me.
We are all called by the same creator, but we are not called to live the same life. We are not all supposed to look alike, talk alike, and act alike. It’s Ok, and in fact it is healthy that our friends are shy, outgoing, creative, logical, funny or serious. God puts us in different situations as well. We can be old or young, wealthy, poor,
work outside the home, work inside the home, or both. Our families will also look different. We may be a single parent, married, or never be a parent. We may homeschool, drive the carpool, substitute teach, coach, or volunteer. We may be the organizers of events, the one who cleans up after, coffee makers, bakers of cupcakes, or the women who troll the bakery section of the grocery store. We dress different, wear makeup, no makeup, sing, run, read, climb mountains, and relax on the beach. Our friends can be new to the faith, seasoned believers, or somewhere in between, and the beauty of our faith is that God touches and teaches us through our friends whether they have known Him for a week or a century.
Jesus looked at the heart of the people he met and demonstrated His grace toward those people who were from many different backgrounds and walks of life. He was not so easy on the religious people of the day who looked down on those who were different. To be a good friend in the way Jesus demonstrated friendship, grace, and love, I need to look at Jesus in my friends and not allow insignificant differences to divert my attention. I pray that my friends will continue to overlook my flaws and look upon me with grace, and I commit to do the same.
Let’s examine our friendships, both past and present, and see where we might have come up short. Were or are we keeping friends who may not be appropriate? Have we been guilty of judging our friends based on external things and not seeing them as Christ sees them? Do we need to leave our gifts at the alter and make amends with anyone? If we've done all we God would have us do, and have lost a friendship, let’s take time this week to lift our lost friend in prayer, and lets continue to pray for the friends we have now who God has given us.
October 16th, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ "In the World"
My prayer is not that you take them out of the world, but that you protect them from the evil one.
John 17:15
There was a time in my early adulthood, I had to walk away from my friends. All of them. They were not good influences on me. When I had made some decisions in my life to change the path I was going down, they were not supportive. I knew at that time in my life, this was not working. I had to walk away. I had to surround myself with those who would lift me up, encourage me & help me stay on the straight and narrow.
In time, I would begin to surround myself with Christians who shared the same convictions. I would grow stronger in my faith. At first it was all very serious, bible studies, church fellowship. We were not having “fun” in the same sense as I did before. I can't deny that I missed having fun with my friends. Eventually, I found myself within a group of Christian women who were having FUN. We were laughing until the tears started flowing, we were dancing the night away, celebrating holidays with each other. Creating memories & filling that void in the “FUN” department that I had been longing for.
As I was putting myself back out in the world, I started making non-Christian friends too. We would have a good time together as well. But, admittedly I kept them separate. Let's face it, they didn't always use the best language and would sometimes have pretty liberal views on politics, religion and life in general. After several years, I decided I was going to have a small gathering of my friends. I had invited one of my non-Christian friends to attend. Unfortunately at the last minute, she had to cancel. But she said something I will never forget... “Gena, I am so disappointed that I couldn't come and meet the rest of your friends. I adore you, and you are such a great person...I am sure your other friends are too. I wish I could have met them. If they are anything like you, I bet they are lovely.” She was wanting to surround herself with more people like me. What made me different than any of her other friends or acquaintances? Christ.
She saw me as a Christian woman, who cared about people, was a dedicated wife and mother, but she also saw that I was fun to be around. She heard me, when I spoke about my failures and imperfections. She heard me, when I talked about striving to do and be better. Every conversation wasn't a deep theological debate. I wasn't trying to spend every waking moment of our friendship trying to convert her. I was simply being a good friend, who loved her, cared about her, and was there for her. As a natural part of our friendship... God entered the picture. If she was going to get to know me, it wasn't something that could be avoided. The more she go to know me, the more she desired to know more people that were like me.
God doesn't want us to surround ourselves with only other Christians. If we do that, we can't reach those who do not know Him. We have no influence on the world. We are not light in the darkness. However, we don't walk out into the world without His protection. We wear the Armor of God. We understand His love for us, and His desires for us to follow His word. We pray for His protection. We stand firm in our convictions. It is His spirit within us, that draws others to us. We are just the vessel.
A challenge my husband presented me with was to each day pray to God asking Him to make me a vessel in the course of my day. Asking Him to give me the right words, at the right moment. Sometimes we have a once in a life time opportunity to reach a person, other times it is slow through the course of building a relationship.
John 17:15
There was a time in my early adulthood, I had to walk away from my friends. All of them. They were not good influences on me. When I had made some decisions in my life to change the path I was going down, they were not supportive. I knew at that time in my life, this was not working. I had to walk away. I had to surround myself with those who would lift me up, encourage me & help me stay on the straight and narrow.
In time, I would begin to surround myself with Christians who shared the same convictions. I would grow stronger in my faith. At first it was all very serious, bible studies, church fellowship. We were not having “fun” in the same sense as I did before. I can't deny that I missed having fun with my friends. Eventually, I found myself within a group of Christian women who were having FUN. We were laughing until the tears started flowing, we were dancing the night away, celebrating holidays with each other. Creating memories & filling that void in the “FUN” department that I had been longing for.
As I was putting myself back out in the world, I started making non-Christian friends too. We would have a good time together as well. But, admittedly I kept them separate. Let's face it, they didn't always use the best language and would sometimes have pretty liberal views on politics, religion and life in general. After several years, I decided I was going to have a small gathering of my friends. I had invited one of my non-Christian friends to attend. Unfortunately at the last minute, she had to cancel. But she said something I will never forget... “Gena, I am so disappointed that I couldn't come and meet the rest of your friends. I adore you, and you are such a great person...I am sure your other friends are too. I wish I could have met them. If they are anything like you, I bet they are lovely.” She was wanting to surround herself with more people like me. What made me different than any of her other friends or acquaintances? Christ.
She saw me as a Christian woman, who cared about people, was a dedicated wife and mother, but she also saw that I was fun to be around. She heard me, when I spoke about my failures and imperfections. She heard me, when I talked about striving to do and be better. Every conversation wasn't a deep theological debate. I wasn't trying to spend every waking moment of our friendship trying to convert her. I was simply being a good friend, who loved her, cared about her, and was there for her. As a natural part of our friendship... God entered the picture. If she was going to get to know me, it wasn't something that could be avoided. The more she go to know me, the more she desired to know more people that were like me.
God doesn't want us to surround ourselves with only other Christians. If we do that, we can't reach those who do not know Him. We have no influence on the world. We are not light in the darkness. However, we don't walk out into the world without His protection. We wear the Armor of God. We understand His love for us, and His desires for us to follow His word. We pray for His protection. We stand firm in our convictions. It is His spirit within us, that draws others to us. We are just the vessel.
A challenge my husband presented me with was to each day pray to God asking Him to make me a vessel in the course of my day. Asking Him to give me the right words, at the right moment. Sometimes we have a once in a life time opportunity to reach a person, other times it is slow through the course of building a relationship.
October 9th, 2013 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Signs
For God does speak — now one way, now another -- though no one perceives it. Job 33:14
I’ve always heard people talk about signs from God, or how God talks to them in their dreams, or just talks to them outright. Well, as far as I knew, God never talked to me. I wanted him to, sometimes desperately. I received lots of advice on how to hear God and followed all of it: sit in silence and just listen; clear your mind of everything (that was hard); say “God, God, God” until a thought hits you. Nothing worked; talk about frustration. I was beginning to feel I was destined to be spiritually deaf and blind. Earlier this year that changed.
My mom, who was my very best friend, passed away last February. One of her favorite things was a red cardinal; she especially loved to see one against the backdrop of white snow when she lived up north and against the green of a golf course when she migrated here to Florida.
A couple of years ago my husband and I put a fountain out in the backyard hoping to attract all kinds of birds. It never attracted even one. The day after my mom passed away, I was looking out back and there, on the bird bath, were four red cardinals. Talk about a sign from my heavenly Father that my mom was safely with Him! And strange as it may sound, I have never seen another bird of any kind on that fountain.
Then it hit me; God has spoken to me and sent me many, many signs, I just didn’t listen and, more importantly, I didn’t look. All those times I would read my daily bible verses and devotionals that seemed to speak directly to what was on my mind. Coincidence? No. I remember times I would look out to the most gorgeous sunset and be filled with a peaceful feeling that all would be well. A rainbow that reminds me of God’s promises, or sometimes a double rainbow in case I’m not paying attention! There have been times when I have seen bright and beautiful stars in the sky on the darkest of nights, or the illumination of the moon and the path it leaves on the ocean, and I now understand even when it’s dark He shines His light for us. Or maybe it’s just a cardinal – or four cardinals that tell me I will see my mom and other loved ones again. I have become a good listener, God talks all the time; I just have to look!
Oh Heavenly Father, what joy your creation brings to me. Help me to focus on You rather than myself when I need to hear from You. Amen.
I’ve always heard people talk about signs from God, or how God talks to them in their dreams, or just talks to them outright. Well, as far as I knew, God never talked to me. I wanted him to, sometimes desperately. I received lots of advice on how to hear God and followed all of it: sit in silence and just listen; clear your mind of everything (that was hard); say “God, God, God” until a thought hits you. Nothing worked; talk about frustration. I was beginning to feel I was destined to be spiritually deaf and blind. Earlier this year that changed.
My mom, who was my very best friend, passed away last February. One of her favorite things was a red cardinal; she especially loved to see one against the backdrop of white snow when she lived up north and against the green of a golf course when she migrated here to Florida.
A couple of years ago my husband and I put a fountain out in the backyard hoping to attract all kinds of birds. It never attracted even one. The day after my mom passed away, I was looking out back and there, on the bird bath, were four red cardinals. Talk about a sign from my heavenly Father that my mom was safely with Him! And strange as it may sound, I have never seen another bird of any kind on that fountain.
Then it hit me; God has spoken to me and sent me many, many signs, I just didn’t listen and, more importantly, I didn’t look. All those times I would read my daily bible verses and devotionals that seemed to speak directly to what was on my mind. Coincidence? No. I remember times I would look out to the most gorgeous sunset and be filled with a peaceful feeling that all would be well. A rainbow that reminds me of God’s promises, or sometimes a double rainbow in case I’m not paying attention! There have been times when I have seen bright and beautiful stars in the sky on the darkest of nights, or the illumination of the moon and the path it leaves on the ocean, and I now understand even when it’s dark He shines His light for us. Or maybe it’s just a cardinal – or four cardinals that tell me I will see my mom and other loved ones again. I have become a good listener, God talks all the time; I just have to look!
Oh Heavenly Father, what joy your creation brings to me. Help me to focus on You rather than myself when I need to hear from You. Amen.
October 2nd, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ Faith
Hebrews 11: 1 Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.
Today one of my friends asked me, “How did you raise 2 teenage boys by yourself and come out sane?” I replied “God’s grace”. There were many times, especially with the first one, that I thought I would go insane. I learned to trust in God and depend on Him to take care of their needs. It was hard because I am an over nurturing mother, who always feels the need to control all situations in their lives. I finally realized, I always tell others to have faith in God and trust Him to work everything out, but I didn’t. I had faith in Him, but thought I needed to help Him along by double checking everything. He just laughed at me and shook His head. “Trust in me Susan”. He had to repeat Himself a lot till I learned. Now I have the faith….the confidence that He loves my kids more than I do. That even if the answer is “No” I trust that He knows what I do not see. I still have days where I cry out to Him, but He replies by giving me a sense of peace, knowing He is not only aware of, but taking care of it. He directs not just my path, but my boys paths as well.
Sometimes you just have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not how you planned, but just how it was meant
to be. Do you have the faith to depend on Him? Even when the answer is no?
Today one of my friends asked me, “How did you raise 2 teenage boys by yourself and come out sane?” I replied “God’s grace”. There were many times, especially with the first one, that I thought I would go insane. I learned to trust in God and depend on Him to take care of their needs. It was hard because I am an over nurturing mother, who always feels the need to control all situations in their lives. I finally realized, I always tell others to have faith in God and trust Him to work everything out, but I didn’t. I had faith in Him, but thought I needed to help Him along by double checking everything. He just laughed at me and shook His head. “Trust in me Susan”. He had to repeat Himself a lot till I learned. Now I have the faith….the confidence that He loves my kids more than I do. That even if the answer is “No” I trust that He knows what I do not see. I still have days where I cry out to Him, but He replies by giving me a sense of peace, knowing He is not only aware of, but taking care of it. He directs not just my path, but my boys paths as well.
Sometimes you just have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not how you planned, but just how it was meant
to be. Do you have the faith to depend on Him? Even when the answer is no?
September 25th,2013 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ Giving Thanks for Everything
Ephesians 5: 19b-20 “Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
When our lives are flowing smoothly, we often lose focus on God. Pride and self-reliance creep in and we become distant from Him. It is important to have a spirit of gratitude, continually praising and thanking God for success, peace, and joy. If we remain grateful, we will stay close to Him.
When our lives are crumbling, we cry out to God for help, as we should. He is almighty and all-powerful and wants nothing more than for us to reach to Him for help. However, in the midst of the struggles, we need to continue to thank God for all of the good in our lives. This is pleasing to Him and helps us reframe our situation in a positive light. Even though one area of our lives is in shambles, we are still blessed beyond what we deserve.
Ephesians 5:20 directs us to give thanks for everything. Yes, everything. Even the struggles are something for which we should give thanks. God is working in us and shaping us to be the people He desires for us to be. He is with us at all times, guiding us through the trials. Give thanks that He is working in you; that He loves you; and that He cares enough about you to continue to shape you.
When our lives are flowing smoothly, we often lose focus on God. Pride and self-reliance creep in and we become distant from Him. It is important to have a spirit of gratitude, continually praising and thanking God for success, peace, and joy. If we remain grateful, we will stay close to Him.
When our lives are crumbling, we cry out to God for help, as we should. He is almighty and all-powerful and wants nothing more than for us to reach to Him for help. However, in the midst of the struggles, we need to continue to thank God for all of the good in our lives. This is pleasing to Him and helps us reframe our situation in a positive light. Even though one area of our lives is in shambles, we are still blessed beyond what we deserve.
Ephesians 5:20 directs us to give thanks for everything. Yes, everything. Even the struggles are something for which we should give thanks. God is working in us and shaping us to be the people He desires for us to be. He is with us at all times, guiding us through the trials. Give thanks that He is working in you; that He loves you; and that He cares enough about you to continue to shape you.
September 18th, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber ~ REJOICE!w
Last year, our Women’s Ministry Group had an event called “Leave Your Mark”. We learned how to paint “The Tree of Life” and embedded a scripture that meant something in our lives. I have my painting on the wall so I can read it daily and reflect on my day.
My scripture is: Philippians 4:4-7.
"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."
I love this scripture because it reassures me that my daily trials can be presented to the Lord and He will provide me with the grace to get me through my challenges. Sometimes we rely on ourselves rather than Him. That is when we turn to self- pity or want sympathy from others. Whenever I become anxious, I stop to pray because I know that by prayer I will find the true peace of joy which comes from Christ dwelling within me. We all have our worries at home, work, or with our friends. Turning your worries into prayer can be very powerful. The Lord will take care of our past, present, and future because God is in control. That’s why I am rejoicing daily in the Lord! And I will say it again ”REJOICE!”
September 11 2013 ~ Contributor: Carol Mularski ~ It's Inventory Day
5 For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; 6 and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7 and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. 8 For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 2 Peter 1:5-8
Talk to the owner of a retail company, and they will tell you the importance of taking inventory. There may be missing merchandise or perhaps, old merchandise is taking up space and needs to be put on clearance. Regardless of the significance of this procedure, the business owner will also tell you that their employees want to call in sick that day. The procedure can be burdensome, requires tedious examination, and may call for adjustments. They were comfortable in their every day routine but “inventory day” causes everyone to stop and pay attention.
You and I may not own a retail company, but as believers, we are also called to take inventory. Every year I stop and take a look at the list in 2 Peter 1:5-8. Why? Verse 8 tells me that if I possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep me from being ineffective and unproductive. Take inventory. Have you added to your faith goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, mutual affection (enjoying relationships with people) and love? Are you doing better now, than you were a year ago? What areas are lacking?
Want to be effective and productive? I do! As we take inventory, let’s celebrate the areas of growth that we see in ourselves over the past year and ask the Lord to show us how to grow in areas that are falling short. Verse 10 of that same chapter says, “if you do these things, you will never stumble. “
Talk to the owner of a retail company, and they will tell you the importance of taking inventory. There may be missing merchandise or perhaps, old merchandise is taking up space and needs to be put on clearance. Regardless of the significance of this procedure, the business owner will also tell you that their employees want to call in sick that day. The procedure can be burdensome, requires tedious examination, and may call for adjustments. They were comfortable in their every day routine but “inventory day” causes everyone to stop and pay attention.
You and I may not own a retail company, but as believers, we are also called to take inventory. Every year I stop and take a look at the list in 2 Peter 1:5-8. Why? Verse 8 tells me that if I possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep me from being ineffective and unproductive. Take inventory. Have you added to your faith goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, mutual affection (enjoying relationships with people) and love? Are you doing better now, than you were a year ago? What areas are lacking?
Want to be effective and productive? I do! As we take inventory, let’s celebrate the areas of growth that we see in ourselves over the past year and ask the Lord to show us how to grow in areas that are falling short. Verse 10 of that same chapter says, “if you do these things, you will never stumble. “
September 4, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ Squeaky Door
“But Samuel replied: “Does the LORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the LORD?
To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams.” I Samuel 15.22
We have a really squeaky front door. It’s a slow, low pitched squeak. Kind of like when a door gets opened in a scary movie. Every time the door gets opened, you’ll hear its’ slow and whiny squeak. Today, I found it very annoying. I’m not sure exactly why it became so annoying today though.
It’s one of those things that you kind of don’t notice after a while. You hear the creak and think “Oh, yeah, we should put some WD40 or oil on those hinges.” And then after a while, you begin not to notice the noise so much.
Isn’t it that way with some things God wants us to deal with? Yes, exactly. We’ve been putting something off. You probably know what it is in your head right now! At least that’s what I thought today after I realized the door squeaked for the thousandth time again. God, seemed to tap me on the shoulder and say, “You know, that’s the way it’s been with returning those things you said you would three weeks ago.” It was like that slow creak I had been getting used to and didn’t seem to notice anymore. Until today.
I’m often surprised at the things God uses to get my attention. Take for example, a front door! What is your squeaky door? What is it you have putting off or some sin you have gotten used to and can no longer hear it squeaking?
Just saying, maybe it’s time to fix that squeaky door.
To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams.” I Samuel 15.22
We have a really squeaky front door. It’s a slow, low pitched squeak. Kind of like when a door gets opened in a scary movie. Every time the door gets opened, you’ll hear its’ slow and whiny squeak. Today, I found it very annoying. I’m not sure exactly why it became so annoying today though.
It’s one of those things that you kind of don’t notice after a while. You hear the creak and think “Oh, yeah, we should put some WD40 or oil on those hinges.” And then after a while, you begin not to notice the noise so much.
Isn’t it that way with some things God wants us to deal with? Yes, exactly. We’ve been putting something off. You probably know what it is in your head right now! At least that’s what I thought today after I realized the door squeaked for the thousandth time again. God, seemed to tap me on the shoulder and say, “You know, that’s the way it’s been with returning those things you said you would three weeks ago.” It was like that slow creak I had been getting used to and didn’t seem to notice anymore. Until today.
I’m often surprised at the things God uses to get my attention. Take for example, a front door! What is your squeaky door? What is it you have putting off or some sin you have gotten used to and can no longer hear it squeaking?
Just saying, maybe it’s time to fix that squeaky door.
August 28, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Loving the Unloveable
Luke 6:32 - “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
We all have those people in our lives that are difficult to love. Sometimes we just have different personalities, opinions, and beliefs. Other times we are faced with loving a person who we see as critical or mean spirited, they may hate us or those we love, and they may hate our God. God has placed people in my life that are just difficult for me to love. I’ve struggled for years about how to love the unlovable. I had one person in particular who was part of my extended family, and with whom I had to interact quite often. Unless doing the happy dance when he went home constituted love, I’d been failing miserably. I’ve prayed for years, not only for this person, but for myself. I prayed for a changed heart, I prayed I would do God’s will with regard to him, I prayed that God would show me how to love, and show me what He meant by “love”.
Eventually, this person became very ill and spent the last part of his life in between the hospital and a nursing home. My husband and I stayed beside him together or in turn while he became more ill, helpless, and child like. The most remarkable thing occurred one night when I was driving home to get some rest. I noticed that my feelings had changed, I not only desired to be by his side and take care of him, I also had a great sense of God’s presence, His peace, and joy. I found joy in serving the living God in this way, and I realized that I’d been feeling this way over the past few weeks. I realized that I loved caring for this very ill man, I loved feeding him, comforting him when he was in pain, holding his hand, and stroking his head. I wanted to be there to care for him right to the end, to be with him through his suffering, to endure long hours, uncomfortable chairs, and missed meals. It was then that I realized that God answered my prayers.
In the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25:37-40 the righteous who are given their inheritance and are blessed by our Father ask, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ God shows us that loving someone is not a feeling but an action. It is treating someone with love, especially those who are difficult. More important, when we do these things for others, we are really doing them for Him. Who among us would not care for our King by tending to Him? When we walk in obedience to God and follow God’s will for us, God changes our hearts.
Let us pray for changed hearts toward the people in our lives that are hard for us to love. Let us ask God to show us opportunities to display His love toward them. Pray that God will reveal Himself to them, that He will bless and comfort them.
We all have those people in our lives that are difficult to love. Sometimes we just have different personalities, opinions, and beliefs. Other times we are faced with loving a person who we see as critical or mean spirited, they may hate us or those we love, and they may hate our God. God has placed people in my life that are just difficult for me to love. I’ve struggled for years about how to love the unlovable. I had one person in particular who was part of my extended family, and with whom I had to interact quite often. Unless doing the happy dance when he went home constituted love, I’d been failing miserably. I’ve prayed for years, not only for this person, but for myself. I prayed for a changed heart, I prayed I would do God’s will with regard to him, I prayed that God would show me how to love, and show me what He meant by “love”.
Eventually, this person became very ill and spent the last part of his life in between the hospital and a nursing home. My husband and I stayed beside him together or in turn while he became more ill, helpless, and child like. The most remarkable thing occurred one night when I was driving home to get some rest. I noticed that my feelings had changed, I not only desired to be by his side and take care of him, I also had a great sense of God’s presence, His peace, and joy. I found joy in serving the living God in this way, and I realized that I’d been feeling this way over the past few weeks. I realized that I loved caring for this very ill man, I loved feeding him, comforting him when he was in pain, holding his hand, and stroking his head. I wanted to be there to care for him right to the end, to be with him through his suffering, to endure long hours, uncomfortable chairs, and missed meals. It was then that I realized that God answered my prayers.
In the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25:37-40 the righteous who are given their inheritance and are blessed by our Father ask, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ God shows us that loving someone is not a feeling but an action. It is treating someone with love, especially those who are difficult. More important, when we do these things for others, we are really doing them for Him. Who among us would not care for our King by tending to Him? When we walk in obedience to God and follow God’s will for us, God changes our hearts.
Let us pray for changed hearts toward the people in our lives that are hard for us to love. Let us ask God to show us opportunities to display His love toward them. Pray that God will reveal Himself to them, that He will bless and comfort them.
August 21, 2013 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ It's the Little Things
“My God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19
A couple of weeks ago Gordon quoted C.S. Lewis, “He who has God and everything has no more than he who has God alone.” As I pondered that statement I thought yes, of course! When I take the time to thank God for many blessings, it doesn’t even occur to me to thank Him for the kind of car I have parked in the garage; just that I have a car and a garage to park it in. I don’t thank Him for the neighborhood I live in; I am thankful for my wonderful neighbors who watch out for us and for a roof over my head. I thank Him for enough food to fill my cupboards and refrigerator; not whether they’re solid cherry wood or stainless steel.
We have so, so much to be thankful for. Think of life’s little joys: flowers in bloom; a toddler’s giggle; a hot shower; chicken soup to soothe a cold; warm sunshine on our face; clean clothes; a cerulean blue sky; the sound of a loved one’s voice; a rainbow; the pounding of the surf; the pinks, lavenders, yellows and blues of a sunrise. How blessed we are to have them!
How about life’s bigger joys: the birth of a child; family and friends to love and whom love us in return; a confident, compassionate and teachable heart; integrity, character and a good reputation; enough money and provision so that we don’t have to worry about tomorrow; a healthy body; opportunities to contribute meaningfully in the lives of others; the ability to worship freely; forgiveness of sins and the promise of eternal life through our Savior Jesus Christ. The list goes on and on and on and on.
Quoting Colleen Townsend Evans, “Jesus promises that satisfaction will come to those who seek the good things of God. He says that they will be filled – not with the material goods of this world, not with an easy way of life, not with something of limited value that can be taken away from them – but with the joy and contentment that come from doing God’s will. The filled people are the truly happy people in life.”
God has provided everything we need for a life full of joy and contentment. Although we may not be rich in material things, we are certainly rich in God’s love and blessings. Let’s start sharing the blessings of little things by smiling at the less-than-cheerful sales clerk; going the extra mile at work for a colleague; overlooking an insult; letting a stranger merge in front of us on a congested roadway; giving a glass of cold water to a thirsty child.
As God’s representatives here on earth we can change that quote of C.S. Lewis to say, “He who has God alone has everything.”
Lord Jesus, you have blessed me so much! Help me to see and seize ways to bless others in my words and actions. Amen.
A couple of weeks ago Gordon quoted C.S. Lewis, “He who has God and everything has no more than he who has God alone.” As I pondered that statement I thought yes, of course! When I take the time to thank God for many blessings, it doesn’t even occur to me to thank Him for the kind of car I have parked in the garage; just that I have a car and a garage to park it in. I don’t thank Him for the neighborhood I live in; I am thankful for my wonderful neighbors who watch out for us and for a roof over my head. I thank Him for enough food to fill my cupboards and refrigerator; not whether they’re solid cherry wood or stainless steel.
We have so, so much to be thankful for. Think of life’s little joys: flowers in bloom; a toddler’s giggle; a hot shower; chicken soup to soothe a cold; warm sunshine on our face; clean clothes; a cerulean blue sky; the sound of a loved one’s voice; a rainbow; the pounding of the surf; the pinks, lavenders, yellows and blues of a sunrise. How blessed we are to have them!
How about life’s bigger joys: the birth of a child; family and friends to love and whom love us in return; a confident, compassionate and teachable heart; integrity, character and a good reputation; enough money and provision so that we don’t have to worry about tomorrow; a healthy body; opportunities to contribute meaningfully in the lives of others; the ability to worship freely; forgiveness of sins and the promise of eternal life through our Savior Jesus Christ. The list goes on and on and on and on.
Quoting Colleen Townsend Evans, “Jesus promises that satisfaction will come to those who seek the good things of God. He says that they will be filled – not with the material goods of this world, not with an easy way of life, not with something of limited value that can be taken away from them – but with the joy and contentment that come from doing God’s will. The filled people are the truly happy people in life.”
God has provided everything we need for a life full of joy and contentment. Although we may not be rich in material things, we are certainly rich in God’s love and blessings. Let’s start sharing the blessings of little things by smiling at the less-than-cheerful sales clerk; going the extra mile at work for a colleague; overlooking an insult; letting a stranger merge in front of us on a congested roadway; giving a glass of cold water to a thirsty child.
As God’s representatives here on earth we can change that quote of C.S. Lewis to say, “He who has God alone has everything.”
Lord Jesus, you have blessed me so much! Help me to see and seize ways to bless others in my words and actions. Amen.
August 14, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ The Love of Money
For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.
Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith
and pierced themselves with many griefs. 1 Timothy 6:10
I have a guilty pleasure, I watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. At first it was out of curiosity, I wanted to know what their lives were really like. How wonderful must it be to have all that money, all of those resources to draw from. What I realized, very quickly, is that their lives are not all that wonderful.
I remember growing up as a kid, not having a lot of money. We would often play the “if money was no object” game, or “if I won the lottery” game. We would talk about the things we would buy, the people we would help. There was an illusion that by having more money all of our problems would be resolved. Life would be better. We would be happier.
That is so far from the truth. In watching the Real Housewives I have learned:
Money doesn't solve your problems. Money doesn't make you happier. Money doesn't guarantee you will be spared trouble. Because, money has no power. God has power.
God gives us all the resources we need to get through this life. There are no promises that we won't struggle, but we know that we will not struggle alone. God fills our spirit, develops our character. God helps us define who we are & who we become.
I can have all the money and resources in the world, but without God.... I am bankrupt.
Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5
Be challenged this week to not think about how your life could be different “if only you had more...” and instead examine what you have, and how you could better use it for His glory.
Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith
and pierced themselves with many griefs. 1 Timothy 6:10
I have a guilty pleasure, I watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. At first it was out of curiosity, I wanted to know what their lives were really like. How wonderful must it be to have all that money, all of those resources to draw from. What I realized, very quickly, is that their lives are not all that wonderful.
I remember growing up as a kid, not having a lot of money. We would often play the “if money was no object” game, or “if I won the lottery” game. We would talk about the things we would buy, the people we would help. There was an illusion that by having more money all of our problems would be resolved. Life would be better. We would be happier.
That is so far from the truth. In watching the Real Housewives I have learned:
- You can have all the money in the world, and your husband will still cheat on you.
- You can have all the money in the world, and your business can still fail.
- You can have all the money in the world, and still be depressed and driven to addiction.
- You can have all the money in the world, and still have a dysfunctional family.
- You can have all the money in the world, and not have any authentic friendships or relationships.
- You can have all the money in the world, and still be alone and lonely.
- You can have all the money in the world, and it still isn't enough to make you happy.
Money doesn't solve your problems. Money doesn't make you happier. Money doesn't guarantee you will be spared trouble. Because, money has no power. God has power.
God gives us all the resources we need to get through this life. There are no promises that we won't struggle, but we know that we will not struggle alone. God fills our spirit, develops our character. God helps us define who we are & who we become.
I can have all the money and resources in the world, but without God.... I am bankrupt.
Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5
Be challenged this week to not think about how your life could be different “if only you had more...” and instead examine what you have, and how you could better use it for His glory.
August 7, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ How to Be Led By the Holy Spirit
I had always wanted to be a great witness like my father. I wanted be able to speak and share God’s love with others like he did, but didn’t know how I could ever possibly become that person. What is that gift? How do you get it? Does God give it to some and not others? I prayed that God would impart this gift on me, only to discover it is a gift we all carry inside us. When we accept Christ into our hearts, we become filled with the Holy Spirit. What we do with this gift and how we develop it is up to us.
The first thing to establish though is that it is possible to be led by the Spirit of God. Romans 8:14 – “Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the Sons of God” If the Holy Spirit is in your life He will lead and guide you.
The Holy Spirit will also speak to us at times by making a particular passage jump out at you. He speaks to us through pastors, Bible teachers, and home groups as they minister the word…We hear God’s voice and find his direction as we are taught the word of God. I really think this the primary way in which God speaks to us.
Sometimes He speaks to us through the gift of discernment. People call this “a check in your Spirit”. It’s unexplainable, but you just have this inner sense that you are not supposed to do something… Or go somewhere… Or partner up with someone… You just don’t have a peace about it… Something just doesn’t feel right… That is the Holy Spirit warning you. Through His still small voice
We look for God to speak to us in some big, powerful way…But almost all of the time it is by His still small voice… In the quietness of our hearts. How do we know it’s from the Lord? And not just our own mind? Or worse, the enemy deceiving us? It will never contradict the written word of God. It will impart God’s grace and wisdom. In James 3:17 we see what the wisdom of God is like:
“But the wisdom that is from above is first of all pure, then peace loving, gentle at all times, willing to yield to others, full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere”. So whatever the Holy Spirit speaks to us, will have those qualities about it.
He speaks to us often by a still small voice. We need to quiet ourselves before God. That means that we have to create space in our lives so we can hear him. We have to turn off the electronics, get rid of the distractions, and quiet our hearts before the Lord. I have found so often, that when I ask Him to allow me to hear his voice, to speak His words, to share His love… He is the one who begins speaking His words through me. Sometimes I wonder how these words are spoken, but I know it is the Holy Spirit speaking not me. Have you heard or felt in your heart or that funny feeling in your stomach?.. God telling you to pray for someone, talk to some stranger, or do something you wouldn’t normally do for someone? That is the Holy Spirit speaking to you.
Mother Theresa wrote: “We need to find God, and He cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass – grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence. We need silence to be able to touch souls.”
So the question is, are you experiencing the Holy Spirit's communication in all these ways? No matter where we are in our present walk with God, the Holy Spirit offers us far more than we are accepting. If our relationship with the Holy Spirit is not being enlarged and if we are able to remain comfortable with our limited contact with Him, then we have not fully encountered Him--either in Scripture or in Person.
The first thing to establish though is that it is possible to be led by the Spirit of God. Romans 8:14 – “Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the Sons of God” If the Holy Spirit is in your life He will lead and guide you.
The Holy Spirit will also speak to us at times by making a particular passage jump out at you. He speaks to us through pastors, Bible teachers, and home groups as they minister the word…We hear God’s voice and find his direction as we are taught the word of God. I really think this the primary way in which God speaks to us.
Sometimes He speaks to us through the gift of discernment. People call this “a check in your Spirit”. It’s unexplainable, but you just have this inner sense that you are not supposed to do something… Or go somewhere… Or partner up with someone… You just don’t have a peace about it… Something just doesn’t feel right… That is the Holy Spirit warning you. Through His still small voice
We look for God to speak to us in some big, powerful way…But almost all of the time it is by His still small voice… In the quietness of our hearts. How do we know it’s from the Lord? And not just our own mind? Or worse, the enemy deceiving us? It will never contradict the written word of God. It will impart God’s grace and wisdom. In James 3:17 we see what the wisdom of God is like:
“But the wisdom that is from above is first of all pure, then peace loving, gentle at all times, willing to yield to others, full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere”. So whatever the Holy Spirit speaks to us, will have those qualities about it.
He speaks to us often by a still small voice. We need to quiet ourselves before God. That means that we have to create space in our lives so we can hear him. We have to turn off the electronics, get rid of the distractions, and quiet our hearts before the Lord. I have found so often, that when I ask Him to allow me to hear his voice, to speak His words, to share His love… He is the one who begins speaking His words through me. Sometimes I wonder how these words are spoken, but I know it is the Holy Spirit speaking not me. Have you heard or felt in your heart or that funny feeling in your stomach?.. God telling you to pray for someone, talk to some stranger, or do something you wouldn’t normally do for someone? That is the Holy Spirit speaking to you.
Mother Theresa wrote: “We need to find God, and He cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass – grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence. We need silence to be able to touch souls.”
So the question is, are you experiencing the Holy Spirit's communication in all these ways? No matter where we are in our present walk with God, the Holy Spirit offers us far more than we are accepting. If our relationship with the Holy Spirit is not being enlarged and if we are able to remain comfortable with our limited contact with Him, then we have not fully encountered Him--either in Scripture or in Person.
July 31, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ Wingless Birds
“They shall mount up with wings as eagles.” Isaiah 40.31
I know it’s a weird thought. But imagine birds without wings. Or imagine how birds got their wings.
There is a fable about the way birds got their wings. In the beginning they were made without wings. Then God made wings and put them down before the wingless birds and said, "Come, take up these burdens and bear them."
The birds had beautiful feathers and sweet melodies for voices but they couldn’t fly or soar in the air. They hesitated at first when God encouraged them to take up the burdens that lay in front of them. Soon they took up the wings in their beaks and laid them on their shoulders to carry them.
For a little while the wings seemed heavy and hard to bear. Yet they went on carrying them. Finally the wings grew into their little bodies. They soon discovered how to use them, and were lifted by them up into the air. The burdens became wings.
It’s a parable. We are the wingless birds, and our burdens and tasks are the wings God has made to lift us up and help us look toward Him. We look at our burdens and heavy loads, and shrink from them; but as we lift them to God, they become wings, and on them we rise and soar toward God.
God wants our burdens and heaviness to be our helpers. If we refuse to bend our shoulders to receive a load, it is as if we decline a new opportunity for growth. May we soar on wings like eagles as the Scripture has said.
I know it’s a weird thought. But imagine birds without wings. Or imagine how birds got their wings.
There is a fable about the way birds got their wings. In the beginning they were made without wings. Then God made wings and put them down before the wingless birds and said, "Come, take up these burdens and bear them."
The birds had beautiful feathers and sweet melodies for voices but they couldn’t fly or soar in the air. They hesitated at first when God encouraged them to take up the burdens that lay in front of them. Soon they took up the wings in their beaks and laid them on their shoulders to carry them.
For a little while the wings seemed heavy and hard to bear. Yet they went on carrying them. Finally the wings grew into their little bodies. They soon discovered how to use them, and were lifted by them up into the air. The burdens became wings.
It’s a parable. We are the wingless birds, and our burdens and tasks are the wings God has made to lift us up and help us look toward Him. We look at our burdens and heavy loads, and shrink from them; but as we lift them to God, they become wings, and on them we rise and soar toward God.
God wants our burdens and heaviness to be our helpers. If we refuse to bend our shoulders to receive a load, it is as if we decline a new opportunity for growth. May we soar on wings like eagles as the Scripture has said.
July 24, 2013 ~ Contributor: Deb Thomas ~ Made By God
“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14
As a Hospice volunteer I have a lot of contact with the elderly. Most of them are in nursing homes and most of them are alone; some are lucky enough to have relatives in the area but the majority does not. The nurses and aides do a wonderful job of caring for them but their time with each patient is limited.
At the moment I have four patients; one is bedridden and the other three are either walker- or wheelchair-bound. They are all in their nineties and have much to share with me: wisdom, mountain top experiences, successes, journeys, painful losses, heartbreaks, disappointments and regrets.
I was fortunate enough to take part in an aromatherapy class provided by Hospice. I walked away with a couple of samples and lots of ideas. One was to take the soothing lavender/orange lotion and massage my patients’ hands and feet. Every one of them closed their eyes, laid back their head and sighed with contentment. As I massaged, I worshipped. I worshipped a gracious God who knows each one of these lovely ladies by name.
I worshipped a God who formed each face, who granted sight to each pair of eyes and blessed each one with a loving heart. I worshipped a God who envisioned each body shape and wired each personality before he implanted each baby in its mother’s womb. As I massaged I also wondered. I wondered what each one thought about every morning when she woke up. I wondered if they had wished for a smaller nose. I wondered had they cursed their tangled, naturally curly hair? Or did they see themselves as the glorious creation of a gracious God who loves them unconditionally?
How about you? Do you fret and worry about weighing less or more, being smarter or more socially adept, or being able to dress more stylishly or live in a more upscale zip code? Or perhaps your self-talk finds your mirror reflecting a deeper kind of concern back to you. As you study your reflection, do you see the dark tones of shame over past failures or sins? Do you notice worry lines etched across your brow or bloodshot eyes from another night of tossing and turning?
Or do you see yourself as the precious, chosen, honored sister of Jesus Christ? Do you see yourself as one he intentionally redeemed on Calvary’s cross? Do you see yourself as one he will someday introduce to his heavenly Father as his dearly loved friend? This is how I see each and every one of my Hospice patients. I pray not only that they see themselves that way, but that you see yourself that way too!
Lord Jesus, change my perspective. Help me see myself more and more fully as a person whose life you have graced in marvelous ways in both creation and redemption. Then help me grace the lives of others around me as I share your unconditional acceptance and love with them! Amen.
July 17, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ God's Tools
The only way to reach spiritually blind, captive, and dead people is through the divine work of almighty God, who does not wish "for any to perish but for all to come to repentance" (2 Pet 3:9) We are his tool; He is the power. The apostle Paul explains, "God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline" (2 Tim 1:7) We do not have to be afraid to share our faith because He has given us 3 important tools to help us.
Power. The gospel of God opens blind eyes, rescues the captive, and revives the dead. We share our faith by declaring that Christ died on the cross for our sins, was buried, and rose from the ded. Lead the lost to consider who Jesus is, because He is the one who provides salvation. Any rejection you experienc thus center on Him, not you. Always pray for his wisdom and strength when you tell others about His saving grace. It is the power of God through the Holy Spirit that changes lives. (Acts 1:8)
Love. The greatest force on earth is the love of God. "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35) We can showcase his love in countless ways (1 John 3:18) Listen to the words of a friend. Spend time with a parent or loved one. Keep a couple's children so they can have a special night out. Invite a friend over for dinner. Take food to someone that is sick. We can love others through service, or we can love them with our word (Prov 31:26) That means we encourage those who are lost by telling them about the Lord Jesus, who loves them unconditionally and wants to give them new life.
Wisdom. The Christian faith is based on the unshakeable Word of God and not fiction. Sharing our faith is never unreasonable or irrrational-we are doing exactly what Jesus has commanded us to do and that is to proclaim the true message of the gospel to as many people as possible. We offer others the trustworthy testimony of Scripture and the reason of our faith (1 Pet 3:15) which includes:
The facts of the Resurrection (1 Cor 15:6) The Resurrection is indeed a concrete, historical fact.
The fact of fulfilled Scripture. Literally hundreds of Old Testament prophesies were fulfilled in the New Testament, including many intricate details of Jesus' birth, life, death, and resurrection.
The fact of manuscript and archaeological evidence. Thusands of ancient manuscripts attest to the reliablity of the Bible. Archaeological evidence has consistently varified the historical dat of the Bible.
The Gospel is more than information. It has inherent power and the only thing that can hinder it, is our failure to share it with others! May the words of Paul ring true in our lives when he says, "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes..." Romans 1:16 Don't be ashamed. Look for opportunities to share the love of Christ this week!
Power. The gospel of God opens blind eyes, rescues the captive, and revives the dead. We share our faith by declaring that Christ died on the cross for our sins, was buried, and rose from the ded. Lead the lost to consider who Jesus is, because He is the one who provides salvation. Any rejection you experienc thus center on Him, not you. Always pray for his wisdom and strength when you tell others about His saving grace. It is the power of God through the Holy Spirit that changes lives. (Acts 1:8)
Love. The greatest force on earth is the love of God. "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35) We can showcase his love in countless ways (1 John 3:18) Listen to the words of a friend. Spend time with a parent or loved one. Keep a couple's children so they can have a special night out. Invite a friend over for dinner. Take food to someone that is sick. We can love others through service, or we can love them with our word (Prov 31:26) That means we encourage those who are lost by telling them about the Lord Jesus, who loves them unconditionally and wants to give them new life.
Wisdom. The Christian faith is based on the unshakeable Word of God and not fiction. Sharing our faith is never unreasonable or irrrational-we are doing exactly what Jesus has commanded us to do and that is to proclaim the true message of the gospel to as many people as possible. We offer others the trustworthy testimony of Scripture and the reason of our faith (1 Pet 3:15) which includes:
The facts of the Resurrection (1 Cor 15:6) The Resurrection is indeed a concrete, historical fact.
The fact of fulfilled Scripture. Literally hundreds of Old Testament prophesies were fulfilled in the New Testament, including many intricate details of Jesus' birth, life, death, and resurrection.
The fact of manuscript and archaeological evidence. Thusands of ancient manuscripts attest to the reliablity of the Bible. Archaeological evidence has consistently varified the historical dat of the Bible.
The Gospel is more than information. It has inherent power and the only thing that can hinder it, is our failure to share it with others! May the words of Paul ring true in our lives when he says, "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes..." Romans 1:16 Don't be ashamed. Look for opportunities to share the love of Christ this week!
July 10, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ I Stand Corrected (Part 2 of 2)
I am going to be honest, I do not take well to criticism. I am an eager learner, I don't mind being corrected when I am wrong. I value the opinions of others. I am a move forward, not back kind of girl. But, there are times when I can allow criticism to get under my skin. But, there is a difference between criticism and correction.
Recently my husband informed me that I “don't finish projects”. For those reading this, who know me personally, you are probably wondering if this man knows me at all! My husband was not correcting me or guiding me, he was being critical. I didn't take kindly to it and I proceeded to remind him that he was the one who initiated our journey into Dave Ramsey living. If he would like me to finish our household projects, I'd be happy to... the moment he handed me a credit card or expanded my personal budget. (I was being very sarcastic, I really wouldn't do that.) I wanted him to understand I was doing the best with what I was given, and he needed to be patient through our “cash only process”.
As I was reflecting on the confrontation I had with my friend (see last week's devotion), I asked myself if I was being critical of her. Or, was my assessment of the situation accurate & correction was the right course. That is, after all, what correction is. We are helping someone who has taken a turn get back on course. In some cases it is an obvious sharp turn, and in others it has been a slow, gradual, drift. When I struggle with anything like this, I always turn to the Word. If I can figure out what God has to say about it, perhaps figuring out my next steps won't be so hard. I also reached out to those I consider wise counsel.
As a result, I came to find that scripture not only tells us that we should correct our sisters in Christ, but we are also told how we should be responding to correction. In reading this, it not only confirmed for me that my friend was responding incorrectly, but also made me take at look at my own responses to correction (and criticism
too).
Proverbs 19:20 Take good counsel and accept correction— that’s the way to live wisely and well.
How do you respond when someone corrects you? Do you get defensive? Do you make excuses? Do you try and pass the buck & blame someone else? Or, do you try to justify your behavior in order to make it ok? When you read last weeks devotion, did you relate to it? Have you responded in the same way my friend did? Do you take it personally when a friend tries to encourage you to have a different perspective? And, as Pastor Gordon asked us in our last series... are you
teachable?
This bit of advice was shared with me, just this past week:
"When someone gives you advice that you don't want to hear, you should not react until you have:
1) prayed about it
2) compared the advice to Scripture
3) asked yourself, is it true?"
Being accountable to each other as friends is a two way street. We must be willing to not only give correction, but also receive it. If I speak in truth and love, then I should receive with love and humbleness. I need to embrace this person, who cared about me enough to call me out on my behavior, and help me realize what I was doing & become better for it.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Lord, I pray that you give me a mouth that speaks, when it is time to speak; and ears to listen, when it is time to listen. Help me to speak in YOUR truths, through MY love for my sisters in Christ. Let me received YOUR truth, through THEIR love for me. Protect our friendship from division, so that we may continue to encourage each other to be focused on YOU. Amen.
Recently my husband informed me that I “don't finish projects”. For those reading this, who know me personally, you are probably wondering if this man knows me at all! My husband was not correcting me or guiding me, he was being critical. I didn't take kindly to it and I proceeded to remind him that he was the one who initiated our journey into Dave Ramsey living. If he would like me to finish our household projects, I'd be happy to... the moment he handed me a credit card or expanded my personal budget. (I was being very sarcastic, I really wouldn't do that.) I wanted him to understand I was doing the best with what I was given, and he needed to be patient through our “cash only process”.
As I was reflecting on the confrontation I had with my friend (see last week's devotion), I asked myself if I was being critical of her. Or, was my assessment of the situation accurate & correction was the right course. That is, after all, what correction is. We are helping someone who has taken a turn get back on course. In some cases it is an obvious sharp turn, and in others it has been a slow, gradual, drift. When I struggle with anything like this, I always turn to the Word. If I can figure out what God has to say about it, perhaps figuring out my next steps won't be so hard. I also reached out to those I consider wise counsel.
As a result, I came to find that scripture not only tells us that we should correct our sisters in Christ, but we are also told how we should be responding to correction. In reading this, it not only confirmed for me that my friend was responding incorrectly, but also made me take at look at my own responses to correction (and criticism
too).
Proverbs 19:20 Take good counsel and accept correction— that’s the way to live wisely and well.
How do you respond when someone corrects you? Do you get defensive? Do you make excuses? Do you try and pass the buck & blame someone else? Or, do you try to justify your behavior in order to make it ok? When you read last weeks devotion, did you relate to it? Have you responded in the same way my friend did? Do you take it personally when a friend tries to encourage you to have a different perspective? And, as Pastor Gordon asked us in our last series... are you
teachable?
This bit of advice was shared with me, just this past week:
"When someone gives you advice that you don't want to hear, you should not react until you have:
1) prayed about it
2) compared the advice to Scripture
3) asked yourself, is it true?"
Being accountable to each other as friends is a two way street. We must be willing to not only give correction, but also receive it. If I speak in truth and love, then I should receive with love and humbleness. I need to embrace this person, who cared about me enough to call me out on my behavior, and help me realize what I was doing & become better for it.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Lord, I pray that you give me a mouth that speaks, when it is time to speak; and ears to listen, when it is time to listen. Help me to speak in YOUR truths, through MY love for my sisters in Christ. Let me received YOUR truth, through THEIR love for me. Protect our friendship from division, so that we may continue to encourage each other to be focused on YOU. Amen.
July 3, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ To Correct or Not to Correct (Part 1 of 2)
Recently, one of my best friends sent me a vague text stating that she was angry. During the course of the discussion, I realized that I disagreed with her take on the situation. Even more importantly, from a spiritual standpoint, I didn't agree with how she was responding to the situation. As her friend, and a Christian, I decided to correct her. After all, isn't that what we are told to do?
2 Timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.
I wasn't mean, but I also didn't beat around the bush. You see, this was a behavior that I had seen before. As I recognized this pattern, it was like a veil was lifted & I suddenly saw some situations from her past in a new perspective. Her response of anger was a pattern of behavior. It wasn't healthy for her, or any one around her. I knew that I needed to say something. This correction, however, was not well received. I thought I had handled it well. I wasn't mean or harsh, but I also didn't beat around the bush either. Instead of appreciating my correction, what I got was the silent treatment. The deafening silence continued for days; leading me to try and clarify my point. I was also trying to fix her being upset with me. The more I tried to fix it, the worse things got. Then, my mind started getting the better of me.
Galatians 6:1 Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restorehim in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.
Satan had gotten a hold of my ear. Twisting the scenario around. Tainting my thoughts and opinions ofher. To the point that I was even playing out scenarios in my head of what our next conversation was going to be like. Fortunately, despite everything going on in my head, my heart and my friendship... I was seeking God. I was digging into his word about friendships & accountability; and the more I read, the more my heart softened. I wasn't letting Satan mess with my mind any more. I was reminded that I loved my friend. I wanted to open her eyes to something she may not have been recognizing in herself. I wanted to help her.
Proverbs 17:17 A friend always loves, and a brother is born to share trouble.
How do we correct our Christian sisters? First, I would recommend reading Matthew 18:15-17. I am grateful for the clarity in God's word on the subject. We need to first speak with them, privately. Then if they don't listen, we come with 2-3 others. If they still do not listen, you take it to your church leaders or body. Oddly enough, this was the easy part.
Second, there were some important things I realized (in retrospect) that would have helped. Hopefully my sharing them will be beneficial should you find yourself in this situation.
1. She admitted she was already angry. This was definitely not the right time, her emotions were on high alert. She was not going to be able to hear me.
She was on the defensive. Poor timing.
2. Say it, then zip it. If you do speak to your friend... say what you have to say, then zip your lips. Your friend may need time to process what you say to her.
And what may not even seem like a big deal to you, may be a big deal to her. Stop trying to make your point, or smooth things over. Give her space.
3. Wait. Pray. Speak, only if led to. Unless what your friend is about to do is going to cause immediate harm to her or others, wait to speak. When we wait, we
then have time to reference scripture and pray. Ask God if you should say something, how you should say it and when.Let God lead your correction. God
may end up leading you to keep your mouth shut altogether or just for the time being.
2 Timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.
I wasn't mean, but I also didn't beat around the bush. You see, this was a behavior that I had seen before. As I recognized this pattern, it was like a veil was lifted & I suddenly saw some situations from her past in a new perspective. Her response of anger was a pattern of behavior. It wasn't healthy for her, or any one around her. I knew that I needed to say something. This correction, however, was not well received. I thought I had handled it well. I wasn't mean or harsh, but I also didn't beat around the bush either. Instead of appreciating my correction, what I got was the silent treatment. The deafening silence continued for days; leading me to try and clarify my point. I was also trying to fix her being upset with me. The more I tried to fix it, the worse things got. Then, my mind started getting the better of me.
Galatians 6:1 Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restorehim in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.
Satan had gotten a hold of my ear. Twisting the scenario around. Tainting my thoughts and opinions ofher. To the point that I was even playing out scenarios in my head of what our next conversation was going to be like. Fortunately, despite everything going on in my head, my heart and my friendship... I was seeking God. I was digging into his word about friendships & accountability; and the more I read, the more my heart softened. I wasn't letting Satan mess with my mind any more. I was reminded that I loved my friend. I wanted to open her eyes to something she may not have been recognizing in herself. I wanted to help her.
Proverbs 17:17 A friend always loves, and a brother is born to share trouble.
How do we correct our Christian sisters? First, I would recommend reading Matthew 18:15-17. I am grateful for the clarity in God's word on the subject. We need to first speak with them, privately. Then if they don't listen, we come with 2-3 others. If they still do not listen, you take it to your church leaders or body. Oddly enough, this was the easy part.
Second, there were some important things I realized (in retrospect) that would have helped. Hopefully my sharing them will be beneficial should you find yourself in this situation.
1. She admitted she was already angry. This was definitely not the right time, her emotions were on high alert. She was not going to be able to hear me.
She was on the defensive. Poor timing.
2. Say it, then zip it. If you do speak to your friend... say what you have to say, then zip your lips. Your friend may need time to process what you say to her.
And what may not even seem like a big deal to you, may be a big deal to her. Stop trying to make your point, or smooth things over. Give her space.
3. Wait. Pray. Speak, only if led to. Unless what your friend is about to do is going to cause immediate harm to her or others, wait to speak. When we wait, we
then have time to reference scripture and pray. Ask God if you should say something, how you should say it and when.Let God lead your correction. God
may end up leading you to keep your mouth shut altogether or just for the time being.
June 26, 2013~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ What’s Your Ringtone?
Last week my husband got a new cell phone. Over the course of the next few days he made various changes to the phone to personalize it. The final change was adding individual ringtones for those of us who call him the most. He set ringtones for everyone on his list, but he struggled with what ringtone to assign to me. I asked him what song might remind him of who I am to him. He finally decided on “Wild Thing” by the Troggs. I thought about it, and I think it makes sense. Over the years, we’ve climbed mountains, dangled by ropes off the side of cliffs, squeezed through small passage ways in underground caves, swam in shark infested waters, raced down the road side by side on motorcycles, and have had many other countless adventures over the years we’ve spent together.
I began thinking, how does God see me, and would God choose “Wild Thing” as my ringtone? Do I sit on the porch in my rocker, or do I dance with God on the edge? Did God intend for me to be a follower who would play it safe? If God told me He’d catch me if I jumped off a cliff, would I trust Him enough to jump, or would I step away from the edge?
James 2:14 says “What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?”
Hmmm, is James talking about lip service?
We’ve got to be willing to risk everything for the Kingdom and the One who saved us. That means I need to trust in Jesus every day and take whatever risks he puts before me. It means having that difficult conversation with a loved one and risking rejection, giving away my last dollar and trusting that He will provide for me, approaching the woman in the parking lot who’s in obvious distress and offering my help, sharing Jesus with a prostitute, sharing Jesus with a Muslim. It means stepping in to defend the defenseless, even when it puts me in harm’s way. It may mean moving to a new town or country, joining a mission group, or joining a rescue mission. I need to have the same attitude toward the risks I take just for funzies as I do toward the risks I need to take in my walk with Jesus. If I have to choose between leaving this world a coward, or leaving as one of God’s “Wild Things”, I want to leave here as a wild thing who is crazy in love with her Savior and is ready and willing to risk it all. Just as the father in Mark 9:24 said to Jesus “I do believe, but help me overcome my unbelief!”, we too can ask Jesus to help us overcome our unbelief and He accomplish a mighty work in us.
I began thinking, how does God see me, and would God choose “Wild Thing” as my ringtone? Do I sit on the porch in my rocker, or do I dance with God on the edge? Did God intend for me to be a follower who would play it safe? If God told me He’d catch me if I jumped off a cliff, would I trust Him enough to jump, or would I step away from the edge?
James 2:14 says “What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?”
Hmmm, is James talking about lip service?
We’ve got to be willing to risk everything for the Kingdom and the One who saved us. That means I need to trust in Jesus every day and take whatever risks he puts before me. It means having that difficult conversation with a loved one and risking rejection, giving away my last dollar and trusting that He will provide for me, approaching the woman in the parking lot who’s in obvious distress and offering my help, sharing Jesus with a prostitute, sharing Jesus with a Muslim. It means stepping in to defend the defenseless, even when it puts me in harm’s way. It may mean moving to a new town or country, joining a mission group, or joining a rescue mission. I need to have the same attitude toward the risks I take just for funzies as I do toward the risks I need to take in my walk with Jesus. If I have to choose between leaving this world a coward, or leaving as one of God’s “Wild Things”, I want to leave here as a wild thing who is crazy in love with her Savior and is ready and willing to risk it all. Just as the father in Mark 9:24 said to Jesus “I do believe, but help me overcome my unbelief!”, we too can ask Jesus to help us overcome our unbelief and He accomplish a mighty work in us.
June 18th, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pam Newton ~ Lesson from a Shoemaker
The rubber stamp read “Anthony Chimelli Shoemaker”. He was a little old, Italian man who spoke broken English. I handed him my backpack and showed him the broken zipper on it. Without speaking, he tugged on the zipper pull so
hard it popped off. Then, he took a small knife-like tool and slit a small tear into the backpack.
“Just great. Now it’s totally broken,” I muttered to myself. An old, yellowing clock ticked loudly on the wall. I had exactly five minutes before I had to leave. Didn’t he know I was in a hurry?
He interrupted my silent conversation. “Strong seam. Dee zeeper ees goood.”
Trying to smile, my thoughts sarcastically shouted, “Uuuuuuuh, no- the zipper is broken- not good.” With irritation I explained, “The zipper is broken. Can you fix it? I can come back for it in a few days or a week.”
He answered, “Aaaah, no, no. Dee zeeper ees goood. I do now.” This little old shoemaker with leathery, work worn hands, and dirty fingernails fixed it with a slit, a squeeze, some thread and a little grease. And he only charged me a single dollar!
Wow. I felt guilty and a bit embarrassed for being so hurried and thinking my not so nice thoughts about this humble little shoemaker. I thanked him profusely and left.
On the drive home, it occurred to me how much God is like that little shoemaker. That little old man knew just the right tool to use, did the job right away and didn’t charge me much to do it.
Like my thoughts told the shoemaker, “Hurry up”, I say to God as well. It’s the same when I come to God to ‘fix’ something for me. I have a personal agenda. My own time frame and how it should all work out. After all, I live a busy life, you know…I’m impatient with God and His timing and selfish about the way I would like things done in my life. “Forgive my impatience with your work in my life, Lord.” God smiled as the shoemaker had. They both showed me their handiwork. I never expected to encounter God in the form of an elderly man. I was humbled, realizing God reveals Himself in unexpected ways– even old Italian shoemakers.
hard it popped off. Then, he took a small knife-like tool and slit a small tear into the backpack.
“Just great. Now it’s totally broken,” I muttered to myself. An old, yellowing clock ticked loudly on the wall. I had exactly five minutes before I had to leave. Didn’t he know I was in a hurry?
He interrupted my silent conversation. “Strong seam. Dee zeeper ees goood.”
Trying to smile, my thoughts sarcastically shouted, “Uuuuuuuh, no- the zipper is broken- not good.” With irritation I explained, “The zipper is broken. Can you fix it? I can come back for it in a few days or a week.”
He answered, “Aaaah, no, no. Dee zeeper ees goood. I do now.” This little old shoemaker with leathery, work worn hands, and dirty fingernails fixed it with a slit, a squeeze, some thread and a little grease. And he only charged me a single dollar!
Wow. I felt guilty and a bit embarrassed for being so hurried and thinking my not so nice thoughts about this humble little shoemaker. I thanked him profusely and left.
On the drive home, it occurred to me how much God is like that little shoemaker. That little old man knew just the right tool to use, did the job right away and didn’t charge me much to do it.
Like my thoughts told the shoemaker, “Hurry up”, I say to God as well. It’s the same when I come to God to ‘fix’ something for me. I have a personal agenda. My own time frame and how it should all work out. After all, I live a busy life, you know…I’m impatient with God and His timing and selfish about the way I would like things done in my life. “Forgive my impatience with your work in my life, Lord.” God smiled as the shoemaker had. They both showed me their handiwork. I never expected to encounter God in the form of an elderly man. I was humbled, realizing God reveals Himself in unexpected ways– even old Italian shoemakers.
June 12, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown ~ Making Friends
CS Lewis once wrote. “Is there any pleasure on earth as great as a circle of Christian friends by a good fire?” Over the years I am learning the truth of that statement, as it is something that is burning inside me to have and to develop. I have realized that I desire a deeper friendship with fellow Christians. Not because I want to be exclusionary to non Christians... but I am finding that the more I hang out with Christians the deeper rooted my own faith is. There is no greater memories that I have right now, than sitting around a table with my Christian friends... hysterically laughing, with tears streaming down our faces.
But there is even more than that. As a mom, for many years, I was searching for the play dates. The mom that I enjoyed hanging out with, and our kids enjoyed spending time together. I often left my husband out of the equation, because these play dates were while he was at work. These were my friends. He had his own. Yet, now, I realize that one day my kids are going to move out of this house. My world will not revolve around them. I want to have friends that my husband and I both like spending time with, so that long after the kids have left the nest... we are not sitting home alone on a Saturday night trying to entertain each other.
God also wants us to surround ourselves with good Christian friends.
Proverbs 13:20 Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
I want to have friends who have wisdom... as moms, wives, and sisters in Christ. I want to get advice from those who share the same morals and values I do. For they will not lead my astray from what God desires. I have a good friend, and her husband travels a lot for work. One of the things I have learned from her is that when he is home, family time is super important. She won't make plans if it causes her to not be with the family during his short break home. I want my family to realize that they are that important to me.
Proverbs 22:24-25 Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.
Too often I have allowed myself to get into that verbal tit for tat about the negative things in this life. Perhaps it is a complaint session about husbands; or a venting session about kids, parenting or school. While I may have started out our time together in a good mood, I would find that by the time I left ... I was in a very bad mood. I was angry at my husband. I was angry at my kids. I was angry at the world. In some cases, the person I was with was poking at the fire to get it hotter. It brought me no good. Or, that person was so argumentative that my thoughts would completely be encompassed. In a recent situation my husband flat out told me that he didn't want to hear me complain about that person any longer. He didn't even understand why we were friends. That created some self examination on my part.
Proverbs 27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.
I need someone in my life that encourages me in the difficult moments. That helps me to be a better person and better Christian. I can only do this by surrounding myself with those who can fit this purpose. My non Christian friends have rarely helped me in my personal walk.
Job 2:11 Now when Job’s three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him, they came each from his own place, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. They made an appointment together to come to show him sympathy and comfort him.
I have gone through some tough times this past year and a half. It was during this difficulty I saw who my real friends were. The ones checking in to see how not only my husband was doing during his healing, but also how I was doing. The people who wouldn't take no for an answer & were dropping off food to lighten my load. The friend who inadvertently was audience to my meltdown and not only forgave me for it... but reminded me that it was ok. The ones who drop cards in the mail, texted me and have just simply been there.
Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Out do one another in showing honor.
As I have realized that I not only want & NEED more Christian friends... I have also realized that in order to have them... I also need to be a good friend. I need to do for others the very things I would want done for me. I need to always be willing to go above and beyond for them. I need to put in the effort, the same or more, as they do.
“Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.” CS Lewis
Man was not meant to be alone. We were made for community. We were called to be together. In worship and in living our lives.
But there is even more than that. As a mom, for many years, I was searching for the play dates. The mom that I enjoyed hanging out with, and our kids enjoyed spending time together. I often left my husband out of the equation, because these play dates were while he was at work. These were my friends. He had his own. Yet, now, I realize that one day my kids are going to move out of this house. My world will not revolve around them. I want to have friends that my husband and I both like spending time with, so that long after the kids have left the nest... we are not sitting home alone on a Saturday night trying to entertain each other.
God also wants us to surround ourselves with good Christian friends.
Proverbs 13:20 Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
I want to have friends who have wisdom... as moms, wives, and sisters in Christ. I want to get advice from those who share the same morals and values I do. For they will not lead my astray from what God desires. I have a good friend, and her husband travels a lot for work. One of the things I have learned from her is that when he is home, family time is super important. She won't make plans if it causes her to not be with the family during his short break home. I want my family to realize that they are that important to me.
Proverbs 22:24-25 Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.
Too often I have allowed myself to get into that verbal tit for tat about the negative things in this life. Perhaps it is a complaint session about husbands; or a venting session about kids, parenting or school. While I may have started out our time together in a good mood, I would find that by the time I left ... I was in a very bad mood. I was angry at my husband. I was angry at my kids. I was angry at the world. In some cases, the person I was with was poking at the fire to get it hotter. It brought me no good. Or, that person was so argumentative that my thoughts would completely be encompassed. In a recent situation my husband flat out told me that he didn't want to hear me complain about that person any longer. He didn't even understand why we were friends. That created some self examination on my part.
Proverbs 27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.
I need someone in my life that encourages me in the difficult moments. That helps me to be a better person and better Christian. I can only do this by surrounding myself with those who can fit this purpose. My non Christian friends have rarely helped me in my personal walk.
Job 2:11 Now when Job’s three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him, they came each from his own place, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. They made an appointment together to come to show him sympathy and comfort him.
I have gone through some tough times this past year and a half. It was during this difficulty I saw who my real friends were. The ones checking in to see how not only my husband was doing during his healing, but also how I was doing. The people who wouldn't take no for an answer & were dropping off food to lighten my load. The friend who inadvertently was audience to my meltdown and not only forgave me for it... but reminded me that it was ok. The ones who drop cards in the mail, texted me and have just simply been there.
Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Out do one another in showing honor.
As I have realized that I not only want & NEED more Christian friends... I have also realized that in order to have them... I also need to be a good friend. I need to do for others the very things I would want done for me. I need to always be willing to go above and beyond for them. I need to put in the effort, the same or more, as they do.
“Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.” CS Lewis
Man was not meant to be alone. We were made for community. We were called to be together. In worship and in living our lives.
June 5, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Getting Dirty
I don’t know how many of you have ever had a spa day. I had a spa day a number of years ago given very generously as a gift from my husband. When I returned home, I wanted to lavish in the soft scents left behind on my skin and how wonderful and supple my skin felt. I didn’t go jogging that day or exert in any way so that I could make my spa treatment last as long as possible. After we are purified by the blood of Christ and when we’re consistently renewed, He doesn’t intend for us to go home and take it easy or play it safe. Quite the contrary, that’s the time to roll up our sleeves and get our hands a little dirty. In Luke 8:16 Jesus said, “No one lights a lamp and hides it in a clay jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, they put it on a stand so that those who came in can see the light.”
A few years ago I became gravely ill and was not expected to survive. I was deep in prayer thanking God for giving me the life I had and His gift of salvation. I sensed His presence so strongly in that moment. I was confessing my sins and He was showing me some of the opportunities He’d given me over the years and the decisions I’d made. I saw many of the decisions, actions, and inaction for which He might hold me accountable.
A very deep sense of conviction (not condemnation) and sadness washed over me. You see, there were so many times He placed an opportunity before me, and I played it safe and walked away from it. He had a conversation with me like the one I expect to have on day He holds me accountable, and I heard him asking, “Was this the only choice you had, or could you have done something different?” I had many excuses for inaction, “that’s not my strong suit”, “I’m not qualified”, “someone else will do it”, and on and on. I realized that the excuses I made to myself for doing it my way were not acceptable because I could have made another choice. I could have chosen to trust Him, follow Him, and be obedient to Him. Remember, He doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.
There was no justification for me and I would face a holy God one day and be without excuse. I was saddened by the time and opportunities I was given that I’d squandered, and so very grateful that He still loves me and wants me with Him in spite of my failures. I did not pray for my life to be spared. My life was His to take, but I determined that if He chose to leave me here for another season, that by His power I would serve Him, live as He intended, and honor Him with my life.
We can’t let past failures dictate current or future actions. We will be rejected, mistreated, and mocked, people will gossip about us. There will be times where we will say or do the wrong thing and maybe we think that we’ve failed. But none of that is an excuse to sit on the bench afraid or reluctant to act when called. There are times where we are going to mess up or even get it wrong, because we are imperfect. True failure is not taking action when He calls us to move, and that is sin. My lukewarm walk, my fear, and my inaction was nothing more than my living the life of a person who could talk a good game, but it made me a liar because my inaction said something different.
Through Him, we will get it right many more times than we get it wrong and we will experience victory. God already knows what will happen and when, and He will use it to His glory. The point is, we have been purified, and we were put here to do God’s will and further His kingdom. Don’t meet him one day with regrets over the missed opportunities and miss the reward He has for you. Let’s commit to living a life where we strive to hear the words, “Well done my good and faithful servant” on the day we give an account for our lives here on earth.
A few years ago I became gravely ill and was not expected to survive. I was deep in prayer thanking God for giving me the life I had and His gift of salvation. I sensed His presence so strongly in that moment. I was confessing my sins and He was showing me some of the opportunities He’d given me over the years and the decisions I’d made. I saw many of the decisions, actions, and inaction for which He might hold me accountable.
A very deep sense of conviction (not condemnation) and sadness washed over me. You see, there were so many times He placed an opportunity before me, and I played it safe and walked away from it. He had a conversation with me like the one I expect to have on day He holds me accountable, and I heard him asking, “Was this the only choice you had, or could you have done something different?” I had many excuses for inaction, “that’s not my strong suit”, “I’m not qualified”, “someone else will do it”, and on and on. I realized that the excuses I made to myself for doing it my way were not acceptable because I could have made another choice. I could have chosen to trust Him, follow Him, and be obedient to Him. Remember, He doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.
There was no justification for me and I would face a holy God one day and be without excuse. I was saddened by the time and opportunities I was given that I’d squandered, and so very grateful that He still loves me and wants me with Him in spite of my failures. I did not pray for my life to be spared. My life was His to take, but I determined that if He chose to leave me here for another season, that by His power I would serve Him, live as He intended, and honor Him with my life.
We can’t let past failures dictate current or future actions. We will be rejected, mistreated, and mocked, people will gossip about us. There will be times where we will say or do the wrong thing and maybe we think that we’ve failed. But none of that is an excuse to sit on the bench afraid or reluctant to act when called. There are times where we are going to mess up or even get it wrong, because we are imperfect. True failure is not taking action when He calls us to move, and that is sin. My lukewarm walk, my fear, and my inaction was nothing more than my living the life of a person who could talk a good game, but it made me a liar because my inaction said something different.
Through Him, we will get it right many more times than we get it wrong and we will experience victory. God already knows what will happen and when, and He will use it to His glory. The point is, we have been purified, and we were put here to do God’s will and further His kingdom. Don’t meet him one day with regrets over the missed opportunities and miss the reward He has for you. Let’s commit to living a life where we strive to hear the words, “Well done my good and faithful servant” on the day we give an account for our lives here on earth.
May 29, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ “But Prayer”
"But prayer" (Acts 12:5 KJV).
I love this part of the verse! “But prayer” is the link that connects us with God. Or it is the prayer that disrupts the work of the Holy Spirit. If you look at it as “But prayer” and God can do what we ask, it’s all good. How significant the picture: Peter in prison, the Jews triumphant, Herod supreme, the arena of martyrdom awaiting the dawning of the morning to
drink up the apostle's blood, and everything else against it. "But prayer was made unto God without ceasing." And what was the sequel? The prison opens, the apostle is freed, the Jews baffled, the wicked king eaten by worms a major twist in the novel and the Word of God rolling on in greater victory.
Do we know the power of our supernatural weapon? Do we dare to use it with the authority of a faith that commands as well as asks? God baptize us with holy audacity and Divine confidence! He doesn’t need great women, but He wants women who will dare to prove the greatness of their God. But God! But prayer!
“Beware in your prayer, above everything, of limiting God, not only by unbelief, but by thinking that you know what He can do. Expect unexpected things, above all that we ask or think. Each time you intercede, be quiet first and worship God in His glory. Think of what He can do, of how He delights to hear Christ, of your place in Christ; and expect great things.” --Andrew Murray
I love this part of the verse! “But prayer” is the link that connects us with God. Or it is the prayer that disrupts the work of the Holy Spirit. If you look at it as “But prayer” and God can do what we ask, it’s all good. How significant the picture: Peter in prison, the Jews triumphant, Herod supreme, the arena of martyrdom awaiting the dawning of the morning to
drink up the apostle's blood, and everything else against it. "But prayer was made unto God without ceasing." And what was the sequel? The prison opens, the apostle is freed, the Jews baffled, the wicked king eaten by worms a major twist in the novel and the Word of God rolling on in greater victory.
Do we know the power of our supernatural weapon? Do we dare to use it with the authority of a faith that commands as well as asks? God baptize us with holy audacity and Divine confidence! He doesn’t need great women, but He wants women who will dare to prove the greatness of their God. But God! But prayer!
“Beware in your prayer, above everything, of limiting God, not only by unbelief, but by thinking that you know what He can do. Expect unexpected things, above all that we ask or think. Each time you intercede, be quiet first and worship God in His glory. Think of what He can do, of how He delights to hear Christ, of your place in Christ; and expect great things.” --Andrew Murray
May 22, 2013 ~ Contributor: Gena McCown - I am NOT the boss!
Since I was a small child, I have been a bit of a boss. Some would say it is my Irish heritage, others would say that I am like my grandmother. The fact of the matter is, I can be bossy. Really bossy. A fact I have spent years trying to correct. Couple my inherent bossiness with my need for justice, and I am a force to be reckoned with. A great example of this, will take us on a journey to about 10 years ago.
I was working in direct sales & I was doing really well in the company, leader over my entire state. I also and had a very good relationship with the owner of the company. We were getting ready for a large training event, and I sincerely disagreed with a decision the owner had made. I confronted the owner about it. I continued the disagreement with her over the issue to the point we had to have mediation through a neutral third party.
It was during a women's conference, about a year later, that in a single moment truth hit me. Who was I? Who was I to think I could tell this woman how to run her company? Right or wrong, this was not MY company. I had no right to expect her to bend to my demands. I came home and immediately drafted a letter of apology to her. It had nothing to do with my feelings about the decision, but everything to do with me taking accountability for my actions. She graciously accepted my apology & our relationship began to heal over time.
Proverbs 29:11 A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.
In my situation, I certainly felt I was right. Sometimes though it is not about being right, it is about being wise. I made poor decisions on confronting the owner, poor decisions on how to react to her stance & in the end poor decisions on my part on how to proceed further. The deeper I allowed myself to get into the argument, I became angry & I gave full vent to that anger. I made it personal, I elevated the situation and ultimately I brought us to the point of mediation. If I were wiser at that time, I would have tempered myself and my tongue.
Proverbs 12:18 Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Once I was able to realize my error, I was able to make amends. But, what was a strong relationship was going to take time to heal. It was a hard lesson to learn, but once you learn such a lesson you strive to not repeat the same mistake again.
God wants us to approach situations with wisdom and not foolishness.
Two women were before King Solomon, each claiming a child as their own. Solomon ordered the child to be cut in half, then each woman would be given half of the child. The true mother could have continued to argue that the child was hers. She would have been right, but her decision would have cost the life of her son. Instead, she opted to make a wise decision. She told Solomon to spare his life and give him to the other woman. It was through this wise decision on her part, that Solomon knew who the real mother was. The woman who put aside being right, and instead spared the life of the child. (A Wise Ruling 1 Kings 3:16-28)
Can you think of a time where your quest to be right, cost you more than you would have gained?
How can you rectify this past occurrence, or prevent it from happening again?
Heavenly Father, I ask you today to guide my words. Guide me to fight the good fight and to turn the other cheek. Help me to discern between being wise and being right. Let me find peace in times of strife & help me to find the path to restoration in relationships my decisions may have damaged. Through you I can forgive and be forgiven. Amen.
I was working in direct sales & I was doing really well in the company, leader over my entire state. I also and had a very good relationship with the owner of the company. We were getting ready for a large training event, and I sincerely disagreed with a decision the owner had made. I confronted the owner about it. I continued the disagreement with her over the issue to the point we had to have mediation through a neutral third party.
It was during a women's conference, about a year later, that in a single moment truth hit me. Who was I? Who was I to think I could tell this woman how to run her company? Right or wrong, this was not MY company. I had no right to expect her to bend to my demands. I came home and immediately drafted a letter of apology to her. It had nothing to do with my feelings about the decision, but everything to do with me taking accountability for my actions. She graciously accepted my apology & our relationship began to heal over time.
Proverbs 29:11 A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.
In my situation, I certainly felt I was right. Sometimes though it is not about being right, it is about being wise. I made poor decisions on confronting the owner, poor decisions on how to react to her stance & in the end poor decisions on my part on how to proceed further. The deeper I allowed myself to get into the argument, I became angry & I gave full vent to that anger. I made it personal, I elevated the situation and ultimately I brought us to the point of mediation. If I were wiser at that time, I would have tempered myself and my tongue.
Proverbs 12:18 Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Once I was able to realize my error, I was able to make amends. But, what was a strong relationship was going to take time to heal. It was a hard lesson to learn, but once you learn such a lesson you strive to not repeat the same mistake again.
God wants us to approach situations with wisdom and not foolishness.
Two women were before King Solomon, each claiming a child as their own. Solomon ordered the child to be cut in half, then each woman would be given half of the child. The true mother could have continued to argue that the child was hers. She would have been right, but her decision would have cost the life of her son. Instead, she opted to make a wise decision. She told Solomon to spare his life and give him to the other woman. It was through this wise decision on her part, that Solomon knew who the real mother was. The woman who put aside being right, and instead spared the life of the child. (A Wise Ruling 1 Kings 3:16-28)
Can you think of a time where your quest to be right, cost you more than you would have gained?
How can you rectify this past occurrence, or prevent it from happening again?
Heavenly Father, I ask you today to guide my words. Guide me to fight the good fight and to turn the other cheek. Help me to discern between being wise and being right. Let me find peace in times of strife & help me to find the path to restoration in relationships my decisions may have damaged. Through you I can forgive and be forgiven. Amen.
May 15, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Need a Mechanic?
My husband goes to Orlando once a week on business. He usually rides his motorcycle and travels on back roads instead of using the highways. One week he called me an hour or so after he left needing my help. His motorcycle broke down and he was stranded on a back road outside of any town. He needed a tow truck and transportation to Orlando. I was able to find the nearest motorcycle repair shop and order emergency roadside service for him using my computer. Since he was squarely in the middle of farm land and had no nearby address or cross street for reference, I was able to use my “smart” device which pinpointed his exact position using satellites, then I was able to relay his location to the tow truck operator. I jumped in the car, and my GPS led me directly to the shop where he and his bike had been taken, and from there I accompanied him to Orlando.
Technology is pretty remarkable, it allowed me to find him, exactly where he was, and devise a ‘rescue’ plan. It was not immediate, I had to do a little research, but within an hour of his call, help was on the way and I was able to drive directly to where he was, where he and his broken bike had been delivered by the towing service.
When we find ourselves broken, we have a God that does not need to rely on technology to meet us exactly where we are. “Let us acknowledge the Lord; let us press on to acknowledge Him. As surely as the sun rises He will appear; He will come to us like the winter rains, like the sprint rains that water the earth.” –Hosea 6:3. He does not delay, He doesn’t have to search the world to find us. He knows the number of hairs on our heads, and He knows exactly where we are sitting at this very moment. We can approach the throne of grace in our brokenness and desperation and He is faithful to forgive and to heal. Just as my husband could not fix his bike that day, we need to acknowledge that we cannot fix ourselves. Only the Divine Mechanic can repair the damage, only He can restore us. His repairs are permanent, and He will continue His work on our damaged lives until we become like Him. Best of all, He is with us through the rest of our journey. We need only to hand over the keys and let Him drive.
Remember that you cannot out-sin God’s ability to forgive. You cannot wander so far away that you can never go back. We need only faith, because without faith, it is impossible to please God. When we turn our face toward Him and accept His forgiveness, He begins the process of healing us. Only He can make us whole.
Technology is pretty remarkable, it allowed me to find him, exactly where he was, and devise a ‘rescue’ plan. It was not immediate, I had to do a little research, but within an hour of his call, help was on the way and I was able to drive directly to where he was, where he and his broken bike had been delivered by the towing service.
When we find ourselves broken, we have a God that does not need to rely on technology to meet us exactly where we are. “Let us acknowledge the Lord; let us press on to acknowledge Him. As surely as the sun rises He will appear; He will come to us like the winter rains, like the sprint rains that water the earth.” –Hosea 6:3. He does not delay, He doesn’t have to search the world to find us. He knows the number of hairs on our heads, and He knows exactly where we are sitting at this very moment. We can approach the throne of grace in our brokenness and desperation and He is faithful to forgive and to heal. Just as my husband could not fix his bike that day, we need to acknowledge that we cannot fix ourselves. Only the Divine Mechanic can repair the damage, only He can restore us. His repairs are permanent, and He will continue His work on our damaged lives until we become like Him. Best of all, He is with us through the rest of our journey. We need only to hand over the keys and let Him drive.
Remember that you cannot out-sin God’s ability to forgive. You cannot wander so far away that you can never go back. We need only faith, because without faith, it is impossible to please God. When we turn our face toward Him and accept His forgiveness, He begins the process of healing us. Only He can make us whole.
May 8th, 2013 ~ RefresHer (Purify Retreat, Pool Side Devotional) By: Jen Chevalier
Unfortunately due to a migraine, Jen was unable to lead the pool side devotional. We decided to share it here for those who were planning to attend, but also for all of our TC3 ladies. Please note this was intended to be interactive, so any question prompts were for discussion. Grab a piece of paper, and answer them for yourself or grab a friend or two and read this together. - The Women's Ministry Team
The best way to get refreshed is to commune with or spend time with God. No matter what is going on in your life, God will walk us through, if we let Him.
Psalm 5:3 "In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation.
Let's analyze this verse.
1. It starts with timing - When? "IN THE MORNING". What comes to mind when you think of the morning?
Usually, when it's first thing in the morning, we are relaxed and rested. Our minds are peaceful and we are experiencing low- to no-stress. The rest of the world is quieted and there are few distractions.
2. "O Lord, you hear my voice" How amazing it is to know that God hears our voice! He hears us when we speak aloud and through our thoughts. What you usually are thinking of in the morning? How does it make you feel to picture God hearing your thoughts?
3. "In the morning" - this is repetitious. Why do people repeat certain words or phrases - for emphasis! There is something special about the morning.
4. "I lay my requests before you" - God wants us to request things through prayer. We should pray for the needs of others and ourselves. God wants a relationship with us and this is the perfect time to communicate with Him. Show Him your heart for others; show Him what you need; struggles you face; worries you have. Let Him in; expose yourself to Him. He already knows it all, but He wants you to choose a relationship with Him.
5. "And wait in expectation" It doesn't simply say "and wait" it reads " and wait in expectation". What's the difference between those two phrases? God
wants us to believe in Him to answer our requests. He wants us to have faith that He will answer our pleas and take care of us.
Let's put it all together now. God doesn't ONLY hear us in the morning, but there seems to be an importance associated with the morning. We set ourselves up for a God- centered day if we start off in relationship with Him. When we lay our burdens before Him first thing in the morning, we are setting ourselves up to face the day. We have confidence and peace because we know that God has heard us.
We often miss the key part - we don't wait in expectation. We sadly engage in a one- way conversation, denying God the chance to reciprocate. Should we expect an instant response - no it says WAIT in expectation. Remain quiet and still your mind. Let God speak into your life. Think of the peace and strength you will have heading off into the chaotic day, if you've left all of your stress at God's feet and been affirmed by God!
The best way to get refreshed is to commune with or spend time with God. No matter what is going on in your life, God will walk us through, if we let Him.
Psalm 5:3 "In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation.
Let's analyze this verse.
1. It starts with timing - When? "IN THE MORNING". What comes to mind when you think of the morning?
Usually, when it's first thing in the morning, we are relaxed and rested. Our minds are peaceful and we are experiencing low- to no-stress. The rest of the world is quieted and there are few distractions.
2. "O Lord, you hear my voice" How amazing it is to know that God hears our voice! He hears us when we speak aloud and through our thoughts. What you usually are thinking of in the morning? How does it make you feel to picture God hearing your thoughts?
3. "In the morning" - this is repetitious. Why do people repeat certain words or phrases - for emphasis! There is something special about the morning.
4. "I lay my requests before you" - God wants us to request things through prayer. We should pray for the needs of others and ourselves. God wants a relationship with us and this is the perfect time to communicate with Him. Show Him your heart for others; show Him what you need; struggles you face; worries you have. Let Him in; expose yourself to Him. He already knows it all, but He wants you to choose a relationship with Him.
5. "And wait in expectation" It doesn't simply say "and wait" it reads " and wait in expectation". What's the difference between those two phrases? God
wants us to believe in Him to answer our requests. He wants us to have faith that He will answer our pleas and take care of us.
Let's put it all together now. God doesn't ONLY hear us in the morning, but there seems to be an importance associated with the morning. We set ourselves up for a God- centered day if we start off in relationship with Him. When we lay our burdens before Him first thing in the morning, we are setting ourselves up to face the day. We have confidence and peace because we know that God has heard us.
We often miss the key part - we don't wait in expectation. We sadly engage in a one- way conversation, denying God the chance to reciprocate. Should we expect an instant response - no it says WAIT in expectation. Remain quiet and still your mind. Let God speak into your life. Think of the peace and strength you will have heading off into the chaotic day, if you've left all of your stress at God's feet and been affirmed by God!
May 1st, 2013 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ Two are Better than One
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 states: "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." God calls us into relationship with other people to share fun times but also to prop each other up when one falls.
What does this mean for you? First of all, cherish your true friendships. They are a gift from The Lord and you will be blessed by the friendship and will also be a blessing to your friend. Be prepared to be there for your friend when she falls; and what can be more difficult is to allow your friend to prop you up when you fall. Accepting help can be humbling, but it honors God and bring self-worth to your friend.
Additionally, if you become aware of someone around you who is struggling and has no one to prop her up, step in! If you think about it, women all around us are facing challenges. From marital problems to financial stress to medical issues, there are people in our lives who are falling apart. They are sinking and sometimes we stand by and watch. There are several reasons why we don't engage. Sometimes we don't want to seem nosy, by asking questions about personal issues. Other times we are afraid to get involved because we already have too much on our plates and don't know how to create free time to dedicate to helping someone else. Remember that God placed that person in your path intentionally. Pray for the opportunity to engage with the woman's life. Don't let the enemy fill you with doubts about time constraints and getting "too involved". God will bless you and help everything fall into place.
What does this mean for you? First of all, cherish your true friendships. They are a gift from The Lord and you will be blessed by the friendship and will also be a blessing to your friend. Be prepared to be there for your friend when she falls; and what can be more difficult is to allow your friend to prop you up when you fall. Accepting help can be humbling, but it honors God and bring self-worth to your friend.
Additionally, if you become aware of someone around you who is struggling and has no one to prop her up, step in! If you think about it, women all around us are facing challenges. From marital problems to financial stress to medical issues, there are people in our lives who are falling apart. They are sinking and sometimes we stand by and watch. There are several reasons why we don't engage. Sometimes we don't want to seem nosy, by asking questions about personal issues. Other times we are afraid to get involved because we already have too much on our plates and don't know how to create free time to dedicate to helping someone else. Remember that God placed that person in your path intentionally. Pray for the opportunity to engage with the woman's life. Don't let the enemy fill you with doubts about time constraints and getting "too involved". God will bless you and help everything fall into place.
April 24, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pam Newton ~ When God Cries
A woman from our congregation interrupted my conversation. I knew her only as an acquaintance. She attended our church, came to a few small groups and kept a low profile. “Can you do a funeral for my brother in-law tomorrow? Iknow it’s short notice but I’d really appreciate it if you could. It’s my husband’s brother. I’m the only one who goes to church so they wanted me to find someone. Could you do it?” Her voice quivered, revealing anxiety, and a hint of desperation.
In my mind, my immediate reaction was “None of the other Pastors can do it?” Out of my mouth tumbled questions about the details such as who, what, when and where. I agreed to do it and then thought, “What on earth am I going to say?” I remember walking into the funeral home for this, my first funeral as a pastor. I had no idea what people were thinking, although I had my suspicions they were not of spiritual things. God gave me this verse to use as the basis for everything I said. “Jesus wept.” (John 11:35)
God cries? Many of us don’t think God grieves or has feelings. He does. Jesus is the exact representation of God’s being (Heb. 1:3). So if Jesus had emotions, so does God. “Jesus wept.” Jesus was all God and all man. Jesus was the representative of God in a fleshly body. I don’t imagine God cries actual tears like Jesus did because God is spirit and not flesh. But God can and does grieve. “And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart. The Lord saw how great man's wickedness on the earth had become, and that every inclination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil all the time. The Lord was grieved that he had made man on the earth, and his heart was filled with pain.” (Gen. 6:5,6 NIV)
Every time God receives a baby into heaven from an abortion, God grieves.
Every time we devalue ourselves through addiction, sexual immorality,and slander ourselves through our negative thought patterns- God grieves.
When a husband hits his wife, when a child is abused, when a marriage is dissolved- God grieves.
When God reaches out His hand and offers His love, when He offers Himself and we turn away – God grieves.
Let’s pause and ask ourselves the question, “Am I grieving God, the Holy Spirit, some way in my life?” God has a way of revealing an answer to that question when we take time to stop and ask Him. Maybe God wants to cry with you about something that is weighing heavy on your heart just like He did with Mary and Martha over the death of Lazarus. Wherever you find yourself today, remember God cares and has emotions just like you and me.
Thank you God for understanding us to the fullest extentour emotions can take us.
In my mind, my immediate reaction was “None of the other Pastors can do it?” Out of my mouth tumbled questions about the details such as who, what, when and where. I agreed to do it and then thought, “What on earth am I going to say?” I remember walking into the funeral home for this, my first funeral as a pastor. I had no idea what people were thinking, although I had my suspicions they were not of spiritual things. God gave me this verse to use as the basis for everything I said. “Jesus wept.” (John 11:35)
God cries? Many of us don’t think God grieves or has feelings. He does. Jesus is the exact representation of God’s being (Heb. 1:3). So if Jesus had emotions, so does God. “Jesus wept.” Jesus was all God and all man. Jesus was the representative of God in a fleshly body. I don’t imagine God cries actual tears like Jesus did because God is spirit and not flesh. But God can and does grieve. “And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart. The Lord saw how great man's wickedness on the earth had become, and that every inclination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil all the time. The Lord was grieved that he had made man on the earth, and his heart was filled with pain.” (Gen. 6:5,6 NIV)
Every time God receives a baby into heaven from an abortion, God grieves.
Every time we devalue ourselves through addiction, sexual immorality,and slander ourselves through our negative thought patterns- God grieves.
When a husband hits his wife, when a child is abused, when a marriage is dissolved- God grieves.
When God reaches out His hand and offers His love, when He offers Himself and we turn away – God grieves.
Let’s pause and ask ourselves the question, “Am I grieving God, the Holy Spirit, some way in my life?” God has a way of revealing an answer to that question when we take time to stop and ask Him. Maybe God wants to cry with you about something that is weighing heavy on your heart just like He did with Mary and Martha over the death of Lazarus. Wherever you find yourself today, remember God cares and has emotions just like you and me.
Thank you God for understanding us to the fullest extentour emotions can take us.
April 17, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Fick ~ Peace (Women's Kayak Trip)
Peace and serenity that surrounds us as we area kayaking through such a beautiful place, is almost like escaping the world for a little while. We escape the turmoil and pressure of everyday life by soaking up peace in a long hot bubble bath by candlelight, visit a quiet park and go for a run or walk, or perhaps by sitting listening to the waves crash onshore. Just thinking about these things slows my breathing down and causes me to relax.
But what about the stress that won’t so easily melt away and escape down the drain when we pull the bathtub plug? What about those long term worries that tear at our hearts? What about the ongoing crisis that fills the pit of our stomach with butterflies that won’t stop fluttering? What about that loss that we have never quite got over- the loss
that still brings tear to our eyes so many years after?
Peace. It often eludes us, especially when life had battered and bruised our hearts. So when we hear God’s
good words, “May the Lord ….give you peace,” (Num. 6:26) we may feel a bit skeptical. We may even object saying, whispering words like these: Peace? But God you don’t even know my storm! You haven’t felt the pain and hurt that has left my soul in tatters.
Those words come from a deep place of pain inside our souls. But from an even deeper place, the inside where the Holy Spirit has chosen to take up permanent residence, we know the truth. The truth comes from our faithful God and the grace and peace that only He can offer.
I volunteer at the hospital on the pastoral team. We see the patients and offer them prayer, hope, and encouragement. A few weeks ago, I met a patient that after I left her room, I felt that I was the one who had received the hope and encouragement. She had stage IV cancer and had been suffering with cancer since 2007. It started as breast cancer then metastasized to her brain lungs and bones. We talked about the struggles and turmoil’s in her life. She is a strong Christian woman with such an abundance of faith. I told her “our God can move mountains”. She replied with the faith of a mustard seed. Matthew 17:20. Her faith was so strong, despite everything she was going through. I asked her if she would like me to pray with her. I always ask what they specifically want me to pray for. She answered “that
God’s will be done, whether it is to heal her or not, but for it to be His will. She also asked to pray for her daughters ages 13 and 20 that they will find peace in whatever His will is. She was so at peace as she spoke and accepted all of this. Her peace was found simply in the love and faith that she had with God.
I left her room with tears in my eyes, not for her circumstances, but for the blessing that I felt she had bestowed on me. She had complete peace and acceptance with the tribulations she was going through. I want to know that I can maintain that same kind of peace when I go through whatever life throws at me. I know I have faith and peace with God, but is it as strong as hers? It is easy to be at peace in the good times, but what about when times aren’t so good? What about the adversities that we struggle through. Do we have it then? One of life’s biggest question is how can I have God’s peace?
The key element in true lasting peace is in the presence of God. Isaiah says to God in Is 26:3 The steadfast of mind will keep you in perfect peace because he trusts in you. Christ is our peace. John 16:33.
What is this peace? It is an inner sense of contentment and quietness, regardless of life’s circumstances. It is a steadfast confidence in our ever faithful immutable heavenly father. It is the presence of joy in the midst of unhappiness.
True peace does not merely dull our pain. A person who has genuine Godly peace can endure an avalanche of hardship and difficulty and still enjoy an inner peace that surpasses all human understanding. Why? Because it does not come from pleasant circumstances, nice events, or good things that others may do for us.
Instead it is based on the fact that the Spirit of our Holy omnipotent and never changing God lives within us.
Keep in mind these 3 keys to experiencing sustained peace.
1. Focus on God. Perfect peace comes when you fix your mind on God. You must discipline yourself to meditate on God’s presence and work. When you spend time concentrating on a problem, does it not seem to grow bigger? In the same way you will have a greater sense of God’s presence and provision as you fix your mind on
Him.
2. Trust Him. You never have to worry about God acting to late, or providing insufficient help. His timing and purpose are perfect, in fact, He uses your tribulations to reveal more of himself to you. His word is full of rock solid promises many of which grant you peace. Know that He will always honor them.
3. Meditate on His word. Psalm 119:65 emphasizes that those who love God’s word have great peace. Our most precious material possession is your Bible. Every believer should love God’s word and feast on it daily. If you love it, you’re going to believe what it says and then it will anchor your life. You will find God’s peace there….and His love; all through His grace. It is His gift to us and all we have to do is to choose to accept it.
But what about the stress that won’t so easily melt away and escape down the drain when we pull the bathtub plug? What about those long term worries that tear at our hearts? What about the ongoing crisis that fills the pit of our stomach with butterflies that won’t stop fluttering? What about that loss that we have never quite got over- the loss
that still brings tear to our eyes so many years after?
Peace. It often eludes us, especially when life had battered and bruised our hearts. So when we hear God’s
good words, “May the Lord ….give you peace,” (Num. 6:26) we may feel a bit skeptical. We may even object saying, whispering words like these: Peace? But God you don’t even know my storm! You haven’t felt the pain and hurt that has left my soul in tatters.
Those words come from a deep place of pain inside our souls. But from an even deeper place, the inside where the Holy Spirit has chosen to take up permanent residence, we know the truth. The truth comes from our faithful God and the grace and peace that only He can offer.
I volunteer at the hospital on the pastoral team. We see the patients and offer them prayer, hope, and encouragement. A few weeks ago, I met a patient that after I left her room, I felt that I was the one who had received the hope and encouragement. She had stage IV cancer and had been suffering with cancer since 2007. It started as breast cancer then metastasized to her brain lungs and bones. We talked about the struggles and turmoil’s in her life. She is a strong Christian woman with such an abundance of faith. I told her “our God can move mountains”. She replied with the faith of a mustard seed. Matthew 17:20. Her faith was so strong, despite everything she was going through. I asked her if she would like me to pray with her. I always ask what they specifically want me to pray for. She answered “that
God’s will be done, whether it is to heal her or not, but for it to be His will. She also asked to pray for her daughters ages 13 and 20 that they will find peace in whatever His will is. She was so at peace as she spoke and accepted all of this. Her peace was found simply in the love and faith that she had with God.
I left her room with tears in my eyes, not for her circumstances, but for the blessing that I felt she had bestowed on me. She had complete peace and acceptance with the tribulations she was going through. I want to know that I can maintain that same kind of peace when I go through whatever life throws at me. I know I have faith and peace with God, but is it as strong as hers? It is easy to be at peace in the good times, but what about when times aren’t so good? What about the adversities that we struggle through. Do we have it then? One of life’s biggest question is how can I have God’s peace?
The key element in true lasting peace is in the presence of God. Isaiah says to God in Is 26:3 The steadfast of mind will keep you in perfect peace because he trusts in you. Christ is our peace. John 16:33.
What is this peace? It is an inner sense of contentment and quietness, regardless of life’s circumstances. It is a steadfast confidence in our ever faithful immutable heavenly father. It is the presence of joy in the midst of unhappiness.
True peace does not merely dull our pain. A person who has genuine Godly peace can endure an avalanche of hardship and difficulty and still enjoy an inner peace that surpasses all human understanding. Why? Because it does not come from pleasant circumstances, nice events, or good things that others may do for us.
Instead it is based on the fact that the Spirit of our Holy omnipotent and never changing God lives within us.
Keep in mind these 3 keys to experiencing sustained peace.
1. Focus on God. Perfect peace comes when you fix your mind on God. You must discipline yourself to meditate on God’s presence and work. When you spend time concentrating on a problem, does it not seem to grow bigger? In the same way you will have a greater sense of God’s presence and provision as you fix your mind on
Him.
2. Trust Him. You never have to worry about God acting to late, or providing insufficient help. His timing and purpose are perfect, in fact, He uses your tribulations to reveal more of himself to you. His word is full of rock solid promises many of which grant you peace. Know that He will always honor them.
3. Meditate on His word. Psalm 119:65 emphasizes that those who love God’s word have great peace. Our most precious material possession is your Bible. Every believer should love God’s word and feast on it daily. If you love it, you’re going to believe what it says and then it will anchor your life. You will find God’s peace there….and His love; all through His grace. It is His gift to us and all we have to do is to choose to accept it.
April 10, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ Getting Personal
I have been attending a weekly study on the book of Daniel since February. We decided that on every 4th Wednesday we would take a break, and those who were able could prepare and serve meals to the homeless and poor in one of our local charity’s kitchens. After serving the first time, the following Wednesday we reached week 4 of our study on Daniel, and there it became clear to me why serving the poor is so important.
There are so many generous and kind people who gladly make financial contributions to great causes such as this, and thanks be to God for them! It was very important to Jesus for his church to be generous to the poor. In Matthew 19:21, Jesus tells a wealthy man to sell his possessions and give to the poor. In Luke 11:44 He tells the Pharisees to be generous to the poor and everything will be clean for them. I used to think that writing the check was the difficult and most necessary part of taking care of the poor until I got to week 4.
In Daniel chapter 4, Daniel interprets a prophetic dream for King Nebuchadnezzar where he sees that God will strip the king of his authority and his sanity. Daniel gave some great advice to the king in hopes that if the king followed it, he would avert pending disaster. In verse 27 Daniel says “Renounce your sins by doing what is right, and your wickedness by showing mercy to the poor”. What did Daniel mean when he told the king to show mercy to the poor? He didn’t tell the king to give away some or all of his possessions or his money. I wondered how in touch with the poor the king might have been. I’m guessing he didn’t stroll through the projects and see how the other half lived. He probably lived an insulated life in his comfy kingdom and didn’t look in their direction very often.There is quite a different perspective to be gleaned when helping the poor is up close and personal. It tugs at our heart strings and teaches us about mercy.
It is very different to write a check than it is to look into someone’s eyes as you hand them their only meal of the day, and know that while we return to our climate controlled home with our comfy mattresses, the person we served is sleeping on the ground in a tent. It is heart wrenching to see a young mother and her child and know that she feels frightened and alone, praying and relying on God’s grace for everything they receive. It is very different to touch someone than it is to send money.Our walk with Jesus is about relationship with Him, and it is also about relationship with others. While we should continue contributing to the poor and needy, we also need to take time to get personal.
Getting personal provides the opportunity to connect with someone that is invisible to most of the population, to share our faith, and to encourage and love them. How isolating and lonely it must be when seldom does anyone purposefully greet you and ask you your name. I am so grateful that Jesus has such a heart for the poor!I encourage everyone to continue to contribute to the poor and needy as much as the spirit leads, and also pray about how God would have you to kick it up a notch. It may not be working in a kitchen, it could be reading to the elderly, tutoring a child, or helping the person behind you in the checkout line.
Pray that God helps you to see the opportunities He has placed before you and how He would have you respond to them, all for His glory.
There are so many generous and kind people who gladly make financial contributions to great causes such as this, and thanks be to God for them! It was very important to Jesus for his church to be generous to the poor. In Matthew 19:21, Jesus tells a wealthy man to sell his possessions and give to the poor. In Luke 11:44 He tells the Pharisees to be generous to the poor and everything will be clean for them. I used to think that writing the check was the difficult and most necessary part of taking care of the poor until I got to week 4.
In Daniel chapter 4, Daniel interprets a prophetic dream for King Nebuchadnezzar where he sees that God will strip the king of his authority and his sanity. Daniel gave some great advice to the king in hopes that if the king followed it, he would avert pending disaster. In verse 27 Daniel says “Renounce your sins by doing what is right, and your wickedness by showing mercy to the poor”. What did Daniel mean when he told the king to show mercy to the poor? He didn’t tell the king to give away some or all of his possessions or his money. I wondered how in touch with the poor the king might have been. I’m guessing he didn’t stroll through the projects and see how the other half lived. He probably lived an insulated life in his comfy kingdom and didn’t look in their direction very often.There is quite a different perspective to be gleaned when helping the poor is up close and personal. It tugs at our heart strings and teaches us about mercy.
It is very different to write a check than it is to look into someone’s eyes as you hand them their only meal of the day, and know that while we return to our climate controlled home with our comfy mattresses, the person we served is sleeping on the ground in a tent. It is heart wrenching to see a young mother and her child and know that she feels frightened and alone, praying and relying on God’s grace for everything they receive. It is very different to touch someone than it is to send money.Our walk with Jesus is about relationship with Him, and it is also about relationship with others. While we should continue contributing to the poor and needy, we also need to take time to get personal.
Getting personal provides the opportunity to connect with someone that is invisible to most of the population, to share our faith, and to encourage and love them. How isolating and lonely it must be when seldom does anyone purposefully greet you and ask you your name. I am so grateful that Jesus has such a heart for the poor!I encourage everyone to continue to contribute to the poor and needy as much as the spirit leads, and also pray about how God would have you to kick it up a notch. It may not be working in a kitchen, it could be reading to the elderly, tutoring a child, or helping the person behind you in the checkout line.
Pray that God helps you to see the opportunities He has placed before you and how He would have you respond to them, all for His glory.
April 3, 2013 ~ Contributor: Pamela Newton ~ Running on Empty
My daughter and one month old grandson live with us. As most moms who have babies at home know, sleep is always at a premium. You never seem to get enough sleep or rest with a baby, right?
And for those without babies, time is still precious and comes at a premium price. We always want and need more time and energy.
Even though I am the gramma, I often feel tired and overextended. The ‘retired’ life we were originally planning was temporarily interrupted. With the new schedule, or lack thereof, I’m reminded once again, we as women habitually run on empty.
If our tanks are not filled and there is no soup in the pot so to say, how can we run or dish out what isn’t there? “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in you.”John 6:53 KJV
Psalm 119.11 says, “I treasure your word above all else; it keeps me from sinning against you.” God reminded again today to feed on Him and His Word. His
reassurance was I don’t need to “eat a whole book” but just a bite of Scripture will keep me from running on empty.
My prayer is for you today that you will take a bite or two of God’s Word and let Him feed your soul. May you be filled to overflowing and not run on an empty tank today, friend.
And for those without babies, time is still precious and comes at a premium price. We always want and need more time and energy.
Even though I am the gramma, I often feel tired and overextended. The ‘retired’ life we were originally planning was temporarily interrupted. With the new schedule, or lack thereof, I’m reminded once again, we as women habitually run on empty.
If our tanks are not filled and there is no soup in the pot so to say, how can we run or dish out what isn’t there? “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in you.”John 6:53 KJV
Psalm 119.11 says, “I treasure your word above all else; it keeps me from sinning against you.” God reminded again today to feed on Him and His Word. His
reassurance was I don’t need to “eat a whole book” but just a bite of Scripture will keep me from running on empty.
My prayer is for you today that you will take a bite or two of God’s Word and let Him feed your soul. May you be filled to overflowing and not run on an empty tank today, friend.
March 27, 2013 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier~ Talking Heads
We are all familiar with the stereotype of women talking too much. Think about it: Do you talk a lot? Do you typically dominate most conversations or do you balance conversation by carrying part of the load and allowing the other person or people to share equally in the discussion? Conversation is an art! We want to participate and share ideas, while also allowing other people to feel valued by sharing their thoughts.
Why do women talk so much? For some of us, quiet pauses are uncomfortable. It can seem awkward if there is nothing being said. Instead of viewing a quiet pause as uncomfortable, however, MAXIMIZE this opportunity to pray that God would lead what you say. If we focus solely on trying to keep a conversation going, we will blurt out whatever comes to mind just to carry the conversation. We will likely end up saying something we shouldn't just to fill the void, such as gossip, a secret, or a lie - just what the enemy is hoping!
Others of us like to be the center of attention. When we talk , we feel important because people are listening to us. However, the more we talk the more people really tune us out. Important, Godly ideas are ensnarled in our ramblings. It's just too much work for people to sift through all we say just to find the key ideas! Additionally, we might end up giving someone OUR opinion or advice, which does not necessarily align with God's word! Proverbs 18:2 states "A fool finds no pleasure in understanding, but delights in his own opinions."
A wise person listens to others. So much knowledge and insight can be gained when our mouths are shut. We can learn about the people God has placed in our paths by actively listening and understanding them. We can pray and then respond with true purpose, sharing what God would have us communicate. One sentence in a conversation can have an enormous impact for the Kingdom; whereas 20 minutes of rambling can lead us and others down the wrong path even into sin.
Let's work to become a community of wise women. Speak less; listen more. Not only will you hear what people around you are saying, but you will hear God guiding your speech for His glory!
Why do women talk so much? For some of us, quiet pauses are uncomfortable. It can seem awkward if there is nothing being said. Instead of viewing a quiet pause as uncomfortable, however, MAXIMIZE this opportunity to pray that God would lead what you say. If we focus solely on trying to keep a conversation going, we will blurt out whatever comes to mind just to carry the conversation. We will likely end up saying something we shouldn't just to fill the void, such as gossip, a secret, or a lie - just what the enemy is hoping!
Others of us like to be the center of attention. When we talk , we feel important because people are listening to us. However, the more we talk the more people really tune us out. Important, Godly ideas are ensnarled in our ramblings. It's just too much work for people to sift through all we say just to find the key ideas! Additionally, we might end up giving someone OUR opinion or advice, which does not necessarily align with God's word! Proverbs 18:2 states "A fool finds no pleasure in understanding, but delights in his own opinions."
A wise person listens to others. So much knowledge and insight can be gained when our mouths are shut. We can learn about the people God has placed in our paths by actively listening and understanding them. We can pray and then respond with true purpose, sharing what God would have us communicate. One sentence in a conversation can have an enormous impact for the Kingdom; whereas 20 minutes of rambling can lead us and others down the wrong path even into sin.
Let's work to become a community of wise women. Speak less; listen more. Not only will you hear what people around you are saying, but you will hear God guiding your speech for His glory!
March 20, 2013~ Contributor: Gena McCown~ God of Wonders
Do you find yourself caught in doubt? Have you ever wondered what God is doing in your life, circumstances or in the world around you?
I wonder what God is doing in this situation?
I wonder what God is trying to teach me?
I wonder when God is going to answer my prayers?
Most Christians will admit to a time in their life where they wondered about God and his plans.
Isaiah 55:8-9 (MSG) “I don't think the way you think. The way you work is not the way I work. For as the sky soars above the earth, so the way I work surpasses the way you work, and the way I think is beyond what you think.”.
It is comforting to me, in my moments of doubt and wonder, to cling to this scripture. I may never on this earth or in paradise know what God was doing, but God definitely knows what He has in store for us. However, I still can't help falling into moments of wonder.
I wonder what God sees in me? God sees what no one else sees, because He created me and He chose me to belong to Him. This has been part of His plan since the foundations of creation. (Ephesians 1:4-6 & Ephesians 1:11)
Ephesians 1:11 – We were chosen to belong to him. God decided to chose us long ago in keeping with his plan. He works out everything to fit his plan and purpose.
I wonder if God hears my prayers? God may not be appearing to answer your prayers, but what you may not see is what God is doing in the background. We have to trust that He has our best interest at heart, and that all things will be done in His perfect timing. Our prayers will be answered according to His will, not our own.
Jeremiah 17:7-8 – Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by the water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when the heat comes, for it's leaves remain green , and it is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.
I wonder what God has planned for me? If God does see something in me, if His ways are not my ways, and God is hearing my prayers.... then what exactly is it that God is doing in my life? What does he have planned? Scripture tells us that God knows us well.
Psalm 139:-4 – O Lord, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise, you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down, you are familiar with my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely.
God knows what we are capable of on our own, and what we are capable of when we let Him guide us. He takes our natural gifts and magnifies them. He equips those He calls & at the appointed time He has called them.
I wonder if others can see what God is doing? Sometimes we begin to wonder if others can see what God is doing, even when we can't. We may be getting better at our prayer life, digging into the Word more, attending church regularly... but are we really different? Are others able to see Christ in us? Are we a good representation of Christ in the world? Growth and change take time. Others may see changes long before we recognize them. But God is working in us so that we become that “new creation” spoken about in 2 Corinthians 5:17. As we grow, God will move us along in His plan. It is a journey, and for some of us the journey will be longer than others.
Colossians 1:10-11 – And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience.
I wonder if God really cares about me? I am just one little person in this big world. God cares so much about us, He sent is own son to die on a cross for each of us. You and me. He has known every day we would live before the first was written. He created us, knitting us together in our mother's womb (Psalm 139:13). He puts support in place for us, to help us on our journey through this life. This support comes in the form of the Holy Spirit within us, His Word that we can depend on and learn from, our Church and sisters in Christ that we can lean on and grown with.
I wonder what will happen if and when I mess up? I am not perfect. In the parable of the prodigal son, we see a son who was raised just like his brothers... but went off on his own path. But when he returns home, his father accepts him, arms wide open and tends to all his needs. (Luke 15)
God isn't finished with us yet. We will stumble and fall sometimes, but God doesn't give up on us. He welcomes us back with open arms.
I wonder what I ever did to deserve the love that God has for me? Nothing.
God loves us, because God is love (John 4:8)
God loves us, because God created us. (Genesis 1:26-28)
He loves us when we don't love him. He is faithful to the faithless (2 Tim 2:13)
I wonder if God knows how much I love him and how thankful I am for his blessings in my life?
What are you doing in your life to answer that question?
I wonder what God is doing in this situation?
I wonder what God is trying to teach me?
I wonder when God is going to answer my prayers?
Most Christians will admit to a time in their life where they wondered about God and his plans.
Isaiah 55:8-9 (MSG) “I don't think the way you think. The way you work is not the way I work. For as the sky soars above the earth, so the way I work surpasses the way you work, and the way I think is beyond what you think.”.
It is comforting to me, in my moments of doubt and wonder, to cling to this scripture. I may never on this earth or in paradise know what God was doing, but God definitely knows what He has in store for us. However, I still can't help falling into moments of wonder.
I wonder what God sees in me? God sees what no one else sees, because He created me and He chose me to belong to Him. This has been part of His plan since the foundations of creation. (Ephesians 1:4-6 & Ephesians 1:11)
Ephesians 1:11 – We were chosen to belong to him. God decided to chose us long ago in keeping with his plan. He works out everything to fit his plan and purpose.
I wonder if God hears my prayers? God may not be appearing to answer your prayers, but what you may not see is what God is doing in the background. We have to trust that He has our best interest at heart, and that all things will be done in His perfect timing. Our prayers will be answered according to His will, not our own.
Jeremiah 17:7-8 – Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by the water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when the heat comes, for it's leaves remain green , and it is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.
I wonder what God has planned for me? If God does see something in me, if His ways are not my ways, and God is hearing my prayers.... then what exactly is it that God is doing in my life? What does he have planned? Scripture tells us that God knows us well.
Psalm 139:-4 – O Lord, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise, you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down, you are familiar with my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely.
God knows what we are capable of on our own, and what we are capable of when we let Him guide us. He takes our natural gifts and magnifies them. He equips those He calls & at the appointed time He has called them.
I wonder if others can see what God is doing? Sometimes we begin to wonder if others can see what God is doing, even when we can't. We may be getting better at our prayer life, digging into the Word more, attending church regularly... but are we really different? Are others able to see Christ in us? Are we a good representation of Christ in the world? Growth and change take time. Others may see changes long before we recognize them. But God is working in us so that we become that “new creation” spoken about in 2 Corinthians 5:17. As we grow, God will move us along in His plan. It is a journey, and for some of us the journey will be longer than others.
Colossians 1:10-11 – And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience.
I wonder if God really cares about me? I am just one little person in this big world. God cares so much about us, He sent is own son to die on a cross for each of us. You and me. He has known every day we would live before the first was written. He created us, knitting us together in our mother's womb (Psalm 139:13). He puts support in place for us, to help us on our journey through this life. This support comes in the form of the Holy Spirit within us, His Word that we can depend on and learn from, our Church and sisters in Christ that we can lean on and grown with.
I wonder what will happen if and when I mess up? I am not perfect. In the parable of the prodigal son, we see a son who was raised just like his brothers... but went off on his own path. But when he returns home, his father accepts him, arms wide open and tends to all his needs. (Luke 15)
God isn't finished with us yet. We will stumble and fall sometimes, but God doesn't give up on us. He welcomes us back with open arms.
I wonder what I ever did to deserve the love that God has for me? Nothing.
God loves us, because God is love (John 4:8)
God loves us, because God created us. (Genesis 1:26-28)
He loves us when we don't love him. He is faithful to the faithless (2 Tim 2:13)
I wonder if God knows how much I love him and how thankful I am for his blessings in my life?
What are you doing in your life to answer that question?
March 13, 2013 ~ Contributor: Laura Masoner ~ The Wrong Side of the Road
My husband and I were riding our motorcycles on a 2 lane road in Fort Pierce last week, when a line of cars trickled toward us one by one as they exited a blind curve in the road ahead. As the fourth car emerged, it was clear that it entered our lane attempting to pass the car in front of him, and was heading straight for us. We simultaneously decelerated or bikes, waiting for the car to move back into its place in line and abort his action. Instead, the car continued to accelerate toward us, still trying to pass the car in front of him. The road had no shoulder, just a drop off that would have caused one (defiantly me) or both of us to go down, but it was a better option than a head on collision. As we inched our way to the side of the road nearing the drop off and barely 2 seconds away, the car was able to move back into its proper lane thanks to the driver in front who slowed his vehicle and helped to avert danger.There have been countless times in my life where I’ve started down the wrong side of the road.
Sadly, many times I continued in the wrong lane putting myself and those close to me in harm’s way. As I continue to grow spiritually, I am finally learning by the power of the Holy Spirit not only to recognize the wrong path, but to acknowledge that I’m on it and then to stop careening down the wrong lane. Just as that driver knew very well he was close to causing a head on collision, I’ve sped down a road of sin but discounted the idea that there would be repercussions if I remained on that road. My problem has not been stupidity or ignorance of sin, it has been denial. I either denied that it was sin by rationalizing it away, or denied that there would be a consequence for me because let’s face it, I’m a well-meaning good person, right?
For those of you who can relate, you know the painful lessons that come from going our own way. I am ever so thankful that my God has given me those consequences, however painful, to teach me to move back to where I belong when I stray into the wrong lane. He keeps me from destruction and utter ruin and restores me. If you find yourself on a road that just doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t, and you don’t need to keep going. Stop where you are, it is never too late. Submerse yourself in the Word and in prayer, and cling to a Holy God who will lead you to victory.
Stern discipline awaits anyone who leaves the path; the one who hates correction will die - Proverbs 15:10
Sadly, many times I continued in the wrong lane putting myself and those close to me in harm’s way. As I continue to grow spiritually, I am finally learning by the power of the Holy Spirit not only to recognize the wrong path, but to acknowledge that I’m on it and then to stop careening down the wrong lane. Just as that driver knew very well he was close to causing a head on collision, I’ve sped down a road of sin but discounted the idea that there would be repercussions if I remained on that road. My problem has not been stupidity or ignorance of sin, it has been denial. I either denied that it was sin by rationalizing it away, or denied that there would be a consequence for me because let’s face it, I’m a well-meaning good person, right?
For those of you who can relate, you know the painful lessons that come from going our own way. I am ever so thankful that my God has given me those consequences, however painful, to teach me to move back to where I belong when I stray into the wrong lane. He keeps me from destruction and utter ruin and restores me. If you find yourself on a road that just doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t, and you don’t need to keep going. Stop where you are, it is never too late. Submerse yourself in the Word and in prayer, and cling to a Holy God who will lead you to victory.
Stern discipline awaits anyone who leaves the path; the one who hates correction will die - Proverbs 15:10
March 6, 2013 ~ Contributor Pamela Newton : Stirring the Nest
In a desert landhe found him, in a barren and howling waste. He shielded him and cared for him; he guarded him as the apple of his eye, like an eagle that stirs up its nest and hovers over its young,
that spreads its wings to catch them and carries them on its pinions.
Deut 32: 10, 11 NIV
God found us. He found me and you in the desolate and comfortless place in which all humans are before the grace of God finds us. We’ve been rescued!
Can you remember what it felt like to live your life without God?
Just like the Israelites, God surrounds us on every side. He directs us, He moves us. He protects us.
These verses say the Israelites were the apple of His eye. As the apple of his eye, as His favorite child.
How do you treat someone who is the apple of your eye? How do you treat a “favorite” child or grandchild or relative?
With special care and diligence, tenderness, favor. You would show special attention and give extra time and gifts.
This is how God is with us. We are the apple of God’s eye-His favored and special people. What a picture of God we see in the verse!!!!
Now imagine God as the eagle and us as the chicks in the nest. God says it’s time to fly on our own. He stirs the nest carefully to make it
uncomfortable.
How is God stirring your nest? Money, finances, relationship, emotions, addictions?
What keeps you in the nest?
3 Things that keep us in the nest:
1. fear
2. the way we were disease
3. unbelief
Luke 13 34"O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as
a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!
So how do we overcome fear and unbelief? 3 things that will help us leave the nest:
1. Remember it is God’s stirring
2. Remember I can trust God
3. Remember God will catch me if I fall
After a forest fire in Yellowstone National Park, Forest Rangers began their trek up a mountain to evaluate the fire’s damage. One ranger found a bird literally
petrified in ashes, perched statuesquely on the ground at the base of a tree. Somewhat sickened by the eerie sight, he knocked over the bird with a stick.
When he gently struck it, three tiny chicks scurried from under their dead mother's wings. The loving mother, keenly aware of impending disaster, had
carried her offspring to the base of the tree and had gathered them under her wings, instinctively knowing that the toxic smoke would rise. She could have
flown to safety but had refused to abandon her babies. When the blaze had arrived and the heat had scorched her small body, the mother had remained
steadfast. Because she had been willing to die, those under the cover of her wings would live.
How will you respond to God’s Stirring? How will I respond to God’s stirring? In faith or unbelief?
that spreads its wings to catch them and carries them on its pinions.
Deut 32: 10, 11 NIV
God found us. He found me and you in the desolate and comfortless place in which all humans are before the grace of God finds us. We’ve been rescued!
Can you remember what it felt like to live your life without God?
Just like the Israelites, God surrounds us on every side. He directs us, He moves us. He protects us.
These verses say the Israelites were the apple of His eye. As the apple of his eye, as His favorite child.
How do you treat someone who is the apple of your eye? How do you treat a “favorite” child or grandchild or relative?
With special care and diligence, tenderness, favor. You would show special attention and give extra time and gifts.
This is how God is with us. We are the apple of God’s eye-His favored and special people. What a picture of God we see in the verse!!!!
Now imagine God as the eagle and us as the chicks in the nest. God says it’s time to fly on our own. He stirs the nest carefully to make it
uncomfortable.
How is God stirring your nest? Money, finances, relationship, emotions, addictions?
What keeps you in the nest?
3 Things that keep us in the nest:
1. fear
2. the way we were disease
3. unbelief
Luke 13 34"O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as
a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!
So how do we overcome fear and unbelief? 3 things that will help us leave the nest:
1. Remember it is God’s stirring
2. Remember I can trust God
3. Remember God will catch me if I fall
After a forest fire in Yellowstone National Park, Forest Rangers began their trek up a mountain to evaluate the fire’s damage. One ranger found a bird literally
petrified in ashes, perched statuesquely on the ground at the base of a tree. Somewhat sickened by the eerie sight, he knocked over the bird with a stick.
When he gently struck it, three tiny chicks scurried from under their dead mother's wings. The loving mother, keenly aware of impending disaster, had
carried her offspring to the base of the tree and had gathered them under her wings, instinctively knowing that the toxic smoke would rise. She could have
flown to safety but had refused to abandon her babies. When the blaze had arrived and the heat had scorched her small body, the mother had remained
steadfast. Because she had been willing to die, those under the cover of her wings would live.
How will you respond to God’s Stirring? How will I respond to God’s stirring? In faith or unbelief?
February 27, 2013 ~ Contributor: Jen Chevalier ~ The Potter ~
The Potter
There are several traps that women fall into, during their walk with Christ. As I studied the various scriptures that refer to pottery, this week, I was able to recognize the traps as well as the type of person God wants us to be. How could I recognize the traps? Because I've fallen into all of them at different points in my life and I continue to fight to keep myself from falling back into them! So, I write this out of experience and humility, not out of judgment.
TRAP #1: The Dry/Cracked Woman
Picture a sculpture, made out of clay, left to dry in the sun. As the moisture is wicked from the clay, the sculpture dries, and develops significant cracks and damage. This is described in Isaiah 29:16:
You turn things upside down, as if the potter were thought to be like the clay! Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, "He did not make me"? Can the pot say of the potter "He knows nothing"?
This is representative of the woman who controls everything in her world! She is too busy and self-reliant to allow God to step in and take charge of her life. Instead, she controls all the major decisions and relationships. She may view her controlling tendencies in a positive light, because she is highly productive, organized, and efficient. Without letting God take the reins, though, she is setting herself up for failure. She will become over-burdened, exhausted, and distant from God. She is not allowing God to penetrate her life and fill in the cracks.
TRAP #2: The Lumpy Woman
Imagine, now, a clump of clay that has good spots mixed with hard lumps. You notice parts of the clay are perfect for sculpting, while other parts are discolored or hardened. This connects to Romans 9:21:
Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use?
This is manifested in two ways. This is either the woman who focuses on what she DOESN'T have in comparison to others OR this is the person who feels SUPERIOR to others and is judgmental. Some of us are "common" people and some of us have a more "noble" position in society. Some are thin, some are overweight; some are wealthy, some are poor; some are powerful, some are meek; some are healthy, some are ill. Either way, God made you to be you! Decide to embrace who you are in Christ and be thankful that God made you the way He did. Learn to have nothing but compassion and kindness towards other women because they, too, were formed by God. You are no better and no worse than anyone else.
TRAP#3: The Statuesque Woman
Ah, the statuesque woman. Picture a beautiful figurine, perfectly painted and glazed; an image of perfection. Yet, as you look closely, you see an opening at the base and see that the statue is completely hollow. Psalm 2:9 states:
You will rule them with an iron scepter; you will dash them to pieces like pottery.
This woman is broken and empty inside, but is skilled at hiding it all. She works tirelessly to put up a good front; despite her brokenness. Her life looks perfect; perfect marriage; perfect kids; perfect appearance. She never tells people about the struggles she faces, however, fearing that she will be rejected. She has a lot of "friends" yet no one really knows her. She worries that God, too, will reject her. She won't seek help and falls more deeply into distress every day. She ultimately worries that she will be dashed to pieces either by God or the world.
THE MOLD-ABLE WOMAN
Behold! In front of you sits a nice sculpture, made out of clay, which retains its moisture and remains pliable.
Yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay , you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand. - Isaiah 64:8
"O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?" declares the Lord. "Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel." - Jeremiah 18:6
This is the woman we should strive to become. We need to be mold-able! We need to be in close relationship with God. We should study His Word daily, so that we have knowledge and understanding of Him. God will speak to us directly through His Word and during prayer and quiet time. Let's allow Him to guide our lives and change who we are to better reflect Him to others.
There are several traps that women fall into, during their walk with Christ. As I studied the various scriptures that refer to pottery, this week, I was able to recognize the traps as well as the type of person God wants us to be. How could I recognize the traps? Because I've fallen into all of them at different points in my life and I continue to fight to keep myself from falling back into them! So, I write this out of experience and humility, not out of judgment.
TRAP #1: The Dry/Cracked Woman
Picture a sculpture, made out of clay, left to dry in the sun. As the moisture is wicked from the clay, the sculpture dries, and develops significant cracks and damage. This is described in Isaiah 29:16:
You turn things upside down, as if the potter were thought to be like the clay! Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, "He did not make me"? Can the pot say of the potter "He knows nothing"?
This is representative of the woman who controls everything in her world! She is too busy and self-reliant to allow God to step in and take charge of her life. Instead, she controls all the major decisions and relationships. She may view her controlling tendencies in a positive light, because she is highly productive, organized, and efficient. Without letting God take the reins, though, she is setting herself up for failure. She will become over-burdened, exhausted, and distant from God. She is not allowing God to penetrate her life and fill in the cracks.
TRAP #2: The Lumpy Woman
Imagine, now, a clump of clay that has good spots mixed with hard lumps. You notice parts of the clay are perfect for sculpting, while other parts are discolored or hardened. This connects to Romans 9:21:
Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use?
This is manifested in two ways. This is either the woman who focuses on what she DOESN'T have in comparison to others OR this is the person who feels SUPERIOR to others and is judgmental. Some of us are "common" people and some of us have a more "noble" position in society. Some are thin, some are overweight; some are wealthy, some are poor; some are powerful, some are meek; some are healthy, some are ill. Either way, God made you to be you! Decide to embrace who you are in Christ and be thankful that God made you the way He did. Learn to have nothing but compassion and kindness towards other women because they, too, were formed by God. You are no better and no worse than anyone else.
TRAP#3: The Statuesque Woman
Ah, the statuesque woman. Picture a beautiful figurine, perfectly painted and glazed; an image of perfection. Yet, as you look closely, you see an opening at the base and see that the statue is completely hollow. Psalm 2:9 states:
You will rule them with an iron scepter; you will dash them to pieces like pottery.
This woman is broken and empty inside, but is skilled at hiding it all. She works tirelessly to put up a good front; despite her brokenness. Her life looks perfect; perfect marriage; perfect kids; perfect appearance. She never tells people about the struggles she faces, however, fearing that she will be rejected. She has a lot of "friends" yet no one really knows her. She worries that God, too, will reject her. She won't seek help and falls more deeply into distress every day. She ultimately worries that she will be dashed to pieces either by God or the world.
THE MOLD-ABLE WOMAN
Behold! In front of you sits a nice sculpture, made out of clay, which retains its moisture and remains pliable.
Yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay , you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand. - Isaiah 64:8
"O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?" declares the Lord. "Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel." - Jeremiah 18:6
This is the woman we should strive to become. We need to be mold-able! We need to be in close relationship with God. We should study His Word daily, so that we have knowledge and understanding of Him. God will speak to us directly through His Word and during prayer and quiet time. Let's allow Him to guide our lives and change who we are to better reflect Him to others.
Feb 20, 2013 ~ Contributor: Carol Mularski
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things. Philippians 4:8
Think about the positives.
Funny. We actually need a commandment to tell us to do this. Why is that?
Many sources will tell you the brain gives more attention to the negative experiences over positive ones because negative events pose a change of danger. In other words, by default, the brain alerts itself to potential threats to the environment. Therefore, thinking on the negative comes easy! I certainly have no problem finding what's wrong in the world. I find myself tempted to go there, even when I pray. I can point out everything that needs to be fixed, and believe me the list goes on and on.
The good news is, we do have the ability to choose what we set our minds on. Rather than dwelling on those negative things that consume us, depress us, and perhaps even tempt us, let's dwell on the One who is the fulfillment of all that is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy. He can raise the dead; He can calm the storms; He can create something out of nothing; He can make time stand still; He can make a way when there appears to be no way. Nothing is too difficult for God. Marvel at the way He leaves His fingerprints in this fallen world!
Join me in countering those negative, fearful thoughts, by focusing our minds on the One who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine! (Eph 3:20)
Be careful what you think!
Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him."
The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him,
to the one who seeks him;
~Lamentations 3:22:25
Think about the positives.
Funny. We actually need a commandment to tell us to do this. Why is that?
Many sources will tell you the brain gives more attention to the negative experiences over positive ones because negative events pose a change of danger. In other words, by default, the brain alerts itself to potential threats to the environment. Therefore, thinking on the negative comes easy! I certainly have no problem finding what's wrong in the world. I find myself tempted to go there, even when I pray. I can point out everything that needs to be fixed, and believe me the list goes on and on.
The good news is, we do have the ability to choose what we set our minds on. Rather than dwelling on those negative things that consume us, depress us, and perhaps even tempt us, let's dwell on the One who is the fulfillment of all that is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy. He can raise the dead; He can calm the storms; He can create something out of nothing; He can make time stand still; He can make a way when there appears to be no way. Nothing is too difficult for God. Marvel at the way He leaves His fingerprints in this fallen world!
Join me in countering those negative, fearful thoughts, by focusing our minds on the One who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine! (Eph 3:20)
Be careful what you think!
Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him."
The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him,
to the one who seeks him;
~Lamentations 3:22:25
February 13, 2013 ~ Contributor: Susan Barber
Let's Stop and Truly Smell the Roses - It's Love Month
We think of February as the Love Month. A time to give gifts, cards, and share our love with others. Do we really need a special month to love others? In
Romans 12:9-10 it says: "Love must be sincere. Hate is evil: Cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above
yourselves." Wow! Love can be a challenge! This is a powerful verse. First, we need to love ourselves before we can love others. That can be difficult at
times because we often seek approval from people to make ourselves feel good. However, the truth is we must have the Holy Spirit within us to love
ourselves. Then we can love others. 1 John 4:12, says: "No one has ever seen God, if we love one another, God abides in us and His love has perfected us." So
we can truly begin to love others by the Holy Spirit that dwells within us. Yes, we love our family and friends, but what about the Others? Do we make an effort
to reach out to others or are we caught up in our daily "ME" routine?
Please reflect on this well known scripture 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
"Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always, trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
So, we should trust God to faithfully teach us something new about His personal way of loving. Being humble and compassionate in this fast paced world can be very rewarding. Having a personal relationship with God empowers us to love others above ourselves. The Holy Spirit gave us many gifts but the greatest of these is LOVE. I believe we must love the Lord with all of our hearts, soul, and our strength. 1 Peter 4:8 says: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
In conclusion, I have made myself a Love Bucket List.
MY LOVE BUCKET LIST
1. I'm going to look people in their eyes when they are talking. That person may be deeply hurt, feeling worthless, or just need someone to listen. Great time for me to be praying for them!
2. I'm going to smile at that person in line at the store. Perhaps start a lovely conversation with them. Who knows, they may not have spoken to a person in days.
3. I'm going to sit in church with someone I do not know and introduce myself. After church, I'll be looking for someone new to meet.
4. Each week, I'm going out in the community to help someone in need. They are easy to find!
What is your LOVE BUCKET LIST? Going on a mission's trip or find a friend to bring to church? Please reflect on your love for others not just this month but every day. If you want that supernatural Love, just take a big bite of God's fruit of the spirit of Love! Yum!
Love never fails.
We think of February as the Love Month. A time to give gifts, cards, and share our love with others. Do we really need a special month to love others? In
Romans 12:9-10 it says: "Love must be sincere. Hate is evil: Cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above
yourselves." Wow! Love can be a challenge! This is a powerful verse. First, we need to love ourselves before we can love others. That can be difficult at
times because we often seek approval from people to make ourselves feel good. However, the truth is we must have the Holy Spirit within us to love
ourselves. Then we can love others. 1 John 4:12, says: "No one has ever seen God, if we love one another, God abides in us and His love has perfected us." So
we can truly begin to love others by the Holy Spirit that dwells within us. Yes, we love our family and friends, but what about the Others? Do we make an effort
to reach out to others or are we caught up in our daily "ME" routine?
Please reflect on this well known scripture 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
"Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always, trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
So, we should trust God to faithfully teach us something new about His personal way of loving. Being humble and compassionate in this fast paced world can be very rewarding. Having a personal relationship with God empowers us to love others above ourselves. The Holy Spirit gave us many gifts but the greatest of these is LOVE. I believe we must love the Lord with all of our hearts, soul, and our strength. 1 Peter 4:8 says: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
In conclusion, I have made myself a Love Bucket List.
MY LOVE BUCKET LIST
1. I'm going to look people in their eyes when they are talking. That person may be deeply hurt, feeling worthless, or just need someone to listen. Great time for me to be praying for them!
2. I'm going to smile at that person in line at the store. Perhaps start a lovely conversation with them. Who knows, they may not have spoken to a person in days.
3. I'm going to sit in church with someone I do not know and introduce myself. After church, I'll be looking for someone new to meet.
4. Each week, I'm going out in the community to help someone in need. They are easy to find!
What is your LOVE BUCKET LIST? Going on a mission's trip or find a friend to bring to church? Please reflect on your love for others not just this month but every day. If you want that supernatural Love, just take a big bite of God's fruit of the spirit of Love! Yum!
Love never fails.
February 6, 2014 ~ A Word from the Women's Ministry
In November, the Women's Ministry held a brunch at the church. The topic of this brunch was "An Attitude of Gratitude" and all of the attendees were given a gratitude journal. This journal was nothing more than a monthly calendar, that you can find at any office supply store, dollar store, etc. The instructions were to use it to record one thing each day that you were grateful for. It could be one word, one sentence, one doodle representing what you are grateful for. The task would begin on January 1st, 2013.
It is now February 6th... how has your gratitude journal been coming along? Is it stuffed away in a drawer, forgotten. do you remember to do it occasionally and fill in several days at a time, are you being a faithful and entering something daily? Did you miss the brunch, but think this is a great idea & want to jump on board? Its not too late to start today!
Here are just a few reasons why you should....
Colossians 3:17 And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father.
Psalm 136:1 Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, his love endures forever.
1 Thessalonians 5:18 Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Ephesians 5:20 Giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Psalm 28:7 The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped, my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to him.
Recording daily thankfulness, provides us with a record of where God has worked wonders in our life. Plus, there is an added benefit to being purposefully grateful... the more you SEEK to be grateful, the more it will naturally come to you as you grow in faith.
It is now February 6th... how has your gratitude journal been coming along? Is it stuffed away in a drawer, forgotten. do you remember to do it occasionally and fill in several days at a time, are you being a faithful and entering something daily? Did you miss the brunch, but think this is a great idea & want to jump on board? Its not too late to start today!
Here are just a few reasons why you should....
Colossians 3:17 And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father.
Psalm 136:1 Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, his love endures forever.
1 Thessalonians 5:18 Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Ephesians 5:20 Giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Psalm 28:7 The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped, my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to him.
Recording daily thankfulness, provides us with a record of where God has worked wonders in our life. Plus, there is an added benefit to being purposefully grateful... the more you SEEK to be grateful, the more it will naturally come to you as you grow in faith.
January 30, 2013: Contributor ~ Gena McCown
Have you ever read a book for the second or even hundredth time and you catch some sort of small detail that seemed to escape you in all the previous readings? You wonder how you could miss it, since it was there all along... in black and white. Plain as day. Yet until this very moment, it never stood out. I believe this happens not because the book or story has change (that is impossible) but because the reader has changed. They have grown as a person, their life experiences have changed and perhaps there have been people who have influenced the reader to see things differently or even pointed out the hidden jewel.
Scripture is called the “Living Word” because the Word lives within us. In a printed Bible, the chapter and verses do not change. They are constant, unchanging. Just like God. Yet we can take a verse that we learned in Sunday school, that has been repeatedly read, taught and referenced over a life time... and suddenly, one day, see it in a whole new light. This recently happened to me regarding John 4:1-42, the classic Samaritan Woman at the Well story.
Every time I have read this passage or about it, it has come from the point of view of the woman. How broken she was, her shame and her guilt keeping her separated from her community; and a pattern of repeated mistakes. I think this is common because we can all related to the woman at the well. It was during Sunday service, that Pastor Gordon took this piece of scripture and presented it form the point of view of Jesus & related it to our own experiences in evangelism.
I am not going to repeat the service, you were there or can watch it on the church's vimeo channel. We wrapped up with verse 41, where she has brought the towns people back to Jesus & “because of his words, many more became believers”. It was in my continuing to read through verse 42 that I found my hidden jewel.
John 4:42 They said to the woman, “we no longer believer just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves and we know that this man is the Savior of the world.”
In the passage we read that when Jesus revealed to her who he was, she left the well, leaving her water jar behind. She went to the town and told the people of her encounter.
She left more than her water jar at that well. She left her shame, her guilt, her past, her mistakes behind. All of the things that kept her isolated from her community, were no longer important. Her encounter with Jesus was greater than any of those things. To the point that she would run back to town and tell everyone.
AND THEY BELIEVED HER!
* Have you ever found yourself, stuck at the well? Trying to avoid your past, hide your guilt and shame? Avoid those who you feel will judge you?
Psalm 103:11-12 (NIV) – For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Our sins are washed away, we are made a new creature in Christ, we are filled with the Holy Spirit and find our confidence and strength in HIM!
* Have you worried or doubted your ability to share the Word with others, because you think that you are unqualified? Or, that your history has ruined your credibility?
1 Corinthians 4:20 – For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk, but of power.
The Lord will give you the strength to do what He has asked of you, He equips the called.
* The Lord softened the Pharaoh’s heart to listen to Moses and if we ask of Him, and have faith in Him... the same will be done for those we encounter! They will believe.
John 4:42 - They said to the woman, “we no longer believer just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man is the Savior of the world.”
Some of use will be called to plant seeds, some will tend to the fields, and others will work the harvest.
But, all things will be used for the glory of God.... even those things that bring us to well. Find your power in Him, pray for His hand to guide you, and leave your water jar at the well. You do not need it any more. Be filled with the Living Waters.... see the Word through new eyes. You have walked away from your sin. You do not need to be a Pastor or teacher, just a person who is willing to tell others about your encounter with Jesus
Scripture is called the “Living Word” because the Word lives within us. In a printed Bible, the chapter and verses do not change. They are constant, unchanging. Just like God. Yet we can take a verse that we learned in Sunday school, that has been repeatedly read, taught and referenced over a life time... and suddenly, one day, see it in a whole new light. This recently happened to me regarding John 4:1-42, the classic Samaritan Woman at the Well story.
Every time I have read this passage or about it, it has come from the point of view of the woman. How broken she was, her shame and her guilt keeping her separated from her community; and a pattern of repeated mistakes. I think this is common because we can all related to the woman at the well. It was during Sunday service, that Pastor Gordon took this piece of scripture and presented it form the point of view of Jesus & related it to our own experiences in evangelism.
I am not going to repeat the service, you were there or can watch it on the church's vimeo channel. We wrapped up with verse 41, where she has brought the towns people back to Jesus & “because of his words, many more became believers”. It was in my continuing to read through verse 42 that I found my hidden jewel.
John 4:42 They said to the woman, “we no longer believer just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves and we know that this man is the Savior of the world.”
In the passage we read that when Jesus revealed to her who he was, she left the well, leaving her water jar behind. She went to the town and told the people of her encounter.
She left more than her water jar at that well. She left her shame, her guilt, her past, her mistakes behind. All of the things that kept her isolated from her community, were no longer important. Her encounter with Jesus was greater than any of those things. To the point that she would run back to town and tell everyone.
AND THEY BELIEVED HER!
* Have you ever found yourself, stuck at the well? Trying to avoid your past, hide your guilt and shame? Avoid those who you feel will judge you?
Psalm 103:11-12 (NIV) – For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Our sins are washed away, we are made a new creature in Christ, we are filled with the Holy Spirit and find our confidence and strength in HIM!
* Have you worried or doubted your ability to share the Word with others, because you think that you are unqualified? Or, that your history has ruined your credibility?
1 Corinthians 4:20 – For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk, but of power.
The Lord will give you the strength to do what He has asked of you, He equips the called.
* The Lord softened the Pharaoh’s heart to listen to Moses and if we ask of Him, and have faith in Him... the same will be done for those we encounter! They will believe.
John 4:42 - They said to the woman, “we no longer believer just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man is the Savior of the world.”
Some of use will be called to plant seeds, some will tend to the fields, and others will work the harvest.
But, all things will be used for the glory of God.... even those things that bring us to well. Find your power in Him, pray for His hand to guide you, and leave your water jar at the well. You do not need it any more. Be filled with the Living Waters.... see the Word through new eyes. You have walked away from your sin. You do not need to be a Pastor or teacher, just a person who is willing to tell others about your encounter with Jesus
January 23, 2013: Contributor ~ Pamela Newton
Trust: Position or Response?
But I trust in you, O LORD; I say, 'You are my God. Psalm 31:14
Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God. Ps. 20:7
But, I trust. But, we trust.
My 22 year old daughter has moved in with us. Her due date is less than a month away. She will be a single mom. In many ways I am excited. In some ways, I have fears and anxiety for myself and for her as a single mom. In my situation, what I really want to say to God is, "I need to trust You more than ever." Yet my soul and my mouth don't know how to connect that thought.
I need to trust You, God.
Why is trusting God so hard?
The obvious answer is, you can't see Him.
Then there's the sensible rebuttal, He's mysterious.
Or the overused answer, God's ways are just not our ways.
But today I'm thinking that trusting God is so much more than just a position we accept.
Trusting God is a place of response.
God is telling me I will need to respond with trust. Another word used for response in the handy thesaurus is react. When my fears or anxiety kick in I must react and respond with trust. This is where the rubber meets the road. This is when trusting becomes more than words or a position of inactivity. It becomes a response of
saying, “I choose to trust you in the here and now God. I will respond with and in trust.”
Praying to trust:
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to believe that You work all things out for my good. (Romans 8:28)
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to fight this battle I am facing. (Exodus 14:14)
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to be my God who provides beyond my limitations. (Philippians 4:19)
Reflect and Respond
Trusting God is so much more than just a position we accept. Trusting God is a place of response.
What do you think?
But I trust in you, O LORD; I say, 'You are my God. Psalm 31:14
Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God. Ps. 20:7
But, I trust. But, we trust.
My 22 year old daughter has moved in with us. Her due date is less than a month away. She will be a single mom. In many ways I am excited. In some ways, I have fears and anxiety for myself and for her as a single mom. In my situation, what I really want to say to God is, "I need to trust You more than ever." Yet my soul and my mouth don't know how to connect that thought.
I need to trust You, God.
Why is trusting God so hard?
The obvious answer is, you can't see Him.
Then there's the sensible rebuttal, He's mysterious.
Or the overused answer, God's ways are just not our ways.
But today I'm thinking that trusting God is so much more than just a position we accept.
Trusting God is a place of response.
God is telling me I will need to respond with trust. Another word used for response in the handy thesaurus is react. When my fears or anxiety kick in I must react and respond with trust. This is where the rubber meets the road. This is when trusting becomes more than words or a position of inactivity. It becomes a response of
saying, “I choose to trust you in the here and now God. I will respond with and in trust.”
Praying to trust:
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to believe that You work all things out for my good. (Romans 8:28)
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to fight this battle I am facing. (Exodus 14:14)
Jesus, I need to trust You more than ever to be my God who provides beyond my limitations. (Philippians 4:19)
Reflect and Respond
Trusting God is so much more than just a position we accept. Trusting God is a place of response.
What do you think?
January 16, 2013: Contributor ~ Laura Masoner
The words “it was credited to him” were written not for him alone, 24 but also for us, to whom God will credit righteousness—for us who believe in him who raised Jesus our Lord from the dead. – Romans 4:23-24
Romans chapter 4 was written not only for the early Christian church, but for me and for every believer in Christ today. God does not sit upon his throne sliding a bead across a large abacus to record each time we commit a sin. If God counts anything, He is counting the opportunities that we have to believe Him and exercise our faith. I cannot say that I am walking by faith and continue to live my life in a stronghold of sin. This kind of slavery is contrary to the life of freedom God intended for His children.
What I’ve discovered is that every stronghold of sin in my life has been rooted in unbelief. Many times it is a lie whispered in my ear by the enemy that I come to believe about myself. Some things are a result of the tape in my head that plays the same mantra over and over again keeping me in defeat. I hear familiar words like I’m stupid, clumsy, unwanted, unlikeable, not pretty, damaged goods, and the list goes on… Some sins are deeds that I’d kept as my secret, admitting them to God but denying them before the world.
How can we be released from bondage and live in freedom, to have life and have it more abundantly as Christ promised? God will reveal the lies that are holding us captive if we ask Him. He reveals these precious truths through His word which strips away the white noise and takes us to the truth of who He knows we are, and not who we think we are. No more will we deal with sin using halfway measures, justifications, and excuses, but we learn to deal with it openly and honestly. We will know that we are treasured, loved, beautiful, pure and holy women created in the image of the Most High God, the creator of all things and giver of life. With our sins left firmly in the past, He teaches us that no desire is worth what it takes away from us so that we have the power to live in victory going forward.
Sisters, pursue God with everything you have. Ask Him to reveal the lies of the enemy and the sins that keep us from joyful and abundant living in Christ. Be in God’s word every day, and if it seems more like a task or a “to do list”, ask Him to turn your feeling of duty into delight. Ask him to strengthen your faith and to reveal His truth to you. Faith is credited as righteousness to us, let us throw away that imaginary abacus and live a righteous faithful life in Christ
Romans chapter 4 was written not only for the early Christian church, but for me and for every believer in Christ today. God does not sit upon his throne sliding a bead across a large abacus to record each time we commit a sin. If God counts anything, He is counting the opportunities that we have to believe Him and exercise our faith. I cannot say that I am walking by faith and continue to live my life in a stronghold of sin. This kind of slavery is contrary to the life of freedom God intended for His children.
What I’ve discovered is that every stronghold of sin in my life has been rooted in unbelief. Many times it is a lie whispered in my ear by the enemy that I come to believe about myself. Some things are a result of the tape in my head that plays the same mantra over and over again keeping me in defeat. I hear familiar words like I’m stupid, clumsy, unwanted, unlikeable, not pretty, damaged goods, and the list goes on… Some sins are deeds that I’d kept as my secret, admitting them to God but denying them before the world.
How can we be released from bondage and live in freedom, to have life and have it more abundantly as Christ promised? God will reveal the lies that are holding us captive if we ask Him. He reveals these precious truths through His word which strips away the white noise and takes us to the truth of who He knows we are, and not who we think we are. No more will we deal with sin using halfway measures, justifications, and excuses, but we learn to deal with it openly and honestly. We will know that we are treasured, loved, beautiful, pure and holy women created in the image of the Most High God, the creator of all things and giver of life. With our sins left firmly in the past, He teaches us that no desire is worth what it takes away from us so that we have the power to live in victory going forward.
Sisters, pursue God with everything you have. Ask Him to reveal the lies of the enemy and the sins that keep us from joyful and abundant living in Christ. Be in God’s word every day, and if it seems more like a task or a “to do list”, ask Him to turn your feeling of duty into delight. Ask him to strengthen your faith and to reveal His truth to you. Faith is credited as righteousness to us, let us throw away that imaginary abacus and live a righteous faithful life in Christ